Homeschooling IRL | Parenting & homeschooling — unfiltered.

The Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network turns thirteen this month, and for the birthday every host sat down and answered one real question from a homeschool parent. One question each, all in one episode.

Homeschooling in Real Life is in it — because of course it is. This was always the show that covered what the convention would not.

Their question: “Somebody in your homeschool group has made it clear you are doing this wrong.”

Fletch and Kendra go to 1 John 5 and land on the thing nobody wants to hear: the passage says pray for them. It does not say write them a letter telling them how wrong they are in 25 points. It does not say lambast them on social media. It does not say keep your kids away from theirs. The clip comes from When My Convictions Aren’t Your Convictions.

Felice has something to say about this show in the episode, too: “Their podcast is still getting played and listened to because their message is timeless.” She is right.

Also in this episode: Felice Gerwitz on whether to homeschool at all · Hal and Melanie Young on boys who will not sit still · Dr. Melanie Wilson on why you are already behind · the 7Sisters on the high school transcript · Sue Myers on a fever and a two-year-old · Meryl van der Merwe on teenagers and AI · Meredith Curtis on getting the joy back · Lisa Nehring on life skills before they launch.

The Sweet 13 Giveaway is open. More than $1,500 in prizes, four drawings across October, and a free party favor for everyone who enters. Enter at ultimateradioshow.com/sweet-13 — October 1 through 29. No purchase necessary, US residents 18+, official rules here.

Presented by Eden’s Table. Use code EDEN13.

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Grown-ups only. This episode contains mature content — guard little ears before you press play.

Most homeschool families are great at talking to their kids about sex. Talking to each other? That’s where things get quiet. In this Homeschooling in Real Life encore, Fletch and Kendra open a listener email from “Jenny” — a mom who left a legalistic, fear-based church culture and wrote in with a brave question: you’ve taught us how to talk to our kids, but how do we talk about sex as a couple?

To help them go there, they invited back two of their favorite people, Barrett and Jennifer Johnson of InfoForFamilies.com — ministry leaders who speak at marriage conferences on exactly this subject. Together the four of them have an honest, funny, refreshingly real conversation about intimacy in a Christian marriage: why the church stays silent, why God’s design for sex is good, and what to actually do when your marriage isn’t firing on all cylinders.

This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Part 2 is coming, with another special guest — so subscribe and stay tuned.

Related listening — the Johnson family arc: When Your Kid Discovers Porn: A Parent’s Guide — the companion conversation on guiding kids through what they stumble into online.

Connect with the show: Email [email protected] · Facebook /homeschoolingirl · and if this one helped, leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts — even just the stars.

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Parent note: this episode discusses pornography and its effect on kids and families. The conversation is frank but never graphic — it’s meant for grown-up ears, so you may want to listen before the little ones are in the room.

It’s not a question of if your child will see explicit content online — it’s when. That’s a hard sentence to read, but it’s the honest starting point of this conversation. Andy “Fletch” and Kendra Fletcher sit down with Barrett and Jenifer Johnson of INFO for Families to talk about what actually helps: not panic, not shame, and not a false confidence that the right filter will keep the world out. Filters and boundaries matter, but the real protection is an ongoing, calm, gospel-shaped conversation you start long before you think you need to.

Whether you’ve just discovered something on a device and your heart is pounding, or you simply want to get ahead of it, this episode gives you language, resources, and hope.

In this episode:

Chapters (approximate):

A couple of lines worth remembering:

“It’s not if your kids will be exposed — it’s when. And the best filter you have is the conversation you’re already having with them.”

“Don’t freak out. If your kid feels like they can come to you with the hard thing, you’ve won something no software can give you.”

Resources mentioned:

If you’re a parent in the thick of this right now: take a breath. You are not behind, and you are not alone. Start the conversation, keep it going, and lead with hope.

