Inner Confidence Podcast

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Inner Confidence Podcast episodes

February 05, 2024Elevating Men's Style: Embracing Accessories and Personal Color Palettes w/ Axel Maaw (Ep 261)
Links:
Style Transformation - https://www.instagram.com/image.transformation/

Show Notes:
Joining me today is renowned style guru, Axel Maaw. In this episode, we'll dive deep into the transformative world of men's fashion, discussing how the right accessories can revolutionize your look, and why stepping out of your comfort zone with style can be akin to breaking the ice in new social interactions.
Axel will share insights on how fashion is not just about following trends – like the current wave of baggy clothing – but finding what flatters your body and reflects your values. We'll debate the merits of various clothing sizes and fits, and how having a fit body plays a pivotal role in both your style and dating life.
Whether you're a newbie dressing in basic colors or someone ready to experiment with a wider palette, we cover it all – even touching on the concept of 'armochromia' to help determine the colors that suit you best. If you've ever been intrigued by the impact of a well-chosen accessory or how fashion and self-improvement intertwine, this is the episode for you.

Timestamps:
00:00 Enhancing fashion for dating success with Axel.

09:48 Understanding fashion for appropriate event dressing is essential.

12:38 Newbies should stick to black, gray, white.

20:00 Brainstorming for a summer color palette idea.

24:57 Begin with affordable, fashionable options to learn.

26:41 Emphasize quality and understand your personal style.

31:46 Contrasting personal style with luxurious setting through clothes.

39:12 Street style with Mickey Mouse shirt, suspenders.

43:31 Confident talk on attracting attention from girls.

52:31 Love clothes, but sometimes change is good.

56:26 Fit body important in every aspect.

01:01:41 Healthy, fit men are preferred genetic choices.

01:05:15 Encourage feedback and offer exclusive community access.
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠⁠
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call⁠
1 hr 7 min
January 29, 2024The Art of Men's Hair: Expert Techniques with Emmy Award-Winning Chris Fulton (Ep 260)
Links:
Chris Fulton's IG - https://www.instagram.com/cfulton.hair/

Introduction:
We're uncovering the deep-seated relationship between hair and self-confidence, masculinity, and how it all ties into our personal and professional lives.
Join us as we reminisce about our early hair salon experiences with family, and follow Chris's remarkable journey from a Kansas salon to the heights of New York's fashion industry. We'll discuss the resilience of hair in the face of weather and location with robust styling product tips, and confront the sensitive topics of hair loss and the impact on self-image and authenticity - an issue many men face but often deny.
Hear personal stories from undergoing a hair transplant to embracing baldness, and learn why choosing the right hairstylist is about more than just the price. From wave to faux hawk, mullets to Rogaine, we're exploring the transformative power of a fresh cut and how owning your hairstyle can redefine your confidence.
With Chris's insider knowledge of TV and movie casting, get a behind-the-scenes look at how hair plays a crucial role. Plus, we'll talk about the broader impacts of grooming, the rise of "looks maxing," and why taking risks in style can lead to discovering your true self.
Stay tuned as we bring humor, wisdom, and perhaps a touch of therapy to the conversation about men's hair – a true intersection of style, confidence, and personal growth. So, fix your headphones just as you would your hair, and let's get ready for a transformative session on the Inner Confidence Podcast.

Show Notes:
00:00 Debating hair choices, dating impact, and guest.

03:45 Therapist for celebrities navigating relationship and image.

08:46 Moved to New York for fashion career.

09:47 Passion and persistence lead to success.

15:40 Honesty and accepting elevate your vibe.

17:47 Accepting oneself draws others in effortlessly.

19:29 Navigating hair loss and self-acceptance, a personal journey.

23:56 Importance of finding the right hairstylist.

28:06 Modern version of faux hawk for men.

31:04 Embracing authenticity and taking personal risks.

33:19 They all agree, pick these four people.

36:10 Emmy win, period show, famous comb-over, daily shaving.

41:29 External pressures hinder authentic human connection. Therapy helped.

44:17 Embracing gray hair, but open to coloring.

48:00 Your energy affects how others perceive you.

51:58 Encourage feedback, join exclusive accountability community.

