We’ve all heard the term “Hindsight is 20/20.” What does this mean? It means when we look back, we have a clearer vision of the choices we’ve made, the events in our lives, and can “see” with a better perspective. Looking back over the last 20 years of our marriage, I have learned so many things. In this episode I touch on a couple that I feel have been the most valuable for me. The biggest lesson I've learned...drop the manual. Sometimes we create manuals for the people in our lives, and they can cause frustration and disconnection. In this episode I talk about the manual and what I “saw” by dropping it.

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