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How Feeling Unseen Perpetuates Polarization

In this episode, host Wilk Wilkinson is joined by New York Times columnist, political commentator and best-selling author David Brooks to discuss the issue of societal disconnection and its consequences. They explore the rise of loneliness, sadness, and hostility in modern communities, as well as the damaging effects of siloing and othering. The conversation touches on topics such as the rural-urban divide, the feeling of invisibility, and the power of storytelling in fostering empathy. They also discuss the polarization in politics and the role of emotions in shaping people's beliefs and actions. The conversation explores the themes of political anger, personal stories, moral formation, and community building. In response to a question from David, Wilk shares his personal experience of feeling angry and disillusioned during the Obama administration and his own feelings about the 2016 election. David goes on to emphasize the importance of storytelling and understanding others' perspectives to depolarize conversations. They discuss the decline of moral formation in society and the need for kindness and consideration in interpersonal relationships. Brooks introduces the organization Weave, which supports local community leaders called 'weavers' who work to build social connections and trust.

Takeaways

• Societal disconnection is a pressing issue that leads to loneliness, sadness, and hostility in communities.
• The rural-urban divide and the feeling of invisibility contribute to the sense of disconnection.
• Polarization in politics is fueled by siloing and othering, where people only engage with those who think alike.
• Emotions play a significant role in shaping people's beliefs and actions, often leading to voting based on hate or anger rather than policy. Political anger can stem from feeling unheard or misrepresented by the government.
• Storytelling and understanding others' perspectives can help depolarize conversations.
• Moral formation and the practice of kindness and consideration are essential for a healthy society.
• Weave is an organization that supports local community leaders who work to build social connections and trust.

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