This episode Jai The Gentleman dives deep into a challenge a lot of Black gay men (and people) in the dating pool deal with: why can't he just do what I want him to?

Jai unpacks how a celebration for a friend's new job turned into an internal dialogue that, he says, has held him back from a relationship.

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