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A sexless marriage is one of the deepest wounds a man can carry. It leaves you feeling unwanted, unseen, and rejected. But you are not broken for wanting sex. You are not wrong for craving connection. You are human.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we walk step by step through The Secure Husband Process to help you heal, reclaim your strength, and stop making your worth depend on whether or not your wife initiates intimacy again.
You will learn:
Why sexless marriage cuts so deeply into a man’s identity
How to notice the painful stories you tell yourself about her lack of desire
Why trying to earn sex through “doing more” actually harms your dignity
How to connect with the boy inside you who feels unlovable without touch
How to see your wife’s avoidance with curiosity instead of blame
How to express your truth without pressure or guilt
Why healing must be for you first — not just to “fix” the marriage
Brother, you are not alone. You don’t have to live in silent shame, resentment, or despair. You can heal. You can reclaim your self-worth. You can learn to lead yourself with calm strength, even in the face of rejection.
If this message speaks to you, I invite you to sign up for a free 30-minute consultation. It’s not a sales pitch and there’s no pressure — just a conversation about what’s happening in your marriage and how coaching might help. We’ll see if it’s a good fit and how I can support you.
If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.
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#MarriageAdvice
#RelationshipHealing
#SelfWorth
#InnerChildHealing
#MensMentalHealth
#SelfLoveJourney
#EmotionalHealing
#OvercomeRejection
#HealthyMasculinity
#MarriageCoaching
#StopPeoplePleasing
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#preoccupiedattachment
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#avoidantattachment
All content is for informational purposes only and does not provide medical or psychological diagnosis or treatment. Always consult your physician before starting any treatment or therapy. This includes all content on this site, email, blogs, podcasts, social media, and events. Nothing shared constitutes medical or legal advice. Use of this information is at your own risk.
By M. Bruce Abbott, M.A, CPC5
1717 ratings
A sexless marriage is one of the deepest wounds a man can carry. It leaves you feeling unwanted, unseen, and rejected. But you are not broken for wanting sex. You are not wrong for craving connection. You are human.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we walk step by step through The Secure Husband Process to help you heal, reclaim your strength, and stop making your worth depend on whether or not your wife initiates intimacy again.
You will learn:
Why sexless marriage cuts so deeply into a man’s identity
How to notice the painful stories you tell yourself about her lack of desire
Why trying to earn sex through “doing more” actually harms your dignity
How to connect with the boy inside you who feels unlovable without touch
How to see your wife’s avoidance with curiosity instead of blame
How to express your truth without pressure or guilt
Why healing must be for you first — not just to “fix” the marriage
Brother, you are not alone. You don’t have to live in silent shame, resentment, or despair. You can heal. You can reclaim your self-worth. You can learn to lead yourself with calm strength, even in the face of rejection.
If this message speaks to you, I invite you to sign up for a free 30-minute consultation. It’s not a sales pitch and there’s no pressure — just a conversation about what’s happening in your marriage and how coaching might help. We’ll see if it’s a good fit and how I can support you.
If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.
#deadbedroom
#marriage
#sexlessmarriage
#MarriageHelp
#SaveYourMarriage
#SecureHusband
#MarriageAdvice
#RelationshipHealing
#SelfWorth
#InnerChildHealing
#MensMentalHealth
#SelfLoveJourney
#EmotionalHealing
#OvercomeRejection
#HealthyMasculinity
#MarriageCoaching
#StopPeoplePleasing
#SelfGrowth
#attachmenttheory
#attachmentstyles
#anxiousattachment
#preoccupiedattachment
#attachment
#avoidantattachment
All content is for informational purposes only and does not provide medical or psychological diagnosis or treatment. Always consult your physician before starting any treatment or therapy. This includes all content on this site, email, blogs, podcasts, social media, and events. Nothing shared constitutes medical or legal advice. Use of this information is at your own risk.

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