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- Work On Your Game: Dre Baldwin on Using The Pro Athlete Mindset In Business and Life
Links:
Dre's Book - https://www.thirddaybook.com/the-new-book-for-people-who-want-to-be-more-consistent-disciplined-but-can-t-get-started
Dre's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drebaldwin/
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Podcast: Dre Baldwin's path to professional basketball.
- 05:43 YouTube audience inspired me to teach basketball.
- 11:04 Transitioned from sports to becoming a dating influencer.
- 15:56 Guide to being an interesting guy on dates.
- 23:16 Having a sports-playing dad can affect success.
- 30:05 Inspiring story of overcoming odds and helping others.
- 35:35 Sports channel arranges brand deals for YouTubers.
- 41:12 Expanding team to include an American executive assistant.
- 44:44 High performers need less oversight in coaching.
- 51:49 Michael Jordan's focused dedication to basketball.
- 56:23 Tiger Woods' development stunted by sheltered childhood.
- 59:33 Marriage transition from playboy lifestyle to golf influencer.
- 01:03:53 Encourage to leave a five star review.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
1 hr 5 min - From Ghosting to His Dream Relationship w/ Jared Laurence + Anna of Modern Success
Links:
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Guest Link: Jared's Gift
Intro:
Join us as Jared and Anna recount their unique love story, navigating a monogamous yet quasi-open relationship while hunting for other partners together. From their serendipitous social media connection, bonding over video games like Fortnite, to their first date involving sushi and puppies, their journey is anything but ordinary.
Jared opens up about turning things around after initially being ghosted by Anna, and shares insightful tips on connecting through social media while avoiding common pitfalls. The couple also discusses how their relationship evolved from a platonic "situationship" to a meaningful bond, highlighting the importance of open communication and shared interests.
In addition to relationship insights, Jared discusses his entrepreneurial journey, balancing his social life and business, and the critical role of mentorship. Tune in for valuable lessons on delegating, building a team, and achieving both financial success and personal fulfillment.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Navigating relationships, love, and monogamy with adventures.
- 08:05 Seek balance in social life post-COVID.
- 14:40 Love to interject, well-versed in dating and socializing.
- 17:12 Hot girls get invited to high status events.
- 24:21 After divorce, life changed, then changed again.
- 30:05 Dated girl, hooked up with friends, drama.
- 35:19 Reaching 10k a month is a turning point.
- 40:35 Outsource vs. in-house marketing: my experience.
- 44:42 Spread the word about the podcast. Tag Obby.
- 49:11 Alien learns social skills to understand concepts.
- 56:52 Program aims to tailor strategy to individuals.
- 58:37 Recruitment, team-building, and culture in sales.
- 01:07:32 Free coaching and resources for dating success.
- 01:09:38 Encouragement for positive reviews and community invitation.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
1 hr 11 min - From Modest Mormon to Festival Babe: What Beautiful Liberated Women Really Want
Links:
- Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
- Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
- Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Intro:
Today, our host Robbie Kramer sits down with Baillee, whose life journey offers a profound look into personal evolution, the complexity of relationships, and societal perceptions. Raised in a conservative Mormon community, Baillee's early departure from the church set a backdrop to her unique experiences, shaping her views on everything from dating to self-worth.
In this episode, Bailee candidly discusses her disapproval of visible tattoos, her navigation through the choppy waters of love—including a significant relationship that intensified unexpectedly due to unforeseen circumstances—and her adventures in the L.A. party scene. She also shares insights into her struggles with societal norms and personal relationships, which led her from feeling undervalued to embracing a life of empowerment and self-discovery.
Throughout their conversation, Robbie and Bailee delve into themes of social status, dating stereotypes, and the nuances of online dating platforms like Hinge, Bumble, and Tinder. They also touch on the psychological impacts of behaviors like 'love bombing' and how these dynamics play out in modern dating.
Join us as Bailee opens up about her transformation from a young girl in a restrictive community to a confident woman charting her own course, often challenging the conventions she grew up with. It's an episode packed with honest reflections and invaluable lessons on confidence, resilience, and the journey to finding one's voice.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Navigating upbringing, desires, and relationships on podcast.