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠⁠
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
53 min
January 22, 2024New City Mastery w/ Brian Marckesano: Elevate Your Social Game (Ep 259)
Links:
Brian's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/brianmarckesano/
New City Mastery IG - https://www.instagram.com/newcitymastery
New City Mastery Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCABp_Ox65e9TTdQXmYt_HaA/videos

Show Notes:
Welcome to another episode of the Inner Confidence Podcast where your journey to mastering self-assurance is our commitment. I'm your host, Robbie Kramer, and today, you're in for a real treat. I've got with me Brian Marckesano, a mastermind in creating an attractive lifestyle and building powerful connections in new cities.
In this episode, we're diving deep into the secrets of establishing yourself in a fresh environment. We'll explore the essentials of looks maxing and navigating social interactions to allure opportunities and romantic interests. It's not just about looks; it's about presenting yourself in a way that speaks volumes about your value.
Brian will break down why it's crucial to prioritize social skills and friendships over pure pursuit of dating. We'll discuss the perils of relying on dating apps and consider more authentic strategies that can help even those who don't fit the stereotypical mold of attractiveness to thrive socially and romantically.
Expect personal stories, like my own adventure with leveraging Airbnb for status, and Brian's successful photo booth concept that skyrocketed his networking prowess. We're also getting real about the "James Bond effect," fashion, fitness, and the art of psychological attraction, including some honest talk about our personal grooming choices and the impact they've had on our confidence and attractiveness.
Brian also introduces his unique take on Instagram as a modern-day CRM, revealing how we can best leverage group chats and maintain meaningful relationships on the platform. Oh, and if you've ever felt the frustration of feeling lost in a new city's social scene, Brian's story of his move to Charlotte will surely inspire you.

Time Stamps:
00:00 Inner Confidence podcast, focused on dating success.

09:31 Debate between hunting and farming in dating.

15:41 Focusing on high value men brings change.

18:30 Creating social setups for normal guys.

23:41 Status, women, and routines shape dating decisions.

28:16 Create value, get opportunities, texts for dates.

37:10 Inferiority complex leads to excessive compliments.

38:36 Connect based on interests, not status or expertise.

44:38 Unlocking reciprocity, value, and successful social connections.

50:08 Instagram is crucial for staying in contact.

01:00:01 Enhance group photos to expand audience reach.

01:03:46 Entrepreneurship journey: learning, networking, value arbitrage.

01:08:51 Delay gratification, focus on inbound leads vs. dating.

01:15:56 Fashion accessories spark conversations, create unique connections.

01:17:28 Grooming can improve attractiveness and body fat.

01:26:28 Working out gives delusions of grandeur, confidence.

01:29:53 Unlocking the secrets to success and connection.

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠
TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠
YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠

Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠
1 hr 34 min
December 29, 2023Date Rescue: Expert Solutions for Turning Maybes into Definite Dates (Ep 258)
Links:
Get Robbie's help with your specific situation now: (please include backstory and screenshots) https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/

Download the Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletterhttps://www.innerconfidence.com/newsletter

Intro:
From crafting personalized messages that get her attention, to the subtle dance of texting—where less is more—this episode has got you covered.
Our candid conversation revealed strategies on how to create natural invitations back to your place and the perfect timing for ending dates on a high note.
Plus, we navigated the complex world of dating app banter, understanding the balance of power dynamics before you even meet. Remember, it's not just about being available; it's about being desired.

Show Notes:
Introduction (01:44): Host introduces the guest discussing a recent successful match on Hinge that dried out. Opening Message that got her attention
(02:46): Discusses the importance of crafting a compelling first message on dating apps.
Effective Methods to get replies from chicks (04:08): Tips and tricks for optimizing your profile and engaging potential matches.
Reviewing Messages (06:40): Host and guest go through more messages, analyzing what works and what doesn't.
Unconscious Tests (10:09): Recognizing and navigating through unconscious tests set by women.
Best Times to set up Dates (17:37): Exploring the optimal times to schedule dates and the psychology behind it.
Prioritizing Social Commitments (18:15): Emphasizes the importance of balancing social commitments and dating life.
Multiple Venue Dating Protocol (19:47): Introducing the concept of a multiple venue dating protocol for successful and dynamic dates.
Ending the Date (23:38): The significance of ending the date on your terms and leaving a lasting impression.
Debating Different Perspectives (28:59): The guest and host engage in a lively debate!

To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:
Website: ⁠https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/⁠
And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:
Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠
TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠
YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠
37 min
December 13, 2023From Young Father to AI Talent Agent: How Matthew Chavira Mastered Life's Balancing Act (Ep 257)
Links:
Robbie's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/

Matthew's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/prophetsofai/

Apply for the IC Community - https://www.innerconfidence.com/community

Show Notes:
07:11 Balancing youth and parenting, relocating for focus.

