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Why are today's new generation opting out of having children at a rapid pace? Will our own children not want children? Should we care? How might this influence our well-being and sense of confidence as parents? Let's talk about the birth rate drop and what it means for us parents.

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Family togetherness is disintegrating. Family culture is a lost art. Family leadership is a lost skill. Feeling a sense of belonging is a lost way of life. Let's explore the 3 reasons why that's happening and what you can do to build an unbreakable family.

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You're not imagining it: there's an epidemic of narcissism. Like other epidemics, it's not easy to identify the precise cause of this one. In this episode, we're delving into the difference between destructive and healthy narcissism, the failure of the self-esteem movement, and the practical steps we can take as parents to raise resilient kids who are destined for meaningful relationships.

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Modern parenting trends dictate that we, as parents, must be authentic and help our children to "discover" their authentic selves. But what is "authentic"? The problem with this focus is that by staring at what you don't like about yourself, you're left feeling clueless about how to move forward.

You might never discover some "true authentic self" no matter how many therapy sessions, journals, or meditations you throw at it. Or you might be disappointed by what you do discover.

That's okay because as you'll hear me argue in this podcast, your authentic self is not someone to be "discovered", it's someone you can "design".

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Growth: The new purpose for marriage and reason for divorce.

You're about to hear me pushback on a popular trend that isn't helpful to our families. Before I begin I want you to know that there are many reasons that marriages end: legitimate reasons. Maybe you're considering it or maybe you've already got divorced, or are in the process. Maybe your divorce happened because you were deeply unhappy, irreparably disconnected, or perhaps worse. Some marriages need to end. There should not be shame around divorce.

In society today we're hearing a new reason for divorce pop up. This new reason seems to be used as a cover for something real, and if this is a thought that's capturing you, you'll probably want to face that real thing if you want a chance at holding on to your relationship, or at least before your next relationship. Because owning the truth, and facing the truth is the only way we can truly grow and move forward.

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Society seems to be in a war between the offensive and the offended; between those who attack with facts and logic and those who follow heart and soul; between those who think and those who feel.

Just like many things in our life, the pendulum often swings from one extreme to the other and often, in a generational way. Many of us grew up in homes with a very different approach to emotions and feeling than what's popular today.

Should we honor facts or feelings? In this episode, you'll learn why this false dichotomy is hurting our families and how you can harness both sides to raise resilient kids.

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Society is going to tell you that parenting is brutal and marriage is a bore (or worse). It will warn you about the sleepless nights, the stretch marks, and the cheerios in your hair. It will tell you that family life is exhausting, expensive, and full of sacrifice.

But do you ever get the feeling that 'there must be a better way?' Like there is something missing? Well, that's what we're going to address, right here.

Here, in Hi, Fam! we're going to give you a whole new perspective. We're going to help you craft a vision of family life that is meaningful, intentional, and even enjoyable. And offer the tools to put that vision into practice.

Today's episode is all about the first step to take to get your family life on track, to put the pep back in your step, and to face anything that comes your way throughout the day. Let's go!

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The truth is, what children need most are parents who feel good in their own skin, are well-cared for, and have great energy to tackle the day. The last thing they need are parents who feel resentful towards them for their own exhaustion.

In today's episode, I'm going to share 8 tips on how to infuse a little more 'selfishness' into your life, prioritizing yourself in key areas so you can feel like a healthy human again!

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[02:56] 1. Start the day with you

[05:12] 2. Eat for you

[08:06] 3. Consume content for you

[10:59] 4. Go places you enjoy

[13:06] 5. Organize your home for you

[15:03] It's ok to set limits

[16:00] 6. Shop for you

[17:12] 7. Make friends for you

[20:09] 8. Say no for you

[22:24] We don't have to entertain our kids or give them everything they want

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I've always been drawn to peaceful parenting, conscious parenting, gentle parenting - however, I have a temper! I get triggered. And most parents struggle with anger and yelling. The following parenting tips will help you minimize your triggers so you can love parenting and parent from love.

Don't stay stuck with the feeling that there's something wrong with you or something wrong with your child - let's break this down:

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0:00 How to Minimize Triggers

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5:06 Anger is natural, but acting out of anger is destructive.

5:45 We overcomplicate anger management.

7:55 Being angry is very similar to being drunk.

14:36 Prefrontal cortex vs. amygdala.

16:04 The feelings will pass.

17:20 Once it passes, we can think clearly again.

18:43 It's a great opportunity to model for our children.

19:19 We can teach our children to take a break and calm down.

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Feeling hatred toward your child is a symptom of a different problem.

This is a controversial and taboo topic, but it's not that uncommon for parents to sometimes feel disgusted and think or say "Go away!" "Leave me alone." "I don't like you." "I don't want you." "I don't love you." "I hate you!" towards their kids.

So what's causing that very uncomfortable sensation and feeling? Don't stay stuck with the feeling that there's something wrong with you or something wrong with your child - let's break this down:

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[02:14] Feeling hatred toward your child is a symptom of a different problem

[03:59] 1. This is normal

[05:57] Even though it's normal there are things we can do about it

[07:25] 2. Change is constant

[10:35] 3. Your child might be going through a hard time right now

[12:37] 4. YOU might be going through a hard time right now

[14:43] 5. You don't hate your child; you hate their behaviors or temperament

[17:12] 6. Take a break

[19:03] 7. Coach yourself

[20:16] 8. Inhibit yourself

[21:28] 9. Imagine it's your last day on earth

[22:42] 10. Envision your golden moments with your child

[24:00] 11. List out the things that are awesome about your child

[24:41] 12. Reframe their bad traits

[26:28] Correct their shadow side and celebrate their light side

[27:01] Traits we find difficult in childhood are often assets in adulthood

[27:20] 13. Engage in baby bonding behaviors

[28:22] 14. Use humor

[29:34] 15. Love is a choice

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