Joy of Missing Out (JOMO)

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What's the difference between networking and clout chasing? A lot of times you want to meet cool people. But then you get accused of clout chasing. Even though the two things have different intentions, from the outside they can look the same. It's a tricky thing to balance.

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𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠ @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway

co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances

𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠( @chloeshih ) IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/

tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s.

Editor: Jayna Benito

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0:00 not the reddit clout chaser accusation

3:36 fake relationships for clout exist

7:15 haters are just projecting

9:28 Chloe in a content house?

12:05 nobody is big enough to be an a**hole

14:17 Kira's got called a clout chaser by her ex's friend

17:13 go network but don't pretend it's for friendship

20:55 chloe loves the community :)

24:25 you SHOULD surround yourself with people better than you

25:59 it's not a bad thing to meet cool people

27:11 unconditional love isn't real

29:00 conditional love is a good thing

31:55 unconditional love is reserved for family (some instances no)

35:35 the concept of grace

37:33 epigenetics mans

39:37 we call out behavior, not people

41:54 if you want a lasting relationship, don't ask for favors

43:54 Jomies in the wild tell us your background!

44:24 this is one of Eric's favorite podcast episodes!

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Going into office can be tiring, but with an office crush it can make you look forward to going to work! With 43% of people married to someone they worked with, your future partner might just be awaiting you there (it's pretty statistically probable!)

Some statistics about workplace romances according to Forbes:

-43% have married someone they worked with

-40% have cheated on their current partner with a coworker

-50% report flirting with their co-workers

(https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/workplace-romance-statistics/)

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𝙏𝙃𝙀 𝙅𝙊𝙈𝙊 𝙃𝙊𝙎𝙏𝙎 🎙️

𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠ @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway

co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances

𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠( @chloeshih ) IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/

tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s.

Editor: Jayna Benito

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0:00 taking EXTRA good care of the daughter

0:45 we're not doing this forever

2:29 DON'T wear this to work

3:40 you gotta flirt to convert

4:44 what did we wear to work

6:49 men discriminate against hair colors

8:09 might find your new boo at work ;)

11:56 Eric's secret to pulling the ladies

12:26 Chloe got cheated on in the workplace

15:12 cheating is more common than you think

18:55 have you ever had a crush on your manager?

21:22 don't s*** where you eat

24:14 the ugly reality of office romances

27:02 Chloe's red hair makes a debut

31:33 it's hard being a girl

34:26 someone's trying to get promoted... to son in law

42:25 THIS is how you win a girl over

46:30 competence is sexy

49:00 he said WHAT?!?

52:02 would eric swipe on kira???

55:20 can notice when someone is aesthetically not hideous

59:20 how Chloe would rizz up her office crush

1:02:37 the hunger games romance version

1:05:58 good thing Kira isn't a man

1:08:40 ANIME JOMO

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In a time characterized by the prominence social media, Gen Z have been socialized significantly different from previous generations. This may be the reason for their work ethic that Chloe has struggled to work with during her team building endeavors. On the other hand Eric has had only positive experiences, but is this the exception or the rule?

Cheaters sucks. Finding out you've been cheated on even after it's all over still sucks— which is exactly what happened to Chloe.

From corporate life in our 20s to working in the creator space, we’ve learned a lot from our experiences. This is what we wish we’d known before reaching our 30s.

0:57 Chloe joined the sock gang

2:11 living the life you want

4:14 just f***ing do it

6:52 I like your face

9:22 pickleball partners on tinder? not euphemism

13:47 maybe I have ADHD 

17:32 the reality of "I'm Single. Again." 

21:32 Chloe slides into the DMs

24:34 exclusive patreon content... free Eric

28:05 be unafraid to fail

29:53 you don't have to say yes

31:15 managers can make/break your career

33:38 build a great sense of self

35:28 read Designing Your Life

37:32 don't compare your bts to someone's highlight reel

38:17 the grass is greener where you water it

38:43 therapy is really lit

41:36 being alone is not lonely

43:26 love yourself

46:45 choose the f***s you're willing to give out

48:00 question everything and build a b***s*** meter

49:19 negotiate the heck out of your salary

50:02 don't be afraid of money 

51:52 how you do anything is how you do everything

52:54 the grind is not the only game to play

53:59 no one is going to give a s*** about your career, you gotta fully own it

54:23 get out of victim mentality 

57:23 you are the average of the top five influences around you

58:34 nobody really cares

59:04 just assume you have talent 

1:00:35 play the infinite game

1:03:16 it's never an overnight success

1:03:40 health is wealth

1:04:25 how to find the "One"

1:05:57 learn to let go

1:07:16 it may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility 

1:07:45 know your "why"

1:09:14 being busy is a trap

1:10:18 not one but TEN lessons

1:13:19 nobody knows s***

1:13:59 you don't suck

1:14:42 you get to make a choice

So a lot has happened since we last met... like Eric met THE Biden.

As you can tell it was a crazy week for Eric as he traveled across several states and met lots of people including Fred Liu and the Mr.Beast team. Meanwhile Chloe was having an emotional journey rather than a physical one. There's lots of lessons learned this week, including some great advice from Jimmy and Jaime about handling self-hatred and hiring in the creator space.

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𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠ @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway

co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances

𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠( @chloeshih ) IG: / https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/

tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s.