13:46 Father questions son's readiness, work ethic remembered.

16:28 Enjoyed job, connecting with diverse people, building trust.

24:08 In 2024, focus on Instagram, grow together.

31:38 Chance encounter on airplane changed entire life.

34:51 Chief science officer joins famous robotics company.

39:55 Intriguing interest in humanoid robots across industries.

46:39 Attends influential events, starts own AI company.

51:48 Staying updated on AI and managing company.

55:24 Sophia and AI will change daily life.

01:01:54 Choose partner carefully for successful work-life balance.

01:05:40 Firm father teaches through calm conversations.

01:14:32 Encourage to leave five-star review, join community.

01:14:54 Enhance skills and achieve life's desires. Apply!

To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:
Website: ⁠https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/⁠
And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:
Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠
TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠
YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠
1 hr 16 min
December 07, 2023Date The Elite: Using Instagram to Connect with the Top 1%
Links:
Learn more about the IC Community - https://www.innerconfidence.com/community

Follow Gabrielle Britez - https://www.instagram.com/gabrielle_britez/

Show Notes:
00:00 Instagram flirting with model; is it successful?

04:54 Dating experiences, lessons, and finding true love.

09:04 C-section incisions smaller due to advancements.

09:39 Complications during childbirth led to extended recovery.

12:42 Guys age differently, women's fertility declines sooner.

18:20 "Not against dating apps, but believe in fate."

20:58 Level up your social life and confidence. Apply now!

24:56 Receiving unexpected DM, open to dating offer.

27:41 He invited me, then I brought girlfriend.

31:23 Motivated by Miami boyfriend, did 75 Hard.

32:33 Abstaining from drinking, feeling weird in public.

36:01 Observing someone's minimal social media presence.

41:26 Strategic approach to dating with multiple options.

41:59 Depends on his attention and the situation.

47:32 Dislike for Mykonos due to overcrowding and accessibility.

51:16 Hugh Hefner's transformation and influence explained.

54:52 Look for a reformed, interesting, attractive guy.

Show Notes: To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:
Website: ⁠https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/⁠
And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:
Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠
TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠
YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence ⁠
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: ⁠https://start.innerconfidence.com⁠
58 min
November 30, 2023Unicorn Hunting: Unlocking the Secrets to Finding Your Non-Monogamous Dream Girl with Simi
Links:
Download your copy of the Dating Protocol by messaing Robbie on Instagram

Apply to join the community

Try New Brew
Show Notes:
00:00 Learn how to find your "unicorn" girlfriend.

06:37 Human beings have animal instincts, monogamy natural.

11:33 Therapist links obsession with dating and sports.

19:03 Men seek women, women seek providers and variety.

23:37 Testosterone affects motivation and energy levels.

31:49 Dating protocol teaching stages for successful relationships.

33:38 Struggling with feminine men, found masculine love.

40:34 Seek partnership based on personal qualities. Ask.

47:25 Healthy monogamous relationship led to fulfilling marriage.

51:36 Life is unpredictable, bond through love.

57:51 Open relationships, dynamics, insecurity, jealousy, variety, ego.

58:50 Solid, secure relationship with history and boundaries.

01:07:42 Teaching scripts for dating; be normal and confident.

01:09:52 Increasing openness to open relationships among women.

01:17:49 Group of friends offers birthday blowjob surprise.

01:23:08 Encourage review, promote exclusive community membership.
1 hr 24 min
November 17, 2023 Is Online Dating Broken? Insights with Dan Cates - Poker Ace & Two Exceptionally Intelligent Women (Ep 254)
Show Notes:

00:43 - Quick introduction to all our guests on this episode!

07:54 - Robbie Kramer gives his background story of his come up! - Listen here!

10:32 - "You can sniff out when it's learned" - Melanie does not agree that getting good with women can be 'learned' - Find out why!

11:30 - Melanie and Dan made a dating bet - Listen here!

14:34 - "Do you go after women in an equivalent caliber to you, or are you shooting higher?" Dan answers, Melanie disagrees! - Listen here!

17:11 - What is 'sexual market value'? Robbie breaks it down! - Listen here!

20:21 - Learned social behaviors VS Authentic behavior - We discuss!

22:48 - "Pick up = teaching guys who are terrible actors to become actors" - We dive into what "pick up" really is!

24:53 - Should love to happen naturally? - Find out here!

31:49 - Dan believes dating is BROKEN - Find out why!

