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Holiday Dining Etiquette 2025 ✨How Not to Be "That" Guest


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Ep. 36 If you’re heading to a company party or client meal, this episode is your game plan to keep it classy—no awkward moments while dining! Dr. Pamala Brown-Grinion (international etiquette instructor) walks you through the small details that make a big impression—from arrival timing and attire to napkins, utensils, ordering, and alcohol limits.


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🎄Holiday Etiquette 2025 ✨How Not to Be "That" Guest

Key Takeaways:

  • 🕰️ Arrive (slightly) early without being that person who’s too early

  • 👔 Dress to the level of the event—and always look “meeting ready”

  • 📵 Keep phones, keys, and purses off the table

  • 🧻 Use your napkin and utensils like a pro (and spot which bread plate is yours)

  • 🥗 Order in line with the host and wait to eat until everyone is served

  • 🍷 Enjoy a drink without overdoing it—professionalism first

  • 💬 Navigate small talk, skip hot-button topics, and bow out gracefully

  • 🧾 Tip appropriately and thank the host the right way

    Quick Checklist ✅

    Arrive 5–10 minutes early • Wear a blazer-level look

    • Personal items off the table • Follow the host’s lead when ordering

    • Wait for all plates before eating • Pace your drink

    • Keep conversation light • Thank the host before you leave

    Connect with us!

    • Instagram: @iampamala

    • Facebook: Totally You-nique Educational Consultants, LLC 

    • LinkedIn: Dr. Pamala Brown-Grinion

    • TikTok: @TYECLLC

    • Website: Totallyyou-nique – Consulting

      Chapters

      0:00 Intro: Holiday Dining Faux Pas—Do’s & Don’ts

      0:48 Welcome to Grace & Grind
      2:30 Timing: Too Early vs. Too Late
      3:26 Dress Codes for Business Dinners
      4:21 No Phones or Purses on the Table
      5:26 Elbows & Posture
      6:44 Napkin Basics (When, Where, How)
      9:02 Ordering: Match the Host
      10:44 Don’t Start Before the Table
      11:55 Utensil Confidence
      12:28 Cutting Techniques
      14:01 Bread & Butter Etiquette
      16:08 Chewing with Mouth Closed
      17:28 No Talking with a Full Mouth
      18:56 Alcohol Limits
      20:14 Smart Tipping
      21:42 Join the Conversation (Graciously)
      23:01 Be Kind to Waitstaff
      24:38 Excusing Yourself
      26:02 Thanking the Host
      27:30 Book a 1:1 with Dr. Pamala


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