In this powerful clip from Black Out with Ian & Rashad, hosts Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap dive deep into the hidden financial traps that come with success—and why protecting your wealth goes beyond smart investing. Starting with the reality check that "more money, more problems" isn't just a saying, Rashad shares a compelling story of family betrayal, asking: What do you do when those closest to you are the ones stealing from you? Ian takes it further, exposing the lesser-known dangers successful individuals face—from calculated setups in relationships and within investment circles, to teammates running financial scams.

They break down why it's so tough to say "no" to loved ones when you're finally rising—and why you have to learn to do just that. Ian offers real advice: sometimes, playing broke (including not spending, just to appear less flush) is the only way to protect your peace and your pocket. Rashad discusses practical strategies, like using a trusted "buffer" to screen requests from friends and family, ensuring only the truly important needs get through.

Learn how most wealth gets drained—not from bad investments, but through divorces, lawsuits, and especially the relentless pull from family and friends. The hosts keep it real about how financial trauma is often perpetuated in the Black community, and why boundaries are critical for long-term success.

This candid conversation is a must-watch for every entrepreneur, athlete, or creative hustling for generational wealth but worried about the financial traps that await at every level. Get actionable advice, honest stories, and a blueprint to keep your wealth protected and your sanity intact.

**Key topics discussed:**

- Family betrayal and the pain of cutting off loved ones

- Relationship setups and legal traps for successful men

- Financial scams within friend and business circles

- Why most wealth loss happens via divorce and child support

- Setting boundaries: the power of buffers and saying "no"

- Protecting yourself from being guilted into poverty

- Mental and emotional challenges behind financial success

Ready to level up your wealth protection strategy? Watch now and hear why Rashad and Ian say most people "give their way into poverty"—and how you can break the cycle.

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In this clip of *Black Out with Ian & Rashad*, we dive deep into the organic journey and innovative event strategy behind the cultural phenomenon, "Tonight’s Conversation." Ace Metaphor joins hosts Ian Dunlap and Rashad Bilal to reveal how a humble dating card game blossomed into a viral podcast and nationwide live event tour, captivating thousands without celebrity cosigns or massive sponsorships.

Discover how Ace leveraged organic social media buzz, insightful panel-based discussions, and deliberate event planning to set his platform apart from typical "red pill" or relationship-centric shows. Unlike curated echo chambers, "Tonight’s Conversation" thrives on real, relatable dialogue from diverse perspectives—making audiences laugh, learn, and lightening their spirits.

Get the behind-the-scenes scoop on Ace’s unconventional touring model: booking flexible hotel ballrooms, controlling ticketing and customer data, and executing multi-city runs with his own crew—all while maximizing the experience and controlling the brand. Whether you’re curious about grassroots success or want inspiration for your passion project, this conversation is packed with insights on community building, monetization, and the power of staying independent.

If you’re a fan of Black excellence, smart event strategy, or powerful conversations that uplift and enlighten, this clip is a must-watch!

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In this thought-provoking **clip** from "Black Out with Ian & Rashad," hosts Ian Dunlap and Rashad Bilal dive deep into the hidden financial struggles of the rap industry. Inspired by candid revelations from legendary rappers like Joe and Jada, the hosts break down why even the most successful hip hop stars often live paycheck to paycheck—and why the money never seems to last.

The conversation gets real as Rashad explains the pressures of maintaining the rapper lifestyle: private schools, new cribs, six-figure chains, and the relentless need to keep up appearances. Is all that bling necessary, or just expensive baggage?

Ian shares personal insights on how fast millions can disappear without discipline and financial stewardship, drawing comparisons to household names like Mike Tyson who famously squandered fortunes. They lay out the reality: it doesn’t matter how much you make, financial mismanagement can wipe you out at any level.

Rashad highlights the importance of forced savings and investing, especially for independent contractors like rappers who don’t have standard benefits like health insurance or retirement plans. They urge artists—and listeners—to set up SEP IRAs, brokerage accounts, and to treat saving as a non-negotiable expense, not just an afterthought.

The hosts get honest about the resistance artists often show toward financial advice—even when it could break the dangerous cycle of fast money, faster spending. With stories of industry legends losing it all, this "Black Out" clip is a wake-up call for anyone chasing fame, fortune, or just trying to build lasting wealth.