37:09 - Women VS men - We discuss online dating and differences between sexes!

39:25 - Subjective vs Objective! - things get heated! - Listen here!

46:24 - Men and women don't use online dating for the same reasons! - We discuss!

51:38 - Man are 9 times more to go bang woman then woman men, why? - Find out here!

54:36 - Online dating is INEFFECTIVE - Learn why!

59:44 - What destroyed Tinder? - Find out here!

01:02:36 - Should you date people your same age? - We discuss!

01:05:32 - Robbie gets asked what the most common problems he sees from his clients and why he is qualified to solve it! - Listen here!

01:17:05 - Online dating & Instagram is FAKE! - We dive into the reason why!

01:28:42 - If people are into you, they're into you - Find out what this means!

Links:

To listen to more episodes of the Inner Confidence Podcast, visit the links below:
Website: https://innerconfidence.com/podcast/
iTunes:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inner-confidence-podcast/id986699444
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2zkWuTnt7whvnR6CO6oNPV
And if you're interested in learning more about my coaching services and connecting with me, check out these links:
Main Site: https://innerconfidence.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
Book a call with Robbie: https://start.innerconfidence.com/
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1 hr 38 min
October 31, 2023 The 5 Steps To Building A Social Circle In A New City From Scratch (Ep 253)
SHOW NOTES:

02:03 - If I drop you in a new city to start a new social-circle, how would you go about this? - Find out here!

06:07 - Tip the bouncers and bartenders! Why? - Find out here!

08:00 - "I would rather hang with a guy who has anxiety than the awkward guy that approaches every girl" - Host explains why!

09:15 - Validate promotors! - Learn here!
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11:43 - Inner confidence community member Nick sharing his latest success stories! - Listen here!

14:25 - How Nick positioned himself as the "cool guy" in school! - Listen here!

17:39 - "How to I leverage this access as promotor?" - Host shares valuable advice!

22:17 - How to network with other people at the club! - Listen here!

25:30 - Position yourself as a VIP promoter - Learn here!

29:06 - Have a hot girl with you when promoting for status boost! - Find out why!

32:33 - Nick speaks on the unspoken rules you should watch for! - Take notes!

36:53 - Use these women for networking without messing up the relationship? -host gives valuable answer!

41:23 - How can restaurants help you as promoter? - Find out here!

43:23 - Go for girls under your league, good for your game? - Listen here!

47:31 - "I don't give a ** about your girls" - How to handle these tough situations when entering cool places!

50:48 - Will the door guy expect a tip every time? - Listen here!

52:16 - People love when you ask them for advice! - Here is why!
55 min
October 24, 2023Recovering From An Awkward First Kiss Attempt & Dodging the Friend Zone (Ep 252)
Links:
https://www.magicmind.co/energy

Use code: ENERGY20 for 20% off
Link to podcast to Make Women Laugh

Show Notes:

02:35 - CONTEXT! - Listen before watching this next scene!

04:18 - Watch this scene! - We break down why his flirting technique works!

05:23 - The standard rejection women give! - Watch this scene and our breakdown!

06:36 - "Women say a lot of things that are true... but not all the time..." - Listen!

08:39 - Golden response in this scene! - Listen and learn!

09:41 - "I'm here to cheer you up" - Learn why this technique is EFFECTIVE!

11:30 - "Emotional rollercoaster effect" - Watch this scene and learn what it means!

12:53 - Magic mind! get yours: https://magicmind.com/

15:32 - CONTEXT! - Listen before watching this next scene!

18:04 - Watch the scene!

19:17 - Kissing tips! - We explain the keys for going in for that kiss!

19:54 - "I can't do this" - Is this a rejection? - Find out here!

20:22 - Listen to this scene! - And our breakdown!

23:04 - Woman feel pressured because their biological clock is ticking! - Learn why!

25:01 - Why to go for Slavic woman!

26:57 - The worst you can say to a woman trying to get over her ex is: ... - Listen here!

28:33 - DON'T listen to words! - Insider tip from host!

29:11 - "I'm on a rebound" - Learn from his reaction!

30:46 - Use humor to cut though sh*t tests! - Listen and learn!

32:09 - Handled like a boss! - Watch this kissing scene and listen to our breakdown!

33:56 - Where to learn techniques like in this movie: https://programs.deservewhatyouwant.com/cc-cb/?hop=robbieic

33:56 - EP 226: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TfQ7qCL872c&t=12s
37 min

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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends,…