- 09:08 Unaware of dad's alcoholism, shaping dating habits.
- 15:45 Free dating guide helps achieve dating success.
- 16:20 Traditional dating methods don't work for top-tier women.
- 23:13 Dad waters plants, brother sees girls, fashion critique.
- 32:20 Staggered into mutual party, ruined potential relationship.
- 35:55 Mom married into Mormon church, found support.
- 42:10 Apply to inner confidence community for social growth.
- 48:09 Navigating different cultures, music, and social circles.
- 51:54 Social dynamics at the table and dating.
- 58:50 Dating scene challenges leading to toxic behaviors.
- 01:00:37 Experience allows quick judgment in Malcolm Gladwell's Blink.
- 01:09:33 Burning Man: Unique desert celebration with debauchery.
- 01:10:47 "Pretty girls attract rich, awkward guys."
- 01:19:07 Respect space, don't play games to win.
- 01:20:59 Group chat dynamics, slow burn relationships, choices.
- 01:28:23 Dating apps provide freedom; social circles create obligations.
- 01:33:27 Encouraging listeners to leave a five-star review.
Connect w/ Robbie:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
- Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
- Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
1 hr 35 min - The Evolution of Pickup to Purposeful Connections
Links:
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Intro:
Today's episode takes us on a deep dive into the transformation of the dating and pickup industry into what's now known as the red pill movement and beyond. We'll explore the nuances of male and female aging and discuss why it may be easier for older men to date younger women.
Robbie opens up about his initial skepticism toward self-help dating advice and how "The Game" by Neil Strauss sparked a pivotal change after a breakup. We'll hear riveting tales of Robbie's days partying it up in Eastern Europe, hosting soirees that painted the town red, and the introspective journey that led him from casual flings to finding fulfillment in coaching men on relationships and self-acceptance.
Touching on the delicate topic of men's belief in their ability to improve dating success, we will dissect perceptions, realities, and the pivotal "player zone." We share our own transformation from the world of casual relationships to searching for meaningful connections, echoing the collective journey many of us take.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Dating advice, pickup industry, and self-confidence discussion.
- 08:33 Engaging in personal growth through landmark education.
- 15:58 Learning to converse with women transformed me.
- 18:16 Boosting masculinity through pickup strategies, but self-improvement.
- 24:36 Lifestyle of partying and networking with models.
- 30:55 Novelty of new experiences wore off, taxing.
- 36:05 Experienced college flings, followed by self-discovery and dating.
- 41:26 Internet pickup culture evolves into red pill movement.
- 47:09 Lance Mason founded body language for dating.
- 50:27 Confident body language reflects self-esteem, mirroring others.
- 56:05 Involvement in esoteric teachings, skepticism, and disillusionment.
- 01:03:12 Coaching, dating, and finding friends in Ukraine.
- 01:07:45 Repeating toxic patterns in relationships, seeking counseling.
- 01:12:17 Partying in Europe, with models and friends.
- 01:15:51 Group of friends met at music festival.
- 01:20:35 Online dating is tough, unless wealthy or seeking.
- 01:25:17 2016 mystery involving derelict and chalkboard lesson.
- 01:35:05 Using quotes for inspiration, friends, and motivation.
- 01:40:44 Struggling with interviews, unclear about achievements.
- 01:43:34 Encouraging review and invitation to exclusive community.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
1 hr 45 min - Bored with your partner? Discover if true joy lies in monogamy or beyond (Ep 267)
Links:
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Intro:
Today, we'll be diving deep into a topic that touches many relationships - dealing with boredom. We all know that relationships can lose their initial spark as the lustre of new love fades. But what lies beyond the excitement? Can we find a richer, more nuanced form of connection?
In this episode about dealing with relationship boredom, we'll analyze the intricacies of long-term commitment and how the initial rush of passion can transform into a comforting sense of home and security.
We'll hear from two of our clients as they navigate their own challenges, from anxiety over labeling a relationship to knowing when it's time to seek variety or move on to new horizons.
And I'll share some of my personal journey from prioritizing sexual conquests to recognizing the value in deeper, more intellectual connections with partners.