**Key Discussion Points:**

- Why so many successful rappers still live paycheck to paycheck

- The impact of "lifestyle creep" and industry expectations

- The dangers of uncontrolled spending, taxes, and lack of retirement planning

- How to force yourself to save and invest even when income is high but volatile

- Why even a million dollars can disappear fast without proper management

- Real talk on helping artists break free from the “hamster wheel” financial cycle

Whether you’re in the music business or just want to manage your money smarter, this clip is packed with eye-opening insights and practical tips.

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In this thought-provoking clip of *Black Out with Ian & Rashad*, hosts Ian Dunlap and Rashad Bilal dive deep into the complex world of polygamy in Africa, sharing eye-opening real-life stories and cultural insights straight from recent travels across the continent.

Ian opens up about his first time having honest, in-depth conversations with both men and women living within polygamous cultures. The hosts break down surprising perspectives, including why some women prefer to be the second or third wife—citing reduced pressure and the freedom to focus on their own needs. These candid moments reveal how polygamy can sometimes relieve women of the unrealistic expectation to be “everything” for their husband, instead sharing responsibilities among co-wives.

The conversation turns to the logistics of African polygamous households—why separate homes are often preferred, and how rotating schedules can allow each wife space and autonomy. Rashad and Ian compare this structure with relationship norms in America, exploring the parallels between formal polygamy and the unofficial “side chick” phenomena.

Listeners are also introduced to the tradition of the dowry, a key part of African marriages that involves offering the bride’s family gifts—from cows to gold—as a sign of respect and responsibility. Ian shares fascinating details about dowry negotiations and why wealth (often measured in cattle) plays such a big role.

Throughout the clip, the hosts encourage open-mindedness, challenging the idea that one cultural way is “best,” and revealing just how much deliberate structure and responsibility are built into African polygamous systems—far from the sensationalized stereotypes.

If you’re curious about what it really means to maintain multiple households, the cultural values behind dowries, or how traditional practices compare to modern relationships in the West, this clip is a must-listen.

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7:00 – Joe and Jada say many rappers live paycheck to paycheck.

13:45 – Can polygamy in Africa teach us anything today?

24:15 – Ace Metaphor joins the convo.

25:30 – Backstory on tonight’s episode.

28:30 – How live events make money and run behind the scenes.

33:45 – How we build powerful content from live shows.

35:10 – Managing talent and knowing your equity.

42:30 – Should content be free or paid?

47:15 – The wildest question ever asked on the show.

50:00 – How to handle backlash and controversy.

54:15 – What leadership has taught us.

1:01:10 – Have we talked too much about relationships?

1:03:45 – Best advice ever given on the show.

1:08:00 – Ace shares a crazy breakup story.

1:24:30 – Recap of the wild story.

1:38:30 – Highlighting vs. entitlement.

1:42:30 – Would you stay in the U.S. for $1 million?

1:48:00 – Should Offset get spousal support?

In this episode of Black Out, we unpack everything from financial myths in hip-hop to the structure behind successful live events. Joe and Jada open up a controversial conversation about rappers living paycheck to paycheck, while Ace Metaphor joins to dive into topics like managing talent, knowing your worth, and navigating digital controversy. The episode also explores whether we’ve overdone relationship conversations and what it really takes to be a strong leader in today’s content-driven world.

We also tackle wild breakup stories, the difference between being highlighted and being entitled, and even ask the million-dollar question—literally. Would you take $1 million to never leave the U.S.? Plus, we weigh in on Offset requesting spousal support. Real talk, no filters.

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6:40 – Black Love: If your girl cheats, is therapy with her an option?

15:00 – Is Kid Cudi a rat? His reaction to the Cassie trial explained

17:25 – Pack ’em Up: Black men and home ownership

24:50 – You’re Broke (Yes You, Podcaster): Ian Schwartzman’s take on bad podcast deals

31:40 – Why did French President Macron get shoved in the face?

36:45 – Why are high net worth people still getting married with no prenup?

40:30 – Can you trust people who take naps?

45:00 – Is AI the new teacher?

57:25 – Why are people paying so much for prom?

