It's A Mess, Sis!

We are back at it again with another episode. This time we reflect on our "Gayby" selves. Jess brought this topic to the table to be DIC'd down after she had a conversation with a "Gayby" who had so many questions and so few answers. That got us to thinking about our younger selves, the questions we had, and if maybe we can provide some answers to those questions and worries we had back then.

In this episode we identify ONE word to describe and (d)efine our younger gay selves and what that word meant to us BACK THEN and NOW. We also explore what we would say to our younger gay selves NOW that we’ve lived a little.

Then we dive into the (i)mpact of what it was like to be our younger gay selves under the definition we stated above, discuss the things we had going for us and the things perceived we needed.

Lastly, we discuss how we can (c)ope in the present.

Feel free to pause throughout the sections to give yourself time to answer and jot down any thoughts that come up. 

Join us this Sunday August 9th at 9:30/6:30 PM ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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Hey Everyone! Remember how we set INTENTIONS at the beginning of 2020? Well since it's halfway through the year we have decided to dust off our INTENTIONS for 2020, bring them to the forefront and REVIEW. Listen with us ( and Join in) as we re-(D)efine the intentions we set at the beginning of the year, discuss the (I)mpact our intentions have had on our lives so far, and decide how we (C)ope. In preparation of this episode, we went within and asked ourselves, are we still vibing with our intentions? or do we want to reimagine, re-envision, renegotiate, and/or re-start our intentions? 

Feel free to pause throughout the sections to give yourself time to answer and jot down any thoughts that come up. 

Join us this Sunday July 26th at 9:30/6:30 PM ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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This Episode's Theme Song : What Have You Done For Me Lately -Janet Jackson ( because why not... consider your intentions and your SELF while listening. Instead of thinking of the lyrics as targeted towards someone else, think of it as you and your soul...you get to choose which perspective).

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We are so excited for this episode. This topic presented itself in the form of a theme that we have observed in our lives and the lives of friends and family over the last few weeks. We were left with no choice but to DIC this topic down so that we can really get down to the lesson and what source is trying to tell us.

This episode we will provide our personal (D)efinitions of "Self-ish" and "Self-care". Then we will discuss the perceived (I)mpact those definitions have on our lives. Lastly, we talk about how we (C)ope with our definitions and the impact those definitions have had on our lives. We talk new awareness, changes we want to make, and resistance we stumble upon. And we do all of this with the intention of clearing up misaligned narratives in order to create a path towards the lives we desire. 

Feel free to pause throughout the sections to give yourself time to answer and jot down any thoughts that come up.

Join us this Sunday July 12th at 9:30/6:30 PM ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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This Episode's Theme Song: "Take Your Time (Do It Right) by the S.O.S Band.
 
Shoutouts:
Life Coach: IG @coachsaraliz
 @dearlacey for being our #1 supporter
Fellow Podcast Shoutout: IG @andproudpodcast - view on “radical” self-care was an inspiration for this episode.
Also, check out SILhouette "Spiritually In-Tuned Lesbians"  (Coach Maq and Coach Marian) here: https://www.meetup.com/SILhouette/events/267671110/ . Currently meeting online via ZOOM because...COVID.

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In the lyrics of John Mayer, "Fathers, be good to your daughters..." because *insert title of this episode*... ah you get it.

But if you are still lost, in Episode 16 we dive into our Father's LOVE and what it looks like for us. Considering that Father's Day just passed and just three episodes ago we were talking about the gifts we got from our mothers, it is only appropriate that we balance things out.

The agenda for this episode:

We (D)efine for ourselves “Love”, what our father’s love looks like, and thus what our love looks like. Then we discuss the (I)mpact of "Love" as defined and how we truly feel about it. Lastly, we discuss how we (C)ope and how we will address our view on LOVE.