Thank you to the sponsor of this episode, CTCMath.com

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From the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. This episode is a special replay, updated for 2026. In it, veteran homeschooling parents Fletch and Kendra sit down with homeschool graduate Matthew Mason for one of their most-talked-about conversations — an honest, gracious look at the good, the hard, and the complicated of growing up in the Christian homeschool world.

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Matthew Mason is a homeschool graduate and a longtime friend of Fletch and Kendra’s family. Homeschooled K–12 and adopted before birth by a pro-life activist mother, Matthew grew up inside what he calls “the bubble” — a reformed, close-knit Christian homeschool community. As a young adult he came out as gay, left that community, and began searching for truth on his own terms. In this candid studio interview, he reflects on what homeschooling gave him and where it fell short.

Together they dig into the questions a lot of homeschool families are afraid to ask: What do we do when a child walks away from the faith or the lifestyle they were raised in? How do we love well when we disagree deeply? And how do we keep our hope anchored in Christ rather than in our parenting?

This is one of Homeschooling IRL’s more honest, “hot potato” conversations. Fletch and Kendra interview a guest whose beliefs and choices differ from their own and from many listeners’ — not to endorse, but to model gracious, open dialogue. As they put it, when your identity is anchored in Christ, you can listen to anything without fear.

If this episode resonated, here are other Homeschooling IRL conversations referenced in it:

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Browse the full lineup at ultimateradioshow.com.

The Homeschooling IRL podcast is a production of the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. This 2026 replay is sponsored by CTC Math.

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Are you homeschooling a struggling learner? Fletch and Kendra share three practical ideas for you as you consider homeschooling a child who struggles.

Join us for this week’s episode as we answer a listener’s question about how to give struggling learners the time and attention they need.

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Are you homeschooling a struggling learner? Fletch and Kendra share three practical ideas for you as you consider homeschooling a child who struggles.

Join us for this week’s episode as we answer a listener’s question about how to give struggling learners the time and attention they need.

EPISODE TIMELINE

SHOW NOTES:

Recommended Resources:

Previous Episodes Mentioned:

Music clips used on this episode:

SUBSCRIBE AND LEAVE AN iTUNES REVIEW:

Allow the magic of the internet to deliver Homeschooling In Real Life to your tablet or smartphone. Let us show you how easy it is:

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO LISTEN TO HomeschoolingIRL?

ADVERTISERS/SPONSORS:

LISTEN HERE

Are you ready to listen to Fletch and Kendra get real about homeschooling? Press the PLAY button below.

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(with Barrett & Jennifer Johnson)

Sponsored by CTCMath.com

What happens when “good behavior” gets mistaken for gospel transformation? In this episode, Fletch and Kendra sit down with Barrett and Jennifer Johnson to talk about how Christian families (especially homeschool families) can unintentionally raise kids who know the rules—but don’t know grace. They unpack legalism, “recipe parenting,” identity, and what it looks like to shepherd kids toward Jesus instead of toward performance.

This is a replay of an earlier broadcast and links and events mentioned in the podcast have been updated in the show notes.

Why legalism and moralism can quietly “check God out of the equation”

The viral blog post: “How to Raise a Pagan Kid in a Christian Home”

The difference between raising well-behaved kids and raising kids who understand grace

The trap of recipe parenting and the myth of “perfect outcomes”

Moral Therapeutic Deism and why it resonates with many Christian families

Homeschool pressure: when kids become a reflection of the parent’s identity

“Shepherding a Child’s Heart” (what’s good, what can go sideways)

Helping kids engage the world with discernment instead of fear

Why kids need space to ask questions and wrestle with faith

What dads need to hear: modeling humility, confession, and relationship

Barrett & Jennifer Johnson share their family story, ministry background, and what led Barrett to write the viral post that sparked this episode.

About the Johnsons:

Live in Atlanta (after moving from Texas)

Married 23 years

Parents of five kids, including a sweet adoption story with an open adoption relationship

Barrett runs INFO for Families (Imperfect & Normal Families Only)

Barrett shares how the post went viral:

150,000 views in 5–6 days

500,000+ views in the first month

Christianity isn’t primarily about “being good.” It’s about Jesus.

