Today Kait and JJ have on Jason VanRuler to talk about reclaiming worth and value as a single through your own journey of healing. 

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Today JJ is bringing on the head pastor of The Way Church in Nashville, Noah Herrin, to talk about how to build holy habits. 

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Today Kait and JJ are joined by Dr. Gregory Coles to talk about celibacy, shifting our mindset around singleness, and how to flourish as a single person. 

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. . . . . 

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Today, as we’re gearing up for 2024, Kait and JJ are joined by School of Dating Coaches, Michael, Jeff, Lola, and Jayme to talk about what it’s like to start the New Year single. 

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Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

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Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

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Today, JJ is getting really pracital with you guys and breaking down how to shoot your shot in the DMs. 

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Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

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Today Kait & JJ are joined by Lacy Abercrombie to psycho-analyze The Holiday. 

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Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

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On today's episode Kait and JJ are answering your burning questions! These are questions our community submitted to be answered. Everything from who pays for dates to how to have romance while keeping physical boundaries, we're talking about it today!

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Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

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Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

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. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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In today’s episode JJ is talking about one bullet dating, the idea that you only get one shot in dating. We’re talking high stakes dating. 

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Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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Today Kait and JJ are talking all things meeting the parents, from when to meet them to how to prepare to meet them and more! 

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Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

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Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

Come hang with us on the gram:

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https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

Factor: This December, get Factor and enjoy eating well without the hassle. Head to factormeals.com/heartofdating50 and use code heartofdating50 to get 50% off!

Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

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Today JJ is picking up where we left off last week and unpacking the hallmark signs that you may be obsessed with a future spouse instead of preparing for them. 

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Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:

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Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!

https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library 

Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:

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Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast 

Come hang with us on the gram:

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http://instagram.com/kaitness

https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en

. . . . . 

A quick thank you to some of our friends!

Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating

Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single?

We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission.

http://compassion.com/heartofdating

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices