In Your Right Mind with Monique Rhodes

You said yes again to someone, and you didn't want to say yes. You knew it while you were saying it. This one is about what happens on the rare occasions you do say no, and the guilt that arrives afterwards, because that guilt is what keeps the whole pattern going. It turns out to be measuring something quite different from what you assume.

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You sat down with a book last night, got through about three pages, and then your hand went to your phone. You weren't bored. You just couldn't stay. A lot of people have started to worry that their memory is going or their mind is slipping, and that's almost never what this is. This one explains what's actually happening, and what you can do about it.

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Somebody says something and you feel yourself close. Your face goes still, something in your chest shuts, and what comes out afterwards is polite and about ten degrees colder. This one is about what the hardening is protecting, what it costs you rather than them, and why the practice of peace starts a great deal closer to home than most of us think.

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The children are settled, nobody's ill, you've got the weekend free, and there's still something in your chest that won't settle down. Most people treat that feeling as a sign that something needs fixing. This episode is about why it isn't, and why getting used to it might be one of the most useful things a person ever learns.

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You're awake before you've decided to be, and the thinking has already started, and it isn't kind. Sometimes it's about today. Often it's much older. A student asked why this happens every morning and then follows her around all day, and most of the answer turns out to be physical.

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You're in the supermarket queue and a woman speaks sharply to her little boy, and the verdict is there before you've finished looking at her. You didn't decide to think it. This episode is about why it happens that fast, what all that judging is quietly costing you rather than her, and one question you might try that takes about ten seconds.

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You have one. The move to the coast, the leaving of the job, the if I could just get the weight off. Whatever goes wrong this week, that same thought arrives and offers itself as the answer, and you've had it several thousand times without ever making a single phone call about it. This episode is about what that thought is actually doing, and a two week test that shows you what's underneath it.

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You dropped something this morning, and you heard what you said to yourself. It was quick and flat and it barely registered, and you've been saying versions of it for about forty years. This episode isn't about being nicer to yourself, because you've heard that already. It's about a question somebody once put to the Dalai Lama that he couldn't understand, and what that reveals about the one relationship you never get a day off from.

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There's a person. You didn't have to think about it, they just arrived. And somebody once told you to forgive them, and you wanted to put a chair through a window. That reaction is intelligent and this episode defends it. Then it gives you what works instead, which isn't forgiveness and doesn't involve deciding it wasn't that bad.

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You've never actually felt most of your feelings. You've had positions about them instead. If you can be in real distress at a dinner party and still get up and clear the plates while nobody notices a thing, this episode explains what you learned to do, what it's been costing you, and the one word you'll have to stop using.

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