Join us this Sunday June 28th at 9:30/6:30 PM ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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Shoutouts: HonestlyNae for her creative consultation. If you are a creative and you’re looking for ways to achieve your goals and things of that nature I would highly recommend  giving her a look. You can find her via her website HonestlyNae.com or on all social media with the same handle except Facebook cause "they beefing right now."

Also, check out SILhouette "Spiritually In-Tuned Lesbians" here: https://www.meetup.com/SILhouette/events/267671110/ . Currently meeting online via ZOOM because...COVID.
 

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We are talking JOY this episode. With all that has been happening in this MESS that is 2020 we feel like JOY is more than necessary to balance things out. So, we are dedicating this episode to defining JOY, discussing why we need JOY and the impact it has on our lives, and lastly, we are ending things out with how we cope with the need for JOY by creating JOY for ourselves.

Join us this Sunday June 14th at 9:30/6:30 PM ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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Here we are again and this time we are talking money. We are talking money and how much it would take have the life of our dreams. I think right now, everybody is thinking about having more money and what that could do for us. What doors it could open, opportunity and freedoms it could grant? But is it really the answer? And that led us to thinking, If money wasn’t an object, who would you BE? 

In this episode, we break down what money means to us and who we hypothesize we would "BE" if we had an infinite amount of money at our disposal. We discuss the impact of our beliefs concerning money. Lastly, we go through how we cope with and address our feelings and thoughts about money and how we have attached those to our identity.

Join us this Sunday May 31st at 9:30/6:30 pm ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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In honor of Mother's Day, which just passed, we wanted to take the time to talk mothers and "gifts". By "gifts", we aren’t just talking tangible and material gifts, but genetic, familial, emotional, spiritual, metaphysical gifts we were given/ inherited.This episode we break down the “gifts” that we were given by our mothers, talk about the impact these “gifts” have had on our lives and the stories we tell ourselves about them, and finish it out with discussing how we cope with these “gifts”, what do we do with them.

Join us this Sunday May 17th at 9:30/6:30 pm ( ET/PT) for our "After Podcast" where we break down this topic on IG LIVE and have the conversation with you!

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EP. 12 is all about how you like it...the TRUTH, that is! The TRUTH is something that has been coming up in our conversations, during our IG live “After Podcasts” (Sunday after each Thursday episode), so we felt it necessary to talk about TRUTH. And not just about what our TRUTH is but how we receive and give our TRUTH to ourselves and others. 

Check in with us this Sunday on IG live under @ itsamesssispodcast to give us your thoughts on the TRUTH.

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EP. 11 is brought to you by a random rant about how somewhere in the Bible it says something about how when we die, we go to Heaven and spend our days indulging in copious amounts of Milk and Honey, which led to a rant about how "Heaven" is wack for only serving "Milk and Honey". That led us to thinking, is it literally "Milk and Honey"? or YOUR equivalent of “Milk and Honey”. That lead to the question and title of this episode “What’s your Milk and Honey?” 

Long story short, EP. 11 is all about breaking down our biblical, literal, and personal interpretations of "Milk and Honey" and (D)efining, envisioning, and hopefully manifesting our versions of "Milk and Honey" by analyzing the (Impact) of the reference in our lives and discussing how we intend on (C)oping with and addressing our personal findings regarding the matter.

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WE MADE IT TO EPISODE 10!!!! THANK YOU ALL FOR VIBING WITH US EVERY OTHER THURSDAY FOR THE PAST 5 MONTHS!!! AS A THANK YOU, WE ARE DOING A QUARANTINE GIVEAWAY (CASE OF WATER + PACK OF TOILET PAPER). CHECK OUT OUR IG: @ ITSAMESSSISPODCAST FOR DETAILS.

This episode, we just wanted to take some time to address the very real and serious situation that is Coronavirus (COVID-19) also affectionately referred to as “The Rona” by black people spanning the diaspora. This is an event that we have never seen in our lifetimes. So, we just wanted chop it up and talk terms, definitions, hopes, fears, anxiety, changes, and realizations that have come about as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic. 

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