Is God’s will bigger than girl code? ✝️

When a listener in her church circle and her friend’s ex catch real feelings, the trio dynamic—and a friendship—hangs in the balance. She’s prayed the feelings away, he confessed he wants to pursue her, and everyone’s watching to see whether wisdom or worry wins. 💔

We talk:

• “They didn’t guard their hearts.” Staying close after a breakup kept hope alive and blurred boundaries.
• “Church culture can blur the lines.” You can’t call dibs on people, and friendship circles can make feelings messy.
• “You want to be with somebody who wants to be with you.” Maturity releases what isn’t yours and resists possessiveness.
• “Let the Lord’s voice be the loudest in your ear.” Not girl code or guy code—God’s guidance first.
• “You’re free to pursue if it’s mutual.” Ask, “What’s your plan and how will this be different,” and accept that you might “lose a friend for your future husband.”

Have you ever dated within the friend group? How did you balance loyalty and love? Episode 257 is live—tap in and tell us where you draw the line.