This is going to be a long one. Jack and Kate have fate on their side.  His "hot blonde in his bed" radar was on point the night they met.  Her "finance is away, so Jack will play" radar was working just fine when they met again.  They were both even very excited about the lifestyle.  But when Jack became obsessed with the need to be in the lifestyle, Kate said he needed to choose between her and swinging, and Jack chose swinging.  During their two year separation, Jack dated around and found many women to join his adventures, but none of them made him feel the way Kate did.  When fate stepped in again, they reconnected and started the long healing process of rebuilding trust, friendship and love.  After things were in a great place, Jack asked if she would like to dip her toes back in the lifestyle pool with a trip on the Bliss Cruise.  Jack knew the Kate's travel weakness, and she jumped at the opportunity to try things at her pace.  And, spoiler alert, they are so happy that they did!

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