Have you ever prayed desperately for something — only to be met with silence from heaven?

In this powerful conversation, Shay Roush talks with his father-in-law, Pastor Erwin Lutzer, about one of the most painful questions believers face: Why doesn't God answer my prayers? Unanswered prayers lead many to discouragement or even deconstructing their faith, making it difficult to comprehend how God’s “no” might actually be serving a greater unseen purpose.

Shay and Pastor Lutzer discuss many biblical examples of unanswered prayer, but perhaps the most significant one is Jesus’ unanswered prayer in Gethsemane (“Take this cup from me”), without which we would have no hope of redemption. 

As you listen, you’ll come to see that God may accomplish more through an unanswered prayer than through the answers we beg for. You’ll also walk away with practical help, including how to pray with right motives, a simple framework for meaningful prayer, and encouragement to be honest with God about your disappointment while still choosing worship. 

If you’ve ever felt let down by God or wondered whether prayer really matters in light of his sovereignty, this episode offers hope, clarity, and a deeper invitation to trust him—even when heaven is quiet.

Recommended Resources:

Why Doesn't God Answer My Prayers? A Biblical Guide to God’s Hidden Purpose by Erwin W. Lutzer 

Running to Win Daily Devotional by Erwin Lutzer (365 days inspired by D.L. Moody)