I used to believe I had to sneak up on love. I thought I had to put my demands out there, yet act stealth, like I wasn’t demanding. I was trying to “get” love from someone who did not want to give it, and then I would blame them when it didn’t work (even though I was acting like I didn’t want anything). Craziness, right?

There is an intensity to this game, and as much as you try to shove it down or make it disappear, it doesn’t go away… so you try to be sneaky in your attempts to get what you want. But you actually end up acting the opposite of subtle or stealth because your feelings take over and run the show. When someone doesn’t give us what we want, we feel like we need to steal it. Listen in to learn why love is something you HAVE, not something you TAKE. There’s a big difference.