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In this episode, Matt & Jenn discuss the two most common problems that occur for men in the bedroom, erectile dysfunction (ED) and premature ejaculation (PE).

1. If you want to function better with your wife, stop masturbating by yourself.
2. Do something about your sexual dysfunction! Your reluctance to deal with the problem is making your anxiety worse which is making the manifestation of your problem worse.
3. Take care of yourself: No smoking, drinking, or drugs. Get in better shape.
4. Talk to your doctor! 
5. Take care of your relationship. 
6. Sexual dysfunction is normal and common. Most of us, probably all of us, deal with problems in bed from time to time. Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Don’t be afraid to do something about it.

Register for the 2021 Annual Retreat: https://intimatecovenant.com/2021-marriage-retreat-you-are-invited/ Take advantage of Early Bird Pricing until April 1 (no joke!)

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Today on the podcast Matt and Jenn compare the blight of mercy sex and the art of a quickie.

1. Stop settling for mercy sex. Don’t accept it. Don’t offer it. Sex is for connection, not just to use your spouse’s body or to be used. 
2. On the other hand, a quickie is a great tool in a sexually and emotionally healthy marriage. A quickie can offer one or both of you a quick recharge and reconnection, even in the midst of busyness.
3. The best quickies happen when you both understand each other’s expectations and when you have made proper preparation. Sanctify even ordinary opportunities for sex in your marriage.

Register for the 2021 Annual Retreat in Spring, TX: https://intimatecovenant.com/2021-marriage-retreat-you-are-invited/
Take advantage of Early Bird Pricing until April 1 (no joke!)

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In this episode, Matt & Jenn are answering some of your questions! We love getting your emails -- keep them coming! It really helps us to know what you want us to talk about and how we can best help your marriage! Today we discuss a listener’s email that has several great questions included about female arousal, arousal aids, masturbation and more!

1. Embrace fantasy as a way to advance the plot in YOUR story. Harness sexual stimuli to fuel desire for your beloved.
2. Whatever means you are considering to help enhance your lovemaking, first be sure that you have drawn solid biblical boundaries regarding sex. Then, lovingly consider, “Will this encourage more intimacy and oneness in our marriage?”

Helpful reference: Married Dance -- a Christian-friendly, marriage-centered sex toy and marital aid superstore that’s porn and nudity-free!

Registration & more information about the Annual Retreat: https://intimatecovenant.com/2021-marriage-retreat-you-are-invited/

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Matt & Jenn

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In this episode, Matt & Jenn discuss some exciting news about what's happening with Intimate Covenant outside the podcast and we chat about what couples can expect from the upcoming annual marriage retreat.

1. THANK YOU! We’re deeply humbled by the success of the podcast. If our message has helped your marriage, we would be incredibly thankful if you would share, rate and review us on iTunes.

2. Registration for the Retreat opens on February 14 - Valentine’s Day

• Challenging and informative sessions to build oneness in your marriage - spiritually, emotionally and sexually
• Get-away for relaxation, fun, and focused conversation with your spouse.
• Make new friends!

3. If you want to bring us to your community for a seminar, send us an email - let’s make it happen!

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Download our free resource titled, What Does Sex Mean To My Spouse?
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Matt & Jenn


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This week Matt and Jenn continue their discussion about setting godly expectations for marriage by asking, "Am I expecting too little for my marriage?"

1. In some marriages, one or both spouses are content to settle for “good enough” or “better than.” This is not a reflection of the quality of relationship that Christ demonstrated towards His Bride, the church.
2. A godly spouse must be willing to be held accountable. This requires humbly and vulnerability. 
3. A godly spouse must also have the courage and determination to hold their partner accountable. 

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This week, Matt & Jenn ask the question, "Am I expecting too much for my marriage?" 

1. One of the most harmful misunderstandings about marriage is when we behave and act like my spouse is given for the sole purpose to make me happy. As a result, we often expect too much from marriage.
2. It’s not wrong to want to improve your marriage relationship. But, it is wrong to first fail to acknowledge the ways that God has provided for you.
3. You will also continue to be disappointed if you expect that your spouse can solve your emotional, spiritual, and sexual problems. That’s your job!

Download our free resource titled, What Does Sex Mean To My Spouse?
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Cherishing,
Matt & Jenn

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Matt & Jenn discuss setting goals for your marriage in this New Year by asking the question, "What do I want from my marriage in 2021?"

1. Mature past the selfish motivations of relationship and begin to see the true fulfillment of covenant love built on self-sacrifice — in your marriage and in your relationship to God.
2. For 2021 (and everyday), ask the questions, “What do I want FOR my marriage?” “What more can I give to this covenant?”
3. Begin the assessment of your relationship with humility and self-reflection. Then, have a conversation with your spouse to determine what you can do for them and for your marriage.

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Cherishing,
Matt & Jenn

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This week, Matt & Jenn unpack their emotions after giving away their daughter in marriage. How are we feeling and how does this experience change our perspective on our own relationship?

• Be sure that you've invested in your own marriage. Otherwise, when you give your kids away, you'll have given yourself away, too.
• It's possible and necessary to hold both joy and sorrow at the same time. Acknowledge that and share it.
• Real joy and fulfillment is in a lifetime of intimacy. It's worth the effort and pain!

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Cherishing,
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This episode includes an excerpt from the 2020 Retreat titled, Redeeming Sexual Desire — Unlocking the Path to Sexual Arousal. The section that we’re sharing with you is about addressing a common sexual brake  — self-criticism. Jenn will challenge you to consider that how you treat yourself will impact how well you can enjoy your sex life.

If you would like to join us for next year’s Retreat, save the date: September 23-25, 2021. That’s a Thursday evening through Saturday afternoon in Houston, Texas. 

Download our free resource titled, What Does Sex Mean To My Spouse?
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Please send your comments, questions and suggestions to [email protected]
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Cherishing,
Matt & Jenn

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This week on the podcast, we're sharing an excerpt from the 2020 Retreat titled, Honoring the Romance of Redemption. This session considers principles from the timeless, romantic love story of Ruth and Boaz. We hope that your marriage is blessed and motivated as we approach the new opportunities of a New Year!

Download our free resource titled, What Does Sex Mean To My Spouse?
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Cherishing,
Matt & Jenn

PS — If you are interested in bringing Matt & Jenn to your church or small group to speak about the beauty of God’s plan for marriage and sexuality, please contact us: [email protected]

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