1:03:40 – Is entrepreneurship the new rat race?

1:12:00 – Bitcoin kidnapper: The rise of digital ransom

1:16:50 – Who’s going to save Justin Bieber?

1:22:30 – How long should you date someone before living together?

In this episode of Black Out we went raw and unfiltered conversations on love, money, and the madness of modern society. They debate whether therapy is still an option after infidelity, and unpack the backlash against Kid Cudi for allegedly testifying in the Cassie case. The conversation gets heated over homeownership among Black men, podcast deals gone wrong, and why some high earners still get married without prenups. Macron getting shoved, the trustworthiness of nap-takers, and AI replacing teachers also come up in hilarious and thought-provoking ways.

The crew also questions why prom costs are skyrocketing, whether entrepreneurship has become the new rat race, and how long couples should date before living together. They explore a chilling Bitcoin kidnapping story and close out wondering who’s looking out for Justin Bieber’s wellbeing. This episode mixes humor, insight, and sharp cultural commentary—classic Black Out.

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In this thought-provoking clip from Blackout, Rashad Bilal, Shannon Sharpe, and Ian Dunlap dive into an eye-opening conversation with Barstool Sports founder Dave Portnoy. The group reacts to Dave’s surprising admission that his ex-wife STILL has access to his bank account—even after their divorce.

Dave reveals he trusts his ex implicitly, explaining that she was with him from day one, before the wealth, supporting him through the early struggles. He accepts her continued access as a sign of loyalty and gratitude for her support when he was just starting out. But is this generosity or just plain risky?

Rashad and Ian can’t hide their shock, pushing Dave for more details and questioning whether anyone—no matter their financial situation—should give a former spouse that much access. Would you trust your ex with your finances after a split? Is this an honorable move, or could it spark trouble in future relationships?

Shannon, always the skeptic, wonders how Dave would feel if his ex’s new boyfriend was spending that money, and the group discusses the real impact of entrepreneurship on personal relationships. Ian brings up issues of guilt and sacrifice, while Rashad argues that money magnifies your true character, and wealth doesn’t necessarily make your choices any smarter.

From loyalty, trust, and gratitude to boundaries and relationship fallout, this candid discussion goes way beyond money. Watch as the hosts debate whether Portnoy’s move is admirable or a prime example of what not to do—with more than a few laughs and hot takes along the way!

**Key Moments:**

- Dave Portnoy explains why his ex still has bank access

- Rashad and Ian debate relationship boundaries and trust

- Shannon jokes about exes, new relationships, and financial responsibility

- The group discusses entrepreneurship’s impact on marriage

- Reflecting on money, loyalty, guilt, and reputation

What do you think? Would you give your ex access to your finances? Drop your opinion in the comments!

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In this clip from Blackout, Ian Dunlap and Rashad Bilal have a candid discussion about who truly holds power in relationships—whether it’s the one who cares less, the one willing to walk away, or the one who’s more vulnerable. They examine the delicate balance of leverage, honesty, and emotional investment in both love and business negotiations.

Rashad shares his perspective on why applying a business-like mindset to relationships can be a losing strategy, emphasizing instead the importance of vulnerability and genuine connection. The conversation also delves into the “seesaw” of power in relationships, debunking the myth of equal power, and exploring how strength and care can coexist.

Ian and Rashad get real about cultural shifts, discussing how modern men have become more emotionally expressive, while women are taking on stronger, more assertive roles. They touch on the pitfalls of “crashing out” over heartbreak, why responsibility and leveling up matter, and why it’s crucial to avoid a scarcity mindset when it comes to money.

They also break down life lessons on reciprocity—why being cheap can keep you stuck, and how generosity and gratitude create abundance, not just in wealth but in relationships and community. Rashad makes it clear: Never trust a thief, and always uphold your moral code.

**Timestamps:**

0:00 - Does the person who cares less in a relationship win?

