Join host laura brewer for an exploration of how our blueprints for how we love can get all twisted up in patriarchy and paternalism, without our even realizing it. In this episode you'll hear:

• A big announcement about a new mini-series on death and loss that will be airing on How to Make Love.
• A "cosmo" quiz to help you self-evaluate the extent to which you might be loving yourself or others in ways that reproduce patriarchy.
• A distinction between taking responsibility for and taking care of.
• 4 other tips on unlearning paternalism and patriarchy from how you love.

You can find a summary of the episode on the show notes page: www.laurabrewer.love/episode58

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Join guests Randy Quarterman and Sarah Eisner to talk about ancestral healing, redress, and reparations to the descendants of American slavery. Randy and Sarah are the founders of The Reparations Project.

Find links to all of the resources from today's conversation at: https://www.laurabrewer.love/episode57

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Join host laura brewer for discussion about practicing self, family, and organizational care during election week -- and how to prepare for it now.

You can find a summary of the episode on the show notes page: www.laurabrewer.love/episode56

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Join guest Dr. David Campt for a discussion on conversations between white progressives and white conservatives about racism in America. Dr. Campt is a national expert in the areas of inclusion and equity, cultural competence, and intergroup dialogue.

Find links to all of the resources from today's conversation at: https://www.laurabrewer.love/episode55

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Join host laura brewer for an exploration of how learning to be awkward can be an intentional practice of disrupting the oppressive status quo culture.

You can find a summary of the episode on the show notes page: www.laurabrewer.love/episode54

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Join guest Janine Kwoh for a discussion about making love by embracing awkward. Janine is the owner and artist behind Kwohtations, a Brooklyn, NY-based line of letterpress printed greeting cards and other gift items that celebrate a diversity of identities and life experiences, and always with a bit of humor.

Find links to all of the resources from today's conversation at: https://www.laurabrewer.love/episode53

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Join host laura brewer for an exploration of the ways we armor up, and what it takes to disarm.

You can find a summary of the episode on the show notes page: www.laurabrewer.love/episode52

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Join guest Erica Jordan-Thomas for a discussion about making love by leading on behalf of equity. 

Find links to all of the resources from today's conversation at: https://www.laurabrewer.love/episode51

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Join host laura brewer for a discussion about how to make self-compassion when we feel lost. Plus lots of the 'f' word.

You can find a summary of the episode on the show notes page: www.laurabrewer.love/episode50

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Join guest Edgar Villanueva for a discussion about making love and justice through the inner and systemic work of decolonization.

Find links to all of the resources from today's conversation at: https://www.laurabrewer.love/episode49

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