"No thanks, I can do it alone."
What perfectionist hasn't said this? In fact, I used to take massive pride in saying this.
For some reason I had it in my mind that if I "𝘧𝘪𝘨𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘰𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘰𝘸𝘯" that meant I was extra superwoman & could feel proud of myself. ...like asking for help was cheating or something.
But every time I 𝗱𝗶𝗱𝗻'𝘁 𝗮𝘀𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 one or more of these things happened:
🔥 I would massively burnout and give up
🥳🙅♀️ I would never celebrate the steps along the way and then wonder why I didn't feel good at the finish line
⏰ I would make mistake after mistake and it would take me 6x longer to reach the finish line
⁉️ I would constantly ask the question "why isn't it happening faster"
Asking for help is one of the best skills to learn as a perfectionists, because you are one human!!
... and let’s be real, you’re trying to do the same amount of work as 15 humans....
You don't have to let it be so hard.
👉 𝗛𝗼𝘄𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿, 𝗜 𝗱𝗼 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝟭 𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙥𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽
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