We'll also explore how societal norms and mental health intertwine with our concepts of monogamy and commitment.
So, whether you find yourself pressured to define a relationship, wondering how to maintain attraction over time, or simply searching for ways to reinvigorate your partnership, this episode is tailored for you.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Navigating casual dating, monogamy, and relationships with women.
- 05:17 Unwilling to address uncertain relationship and feelings.
- 07:35 "I doubt I'll care much about family."
- 12:37 Struggle with boredom, prefer monogamy for happiness.
- 15:16 Wealth loses appeal; pursue meaningful experiences instead.
- 19:00 Mutual commitment essential; communication and understanding vital.
- 21:50 Humans tend towards polygamy with periods of monogamy.
- 23:39 Overcoming lust and desire leads to freedom.
- 29:26 Struggle with intimacy, find balance in rejection.
- 32:55 Seek power through emotions, not just accomplishments.
- 34:05 Transition from business success to personal fulfillment.
- 36:52 Honor intelligent part, accept lack of knowledge.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
40 min - Date Game Tactics: Navigating the Invite to Meet Her Friends on Date One or Two (Ep 266)
Links:
- Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
- Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
- Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Timestamps:
- 00:00 She invited me, I made new friends.
- 03:52 Reversing dating protocol leads to successful outcome.
- 09:41 Puppy dog failure led to embarrassing outcome.
- 10:52 Few slots open in exclusive men's community. Apply now.
Connect w/ Robbie:
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
- Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
- Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
12 min - Ditching the Script: How Traditional Seduction Fails Men w/ Ryan Black (Ep 265)
Links:
- Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
- Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
- Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
- Guest Link: Ryan's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theryan.black/
Throughout this episode, we'll highlight the transformational potential of social freedom exercises and mindset shifts that go beyond traditional pickup strategies. We’ll encourage you to find power in vulnerability and build a social circle that reflects your true values.
Together, we examine the fascinating dynamics between high-status men, "bad boy" images, and the pursuit of authentic connections.
So, whether you're well-versed in the dating scene or simply seeking to enhance your social prowess, this episode promises a wealth of wisdom to help you foster genuine connections and move towards a life of inner confidence.
Timestamps:
- 09:16 Differentiating between wants and needs, especially in dating.
- 11:13 Traditional approach to social freedom and seduction.
- 16:06 Dependence on others for self-worth is detrimental.
- 21:11 Last minute parachute, thrilling but not transformative.
- 28:59 Early negative experiences shaped my relationship views.
- 36:44 Realization of copying others' experiences, social status.
- 41:01 Signal fun, not seriousness, in dating life.
- 43:08 Success in dating depends on personality type.
- 49:37 Achieve success with $10K a month.
- 54:41 Achieve high status, attract women, overcome fear.
- 01:00:39 Life transformed through personal development program investment.
- 01:07:25 Mystery method reinforces bad social conditioning.
- 01:13:10 Be present, let subconscious guide interactions.
- 01:15:11 Javier Bardem's character makes bold, clear advance.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
1 hr 20 min - Online Flirting Secrets To Get More Dates w/ Connell Barrett (Ep 264)
Links:
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Guest Link: Connell's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation/
Today, we dove into the power of humor on first dates, the essential role of quality photos in online dating, and the subtle balance of sexuality and wit in crafting unforgettable profile prompts. We unpacked tips on personalizing that first message to stand out and the clever use of Instagram to connect and build a genuine social circle.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Building social circle key to dating success.
- 05:59 Debate over online dating scripts and effectiveness.
- 09:34 Personalize messages for better online dating success.
- 10:09 Personalized content can be simple yet effective.
- 16:18 Rare to be overly gamey, avoid sex talk.
- 18:29 Playful spirit animal question leads to intimacy.
- 20:47 Advising clients on innocent, fun conversation topics.
- 25:19 2024 focus: Social media growth, join Instagram.
- 28:39 Ideal online dating photos: attractive portraits, candid lifestyle.
- 29:46 Scientific approach to online dating profile photos.
- 34:02 Unique photo on dating profile creates curiosity.