1:00 - Vulnerability vs. leverage in love and business

2:15 - The "seesaw" of power in relationships

3:30 - Men’s emotions vs. women’s resilience: Culture shifts

6:00 - Taking responsibility & moving forward after heartbreak

7:40 - Stop normalizing being cheap

8:25 - Scarcity vs. abundance mindset

9:45 - Power of generosity & reciprocity

11:00 - The moral code: Never trust a thief

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On this explosive episode of Black Out, we dive headfirst into some of the hottest and most controversial conversations happening right now. We kick things off by questioning if the NBA Draft has ever been rigged, then move into a heated debate about who meant more to the Knicks—Carmelo Anthony or Jalen Brunson. We unpack Bill Belichick’s shocking engagement to a 24-year-old, explore the entitlement culture that comes with proximity to success, and examine who really holds the power in modern relationships. Things get even spicier with a conversation about men losing their masculinity, a spirited discussion on which African country has the most beautiful women, and a deep dive into life-changing advice we once hated.

We also touch on major headlines making waves in the culture: Biden’s health concerns, Dave Portnoy letting his ex-wife access his bank account, and the ongoing Diddy legal saga—how much time will he really get? Grant Cardone shares why valeting your car might be a bad financial move, and we ask the tough question: is Atlanta losing its cultural grip? From Joey Bada$$ vs TDE, to the deadly power of a text message, to the damaging mindset of telling Black people not to trust their own—we’re calling out all the scams, lies, and uncomfortable truths. Don’t miss this raw, unfiltered episode.

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4:00 – Has the NBA Draft Been Rigged in the Past?

7:45 – Who’s Meant More to the Knicks: Melo or Jalen Brunson?

14:40 – Bill Belichick and Jordan Hudson Are Engaged

16:50 – The Entitlement Conversation: Knowing Someone Doesn’t Mean You’re Owed Anything

28:00 – Who Has the Leverage in a Relationship?

33:00 – “Men Have Turned Into B*tches”

40:30 – Who Has the Finest Women in Africa?

48:45 – A Piece of Advice You Hated But Changed Your Life

57:45 – Biden’s Health Concerns

59:30 – Dave Portnoy’s Ex Still Has Access to His Bank Account

1:08:30 – Diddy Case: How Much Time Will He Get?

1:14:30 – Grant Cardone Says Don’t Valet Your Car

1:18:45 – Are We Losing Atlanta?

1:30:00 – Joey Bada$$ vs TDE

1:33:15 – The “Text of Death”

1:37:20 – The Real Scam: Telling Black People Not to Trust Other Black People

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In this explosive clip from Blackout, NBA legend Paul Pierce drops a hot take you won’t want to miss. Sitting down with hosts Rashad Bilal and Ian Dunlap, Paul Pierce opens up about his views on relationships, marriage, and why he believes tying the knot is only for the old or financially struggling. According to Pierce, marriage is “for old people and poor people”—a sentiment guaranteed to spark debate!

The conversation dives into Paul’s personal experiences, family background, and what he sees as the real motivations behind marriage. He argues that most relationships are based on sex and that, as a successful and financially secure man, he sees no reason to get married before 70. Pierce explains his mother’s decision to marry late in life and shares why he wants to avoid the potential pitfalls he sees for men in marriage, especially regarding finances and personal freedom.

Co-hosts Rashad and Ian push back on Paul’s argument, bringing up examples of some of the richest figures in the world who are happily married and discussing the deeper, intangible values of marriage—connection, family, and partnership. They highlight that, far from being just a practical or financial arrangement, marriage can offer support and meaning, especially if you believe in soulmates and lasting partnership.

The clip doesn’t shy away from Paul’s belief that options and lifestyle play a huge role in shaping decisions about relationships, especially for celebrities and athletes. Rashad and Ian also speculate on the personal pain that might influence such strong opinions, addressing the challenges star athletes face in love and commitment.

If you’re intrigued by celebrity perspectives on love, money, and marriage—or if you just love a strong debate—you’ll want to watch this thought-provoking discussion!

**Timestamps:**

0:00 – Paul Pierce on why he’s sworn off relationships

0:34 – “Marriage is for old people and poor people”

2:15 – The financial motivations behind marriage

3:17 – Counterpoint: The world’s richest people are married

4:54 – When options impact your view on commitment

5:47 – The intangible value of partnership

6:35 – Is trauma shaping how we view marriage?

**Let us know in the comments:** Do you agree with Paul Pierce? Is marriage outdated, or does it still hold value for everyone—not just the old and broke?

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