We talk about the concept of 'Fake it 'Till You Make it' and how it is messing with your success in life.

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Does a "fake it till you make it" attitude toward life actually work?

If one dark and cold night you found yourself lost in the woods somewhere… Alone… Scared, afraid that you might never get out and even die there…

Would you pull up your map and say to yourself: “It’s ok, I’m not lost, it’s going to be alright… I just need to visualize myself being in the Bahamas.”

“Fake it ‘till you make it” is the worst piece of advice in Self-Improvement.

Pretending does not solve problems, taking action towards your objective does.

If you’re lost in the woods (or your life) you have to pick up the map, find out where you are currently, accept it and own up to it, and then make a decision about where you want to go.