- 39:07 It's okay to have polarizing marketing prompts.
- 41:10 "Instagram key for dating, showcasing high value."
- 42:47 Online dating tips for dating Gen Z.
- 47:21 Showing off on Instagram is better than in-person.
- 49:55 Online dating is not the best strategy.
- 52:42 Take courageous romantic risks to find love.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
55 min - Lionell Coleman on the Real Cost of Modern Relationships (Ep 263)
Links:
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Guest Link: Lionell's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mr_coleman777/
Intro:
In today's episode with Lionell Coleman, we unpacked the complexities of modern dating—embracing conflict, redefining partner expectations, and combating the entitlement culture. We recognized the toll of social media's unrealistic standards and explored the balance between emotional investment and personal growth. Lionell shared insightful personal stories, and we discussed the profound impact of maintaining a disciplined routine on overall success. Remember, true confidence comes from within, and it's about progress, not perfection.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 Build social circle, find wingman, meet women.
- 05:13 Compliments on physique, doubts on achieving it.
- 10:48 Enjoy your meal and drink, stay hydrated.
- 18:48 Living within means in Kiev, saving money.
- 23:43 Flight delayed, accused of leaving them stranded.
- 30:37 Bringing diverse guests together for meaningful discussions.
- 31:38 Show delves into dating skills, offers protocol.
- 41:07 Adopting morning routine for motivation and fitness.
- 44:23 Modern relationships are like contractual bliss.
- 51:58 Studied male-female dynamics and attraction for 15 years.
- 56:08 Partnerships struggle when not ready for commitment.
- 58:02 Rare fortunate situation, conflicting lives and expectations.
- 01:07:49 Using agencies for online dating is lucrative.
- 01:10:42 Noticing infidelity among acquainted couples in public.
- 01:17:04 Expecting royal treatment in the modern world.
- 01:22:45 Great editor and consideration fix relationships; be considerate.
- 01:27:53 Limited time for love, focus on son.
- 01:31:32 Former party promoter reflects on changing priorities.
- 01:37:43 Podcast topics, guests, compatibility, and motivational speaking.
- 01:40:06 Betrayal and vulnerability can sever relationships.
- 01:47:29 Team sports help with social skills development.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
1 hr 52 min - Avoid This Wealth Trap: Attract Genuine Love, Not Gold Diggers w/ St. Robert Daygame (Ep 262)
Links:
Robbie's Texting Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/texting
Free Download of The Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Guest Link:
St. Robert's Blog: https://www.strobert.blog/
Intro:
We're joined by the stalwart sage of the street, St. Robert Daygame, to navigate the intricate world of dating and relationships, especially for the affluent man. Together, we'll dissect the perils of prevalent party circuits from Miami to Dubai — the lux realms where people indulge in lifestyle one-upmanship and transactional romances.
We'll unwrap the nuances of deciding when, or even if, to spend money on women, and the pitfalls of flaunting wealth in the quest to attract a partner. Do all women in these glitzy settings merely chase status and money? We're scrutinizing the so-called "gold digger" dilemma and discussing why a man's deepest values and lifestyle choices might just be the magnet for a match that resonates beyond the superficial.
From navigating sugar baby platforms to rethinking daygame strategies, we're diving deep into what it truly takes to connect with high-value women, especially when you're done siphoning through the facade of high net worth dating games.
Timestamps:
- 07:28 Superficial people seek spiritual experiences for validation.
- 14:01 City neighborhoods reflect uniformity in people's lifestyle.
- 17:08 Using status and wealth to attract women.
- 23:33 Teaching men to navigate dating and relationships.
- 28:31 Testing generosity and sincerity in relationships.
- 33:47 Men prefer sugar baby setup for casual dating.
- 43:38 Transition from night game to day game.
- 44:42 Avoided day game due to social circle.
- 53:46 Successful professionals seek meaningful, non-party relationships.
- 58:58 General idea shared about an interesting story.
- 01:04:35 Instagram and quiz link in description, learn approaches.
- 01:06:11 Encourage regular listeners to leave a review.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
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About Inner Confidence Podcast
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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends,…
fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.
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