The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

How To get My Spouse To Listen


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Hey there, Dave and Ashley Willis here, and we just want to welcome you to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the core of marriage – communication. We share our personal journey on how to get your spouse to really listen. From being present to avoiding distractions, we spill the secrets. Learn tips on approaching a non-listening spouse with grace and curiosity. We explore side-by-side communication and tackle gender differences in processing info. Wrap it up with the magic of giving each other time to process, and watch your relationship transform through effective communication. Grab a seat, tune in, and let's deepen those connections!

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Takeaways

  • Listening is more important than talking in communication.
  • Being present and avoiding distractions is crucial for effective listening.
  • Approach a spouse who doesn't listen with gentleness and curiosity.
  • Side-by-side communication and understanding gender differences can enhance connection.
  • Give each other time to process information and thoughts.
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    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction: Importance of Communication

    01:30 Learning to Listen Better03:10The Listening Exercise

    04:07 Being Present and Avoiding Distractions

    05:04 Approaching a Spouse Who Doesn't Listen

    06:32 Being Gentle and Curious

    08:23 Assuming and Zoning Out

    09:20 Side-by-Side Communication

    10:44 Non-Accusatory Approach

    11:37 Understanding Gender Differences

    17:29 Processing Time for Men

    20:12 Giving Time to Process

    20:43 Conclusion

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