Season 7: Episode 176

Episode Overview

In this episode, host Wendy Green is joined by Ellen Belk, a leading expert in dementia care and a seasoned long-distance caregiver herself. Together, they delve into the complexities and challenges of taking care of aging parents from afar. Ellen shares her personal journey of managing her parents' healthcare needs across state lines, the importance of building a local support system, and the critical importance of being proactive.

Whether you're a current or future long-distance caregiver, this episode is packed with practical tips, heartwarming stories, and valuable resources to help you navigate the intricate path of eldercare with confidence and compassion.

Episode Highlights

**Ellen's Personal Story:** Ellen Belk delves into her transition into healthcare following 9/11 and her personal experience stepping into the role of a long-distance caregiver for her parents.

**Medical Access and Challenges:** The discussion touches on the critical aspect of accessing medical records and how you need to get clearance with every doctor your parent or relative uses, so you can get the information you will need.

**Building Local Support:** Ellen shares the struggle to build a support team in her parents' community, highlighting the lack of familial assistance and the valuable resource of Area Agencies on Aging.

**Practical Caregiving Tips:** Ellen imparts practical advice on elder care, emphasizing the importance of home safety, seeking outside services, and managing the emotional toll of caregiving.

Takeaways:

1. Home Safety: Inspect your elder's living environment for hazards and take measures to ensure it is safe and accessible.
2. Self-Care: Give yourself grace as a caregiver and be open to offloading tasks to professionals or outside services when necessary.
3. Proactiveness: It's essential to be proactive, whether in making safety adjustments in the home or handling legal and financial affairs before a crisis strikes.
4. Strong Support System: Having a support system is crucial - this might include professionals, community services, or understanding friends.

Links:

Keep In Mind, Inc: Ellen's website with dementia training and resources.

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