Editor: Jayna Benito

𝙎𝙊𝘾𝙄𝘼𝙇𝙎 🌸

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𝘾𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙏𝙀𝙍𝙎 📚

0:00 Biden wants to be a content creator??

0:22 shirtless Eric

0:52 our intrusive thoughts available on patreon

2:13 end this debate: jomillionaire vs jomo angel

3:25 let the man rot

7:04 you need to act like you're the s***

8:58 Eric cried in some dude's basement

11:33 the 1/3 rule for relationships

14:35 the mysterious Coxsackie car

17:10 Eric butchers Korean

18:18 buddy got neutered :(

20:24 Chloe is an extreme J

23:06 Eric meets Fred Liu and gives him a book

26:00 some man has good real estate and BAM billboard

27:49 meeting the POTUS

31:45 Eric became a hand model

34:23 friendship core memories

36:40 4 hour road trip for a 50% chance with the Mr.Beast team

39:45 Eric stayed up late to read a manhwa with a reincarnated hot man

44:20 doing the community a service

47:10 Chloe was going through it

50:29 Advice #1 you need to let go of negative energy

54:27 Advice #2 you need to change your perspective

55:16 Advice #3 be the hero of your life, not the victim

58:39 Why constrain yourself for your own story?

1:03:33 we love jaime aka igumdrop

1:05:09 we also love adrian aka omgadrian

1:06:37 hiring tip #1: gauging for grit

1:07:49 hiring tip #2: believe in the mission

1:09:46 lots of creators at the jackpot screening

1:12:52 what are Eric’s pickleball skills REALLY like?

1:14:10 Chloe’s locked in on 30 lessons at 30

1:16:44 getting our lives where they need to be

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Nobody likes to be wrong. Feedback is always difficult whether it be on the giving or receiving side. This week’s episode is a heartfelt one as we share our experiences receiving feedback in our corporate jobs and now giving feedback as the bosses in our creative endeavors.

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0:00 fake feedback

Today's episode is going to be a judgy one because we are ranking everyone and every situation you can encounter in the tech world. From the person who never has their camera on to the LinkedIn influencers we've seen our fair share of them. We are joined by Chloe's husbando, Kevin, to add the software engineer POV. In our rankings we are not holding back and giving our brutally honest thoughts. From jail to invited to pickleball to a jomie we got all the tiers covered. Get nice and cozy because this is gonna be a wild ride.

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0:00 the Chloe, Kevin echochamber

0:44 patreon launched!

5:21 Chloe’s husbando with the swe pov

6:35 tier list explained

9:44 disclaimer: no vanilla wholesome today

11:12 never has their camera on

13:35 way too into boba

14:28 dyes their hair blue or purple

15:34 engineer who wants a farm

16:38 has massive imposter syndrome

18:35 works in mobile gaming

19:39 exec that won't get a real mic

22:16 Berkeley EECS grads

24:53 mental health leave post on LinkedIn

26:00 Koolaid drinkers

27:13 doesn't have a bedframe

29:03 omakase and niku guy

29:57 Canadians/Waterloo

31:17 probably working a 2nd job

32:14 still uses firefox

33:11 always snow boarding

34:04 engineers that think ur flirting with them

34:59 sends long message at 5 pm on a Friday

36:06 dual monitor, mech keyboard, ergo desk + chair set up

36:54 the type that posts on Blind

37:38 says they're poor but makes 6 figs

38:34 really, really into coffee

39:40 staff engineer who "has no filter"

41:10 gets into office at 7 am

42:05 VCs

43:04 lowkey nepo baby

43:35 white tesla drivers

44:42 PM turned startup founder

46:21 HR

47:27 diversity hire

48:48 LinkedIn influencers

49:32 startup CEO that keeps pivoting

50:18 extreme biohacker

51:53 new grads

52:25 Forbes 30U30 lister

54:27 "hi" with no follow up

55:33 slack s***poster

56:05 RPMs

57:00 interns

57:42 bootcamp engineers

58:27 only promotion projects

59:13 ladder climbers

59:58 brings their dog to the office

1:00:20 wanna go rock climbing

1:00:53 "tech jobs that make 6 figure" creators

1:02:18 hosts board game nights

1:02:50 weebs

1:03:38 sold 2 startups and now "consults"

1:04:34 only works at FAANG

1:04:42 doesn't work on a real desk or chair

1:05:59 swipes in for lunch and leaves

1:06:16 only wears free tech shirts

1:06:56 the aquihires

1:07:20 SF techies

1:09:08 LA techies

1:10:12 Seattle techies

1:10:20 NY techies

1:10:33 engineer with a really loud keyboard

1:11:21 has a photo of Elon on their desk

1:11:49 Tahoe trip planner

1:12:16 wears patagonia vests & chinos

1:12:25 guy who always complains about dating

1:14:02 crypto bros

1:14:18 looks like a recruiter, is a recruiter

1:14:58 DIML techtokers

1:15:58 MBA grad name dropper

1:16:02 PM/design GF + SE boyfriend

1:17:10 Dr. Fei-Fei Li

1:17:36 Daddy Zuck

1:18:20 Sheryl Sandberg

1:18:39 Daddy Jensen

1:19:30 Elon Musk

1:22:08 disclaimer: all for funsies

1:23:25 JOMO out

so...eric's back on the market. any takers? 👀 jk, but maybe? 🙄