We discuss the extent to which asking for consent and consent culture generally alter time-honored mating rituals. No cultural change is likely to dramatically reduce the young male libido, so does consent culture just shift the situation to him constantly demanding consent for sex? Is that actually better for his potential partner?

Along the same dating axis, what is the right way to mirror your date's drinking habits? If you're not interested in drinking as much as her, can you accomplish that without her thinking something is awry?

A man wants to know whether his wife is detecting his pheromones when she consistently initiates sex after he's just masturbated. A woman is concerned about how completely disinterested in sex her male partner becomes after the act is finished. And, how far can a man take "demanding" oral sex before it becomes abusive?

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/137/pheromones

https://ymmv.me/137/aftercare

https://ymmv.me/137/oral

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