The Secure Husband

Is Hidden Resistance Keeping You Stuck?


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You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. You’ve stopped reacting. You’ve started healing.
So why does your marriage still feel cold and stuck?

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce explains how hidden resistance might be the real reason you feel frustrated — even after making real progress.

You’re not lazy. You’re not doing it wrong.
You might just be afraid of what healing could change.

In This Episode:
✅ What hidden resistance is and how it shows up
✅ Why fear of loss can keep you stuck in old patterns
✅ How some men fake peace but are actually frozen inside
✅ Why doing “all the right things” still doesn’t bring connection
✅ The 6-step process to break free from quiet resistance

This Is For You If:
🔹 You feel stuck even after doing real personal growth
🔹 You feel calm outside, but numb or hopeless inside
🔹 You keep hoping she’ll come around — but nothing changes
🔹 You’re scared of what truth and clarity might reveal

What You’ll Learn:
✔️ How to spot resistance hiding as “self-control”
✔️ Why you’re still waiting to be picked — even as an adult
✔️ Why letting go feels scary, but staying stuck hurts more
✔️ How to face fear, grieve loss, and lead yourself through it
✔️ Why real peace starts when you stop resisting your own growth

📍 Want help breaking through what’s holding you back?
Visit SecureHusband.com to get 1:1 coaching and tools that help men like you build strength, peace, and connection — even when the marriage doesn’t change.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.


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