It's so painful. "He keeps saying things that really cut me to the heart!"  "Her harsh criticism regularly shuts me down."

When one spouse’s reactions, criticism, anger, or emotional intensity seems to dominate the relationship, the other spouse can begin to lose their confidence, peace, and even their sense of self. Beneath these painful dynamics are often deeper wounds, fears, and patterns that need compassion and healing.

In this episode we discuss why some spouses become controlling or domineering, and how both people can begin healing without shame, blame, or minimizing the pain. 

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