Kids can learn rules without learning grace.

Homeschool culture can unintentionally encourage identity-driven parenting (“Don’t embarrass me.”)

The goal isn’t to “have your kids’ hearts”—it’s to point their hearts to Christ.

Parents modeling confession (“I was wrong. Forgive me.”) matters more than image management.

Dads play a powerful role when they lead with love + relationship, not distance + pressure.

Barrett speaks directly to fathers about being the “lead confessor” in the home:

Don’t confuse leadership with being harsh or distant

High standards without grace create discouragement and disconnect

Kids are more likely to listen to someone they like and trust

Model repentance, humility, tenderness, and truth

Jennifer adds what mattered most in their homeschool years:

Being united as a team

Dad reinforcing mom’s work and providing “buck stops here” support

Emotional encouragement—because homeschooling can feel thankless

Barrett & Jennifer Johnson’s Blog: INFO for Families

infoforfamilies.com (also referenced as INFO4Families)

Search Facebook for their INFO for Families page

(Fletch mentions adding links in the show notes to Christian Smith, “Soul Searching,” and “Christless Christianity.”)

A special shoutout to Rebecca, who listens while exercising early in the morning.

Production Note:
Homeschooling in Real Life is a production of the Ultimate Homeschool Radio Network. For more info, to contact the hosts, or to connect on social media, visit UltimateRadioShow.com

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Special Replay:  We received a message on the HomeschoolingIRL Facebook page that said, “Please, please, please do an episode on siblings fighting. Thanks!”

Sibling relationships. Sibling rivalries. Siblings fighting. We put out the question to our listeners and they responded with story after story of siblings who know how to tease, fight and use sarcasm like professionals.

On this episode, we dig into the topic of parenting through sibling relationships in your homeschool. Fletch and Kendra open up about their own family and share practical advice for handling those tricky, sticky moments when brothers and sisters want to be anything but best friends. We also announce our coffee contest winner and we each answer the question: “What Ben/Jerry’s ice cream flavor would you create and what would you call it?”

Music clips used on this show:

“George Street Shuffle” Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)

Three Little Birds, Ziggy Marley (Click on link to purchase)

Pick A Little/Talk A Little, The Music Man (Click on link to purchase)

Thank You to our Network Sponsor – CTC Math!

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Are you starting your school year?  In this Best of HIRL, we gather around the teacher’s lounge and gear up for another year of teaching our kids at home.

When this episode first ran, Fletch and Kendra were starting their 19th year of homeschooling with a bang and letting you in on the fun. In this episode, they also imparted 5 questions to ask yourself as you head back to school this year.

Join us and let’s get the school year rolling!

Sponsored by CTCMath.com

Podcast: HomeschoolingIRL on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network

Episode Highlights:

Main Discussion: 5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Starting the New School Year:

2. What Worked Last Year? – Reflecting on the previous year’s successes and challenges helps parents identify what teaching methods, curriculum, and routines were effective. This reflection can inform decisions for the new year.

3. What Needs Improvement? – Fletch and Kendra suggest addressing areas that might need improvement. Whether it’s time management, organization, or addressing specific subjects, being honest about weaknesses can lead to growth.

4. How Can You Make Learning Engaging? – The hosts emphasize the importance of making learning enjoyable and engaging for both parents and students. They discuss creative ideas to spark curiosity and excitement in the learning process.

5. How Will You Take Care of Yourself? – Fletch and Kendra stress the significance of self-care for homeschooling parents. Balancing responsibilities and personal well-being contributes to a healthier homeschooling environment.

As the hosts gear up for their 19th year of homeschooling, they inspire listeners to approach the new school year with intention, excitement, and a commitment to growth. By addressing the provided questions, parents can lay a strong foundation for a successful and fulfilling homeschooling journey.

For more insights and tips on starting a new homeschool year with enthusiasm and purpose, tune in to this “Best of” episode of HomeschoolingIRL on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

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