Gay Men Going Deeper

How to Thrive in the Culture of Body Perfection


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From the gym to social media, gay men are constantly surrounded by images of the “ideal” body. But what does all this perfection chasing actually cost us?

In this episode, we explore how body perfection culture impacts gay men on a deeper level: from belonging and self-worth to intimacy and identity.

We open up about our own journeys with body image— how we’ve moved from obsession to acceptance, where it still sneaks in today, and what we’ve learned along the way.

You’ll hear us unpack:

  • Why body image matters more for gay men
  • How fitness and self-worth often get mixed up
  • The difference between caring for your body and obsessing over it
  • How to stop letting your reflection decide your mood
  • Practical ways to reclaim confidence and self-respect
  • If you’ve ever felt like a “perfect” body will earn you love, attention, or belonging, this one’s for you.

    Today's Hosts:

    • Matt Landsiedel
    • Michael DiIorio
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