Ep. 140 The holidays arenāt always joyful. Sometimes they bring quiet heartbreakāthe kind you donāt post about.
In this weekās episode of Healthy Illness, Kelly Marie opens up a tender conversation about what happens when the people you expected at your table⦠donāt come home for the holidays.
Whether itās due to shifting family dynamics, unresolved tension, grief, or life simply changing, the absence can feel personalāeven when itās not. Kelly gently guides listeners through the complex emotions that surface when your home is no longer the gathering place it used to be.
Through heartfelt reflections and honest storytelling, she reminds you that you cannot control who shows up, but you can control how you move through the disappointment, protect your energy, and redefine what the holidays mean for you.
This episode is a compassionate companion for anyone grieving old traditions, navigating emotional distance, or trying to find their footing in a season that doesnāt feel the same.
Shifted family roles and grief can impact who gathersāand who doesnāt.
You only control yourself; othersā choices are not a reflection of your worth.
New traditions can bring unexpected peace, joy, and clarity.
Open, compassionate communication can ease emotional tension.
Self-care, therapy, and mindful reflection support healing during this season.
Let this episode remind you that even when loved ones donāt come home, you still deserve peace, joy, and a holiday that supports your healing.
āYou only control you. You donāt control anyone else.ā
āYour house may have been a source of joy, but no longer is for relatives and loved ones because of loss.ā
āInvite peace into your heart and processes during this time of year.ā
āDonāt take it personally; there may be extenuating circumstances.ā
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0:00 When Your Home Isn't the Holiday Destination
1:56 Managing Holiday Tensions and Home Expectations
4:10 Embracing Self-Control Amidst Uncontrollable Life Circumstances
6:47 The Impact of Loss and Change on Family Dynamics
7:25 Desiring Family Gatherings Despite Not Celebrating Holidays
8:25 Finding Joy Amidst Personal Transformation and Life's Challenges
9:01 Understanding Family Dynamics and Holiday Traditions
14:33 Communication During the Holidays
16:34 Improving Relationships
17:54 Crisis Resources and Support for Mental Health
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