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How To Handle Fraught Situations

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It’s that time of year when we often see family and need to navigate complex family dynamics. During the holiday season, this is particularly true for queer individuals. We talk about the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of prioritizing personal comfort over traditional expectations. We’re big proponents of self-care! And that can definitely look like setting clear boundaries that make you feel safe and happy during a time that can be fraught with anxiety and discomfort.

 

Takeaways

  • The holiday season can evoke feelings of angst and anxiety for many individuals, especially around family dynamics.
  • Setting firm boundaries can help mitigate holiday-related stress.
  • Even after coming out, feelings of discomfort around family can persist.
  • Juggling multiple family traditions can increase holiday stress.
  • It’s important to prioritize personal comfort over traditional expectations during the holidays.
  • Choosing to spend the holidays in a way that feels good is not selfish.
  • Self-care and introspection are crucial during the holiday season.
  • It’s okay to not participate in family traditions that feel uncomfortable.
  • Small changes can lead to a more positive holiday experience.
  • The process of navigating family dynamics is ongoing and requires experimentation.

    • Chapters

      (00:00) Navigating Family Dynamics During the Holidays

      (05:59) The Impact of Identity on Family Interactions

      (11:01) Choosing Personal Comfort Over Tradition

      (14:52) Self-Care and Reflection During the Holiday Season

       

      Resources:

      • Join the Sanctuary Collective Community and be part of our Queering Advent event
      • Soul Safe and Rewrite Your Story are both on-demand workshops available in Spiritual Study Hall 

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