Authentic Parenting

How to Ask for What You Need in a Relationship


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Dr. Yvette Erasmus, a returning guest from last year's Ep. 262: When Your Needs Are Not Met on how to build and enjoy deeply connected, fulfilling and life-affirming relationships. 

SOME KEY POINTS

  • What to do when you are growing and changing and your partner isn’t 
  • Do you feel like you have grown apart to the degree that your values are no longer aligned? 
  • When you crave emotional connection, nourishment and intimacy but feel alone and lonely in your relationship 
  • When to DIY your relationship issues and when to seek out professional help
  • How to communicate your needs without coming off as needy, clingy or desperate 
  • Why we transfer our chronically unmet needs onto our partner 
  • And how it's not their job to heal your childhood wounds 
  • The interplay of dependence, independence and interdependence when it comes to your needs

A quote from this epsiode: 

“When we say yes in a relationship but we mean no, both people pay a price. ”

 

OTHER EPISODES YOU MAY ENJOY

  1. 216: Childhood Emotional Neglect to better understand where emotional unavailability orginites
  2. 113: Signs of Childhood Trauma in Adults 
  3. 262: When Your Needs Are Not Met
  4. 68: Is Your Relationship Toxic? 
  5. 102: How To Communicate Your Needs in a Relationship

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ABOUT ME

I help overwhelmed, frustrated parents who want to parent differently than their parents, make sense of their early childhood experiences, connect to their authentic self and their children on a deeper level, reduce stress, bring more ease, calm and joy into their lives by yelling less, and practicing non-punitive discipline.

 

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Thanks for listening!

 

With gratitude,

Anna Seewald

Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author

www.authenticparenting.com

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