Are your friends and family secretly sabotaging your love life? In this unfiltered and hilarious clip from Black Out with Ian & Rashad, the duo dives deep into how your social circle REALLY impacts your relationship choices—and what you should do when the people closest to you just aren’t vibing with your partner.

Rashad kicks things off by discussing those awkward situations when friends start hating on your significant other. Ever had a "friend" hint you could do better, or shade your partner’s car, past, or even their baby mama? Ian weighs in, breaking down how criticism isn’t always rooted in hate—sometimes, there's truth that needs examining, and sometimes, it’s just blatant jealousy.

The hosts explore how these dynamics differ between men and women, with Rashad noting, "I never really saw a guy tell his friend to his face, ‘you could do better,’" while women often share their opinions openly—even under the guise of "concern." They break down the psychology of single friends projecting unhappiness, and why you must be wary of taking negative opinions at face value.

But the discussion doesn’t stop with your friends. Ian and Rashad dig into how much weight you should give your parents’ opinions—and whether their disapproval is a dealbreaker. Would you call it quits if mom or dad says no, or do you keep rocking with your heart’s choice?

Plus, the hosts get real about dealing with toxic friends in your partner’s life. Should you openly call out a bad influence or take a more strategic, subtle approach? Rashad shares his “subtle way” of exposing a toxic friend, while Ian warns about the dangers of single, negative-minded friends leading your partner astray.

From wild stories about friends made in nightclub bathrooms to the age-old advice about birds of a feather flocking together, this clip is packed with laughs, relationship wisdom, and controversial truths about love, loyalty, and the power of your inner circle.

**Watch now to learn:**

- Why your friends’ and family’s opinions matter (or don’t!)

- How to handle criticism about your partner from your loved ones

- The real deal on cutting out toxic friends—and how to do it without drama

- Whether your social circle could be making (or breaking) your relationship

Drop your thoughts in the comments: Has your crew ever changed how you see your partner? Would you ever choose your relationship over your friends or parents’ approval?

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