Kindergarten Cafe Podcast: Simple Tips for Teaching Kindergarten

Classroom management can start to feel a little more reactive as the school year goes on. Especially when teachers are tired, academic demands are increasing, and student behaviors are starting to pop up more often.

In this episode, I share five common classroom management mistakes teachers make and how small shifts can help you move from constantly reacting to behaviors to being more proactive. I talk about looking beyond the behavior to figure out what skill a student may be missing, staying consistent with expectations and consequences, keeping directions and lessons concise, and intentionally teaching social-emotional skills before students need them.

I want to remind teachers that behavior is communication. When you understand what a behavior is telling you, you can choose strategies that address what the student needs instead of simply trying to stop the behavior in the moment.

• How to shift from reacting to unwanted behaviors to identifying and teaching the skills students may be missing
• Why consistency with classroom expectations and consequences helps students know what to expect and builds trust
• How talking too much, giving lengthy directions, or keeping students sitting too long can contribute to increased behaviors
• Simple ways to increase student engagement through movement, turn-and-talks, hand signals, and opportunities for students to participate
• Why emotional regulation, problem-solving, kindness, and other social-emotional skills need to be explicitly taught and practiced when students are calm
• How looking for the why behind a behavior can help you choose a more effective response and proactively reduce challenging behaviors over time

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• Easy Lesson Engagement Strategies ~ Episode 34
• Building Strong Classroom Management ~ Ep. 43
• How Nice Should You Be in Kindergarten? An Intro to Kindergarten Classroom Management~ Episode 144

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If your class was doing beautifully in September and now feels like a completely different group of kids, it’s normal. November is when almost every kindergarten classroom hits a behavior slump, and it happens for real, identifiable reasons. This episode breaks down exactly why behaviors spike at this point in the year and what you can do about it right now.

In this episode, I share:

• why the honeymoon phase ending is a sign that students feel comfortable with you, and what to do when that comfort starts showing up as boundary testing
• how increasing academic demands cause behaviors to spike, especially for kids who are struggling with focus, independence, or the skills being asked of them
• why routine drift is one of the biggest contributors to November chaos, and how letting a few small things slide sends kids looking for what else they can get away with
• how emotional fatigue affects both students and teachers at this point in the year, and why bringing back movement and mindfulness can make a real difference
• how to identify whether the behaviors you are seeing are about routines, academic frustration, or a missing social-emotional skill, so you can address the root cause

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• Creating A Calm And Focused Classroom With Mindfulness ~ Ep. 140
• Teaching Self-Regulation Skills Through Everyday Routines ~ Ep. 80
• Self-Regulation and Impulse Control in Kids ~ Ep. 22
• 5 Back to School Classroom Routine Mistakes That Lead to Chaos All Year ~ Ep. 147
• Why Your Routines Aren’t Working Yet ~ Ep. 146

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Strong family partnerships are not built by answering emails at night or going above and beyond until you burn out. They are built because families trust you, and that trust comes from consistent, thoughtful communication that does not require you to reinvent anything from scratch. This episode is about real systems used to make family communication work without adding extra weight to your day.

In this episode, I share:

• why approaching families as the experts on their child while you are the expert on education makes every interaction more collaborative and less adversarial
• how a weekly newsletter framed around "ask me about" gives families specific ways to connect with their child without you having to do more
• why making the first communication of the year a positive phone call home changes the tone of the whole relationship
• how to set clear email expectations with families so they are not caught off guard when you do not respond immediately
• why sending positive notes and updates throughout the year matters just as much as reaching out when something is wrong
• how to use the same templates, newsletters, and systems year after year so strong communication does not become extra work

Family partnerships are built one interaction at a time, and the goal is not to do more. It is to be consistent. When families feel informed and trusted, conferences get easier, hard conversations get shorter, and the whole year runs more smoothly.

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• Using Seesaw for Improving Family Communication ~ Ep. 39
• Getting Ready for Parent-Teacher Conferences – Ep. 2
• Tips for Difficult Parent-Teacher Conversations ~ Ep. 3
• Why Parent Communication Breaks Down ~ Ep. 155
• What Teachers Get Wrong About Supporting Learning at Home ~ Ep. 156

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Almost every family wants to help their child learn at home, but teachers can accidentally make that help feel overwhelming, unrealistic, or unclear. If you have ever sent home a homework packet and wondered whether it was really helping anyone, this episode will help you rethink what supporting learning at home can look like in a way that works for real families with real schedules.

In this episode, I share:

• why sending home too much busy work can do more harm than good, and what quality over quantity looks like for kindergarten families
• how to set realistic expectations that account for the fact that families have very different home lives, schedules, and resources
• why showing families exactly how to practice a skill matters more than just telling them their child needs extra work
• how to embed learning into what families are already doing, like driving home, setting the table, or reading a menu together
• why reading aloud together at home matters for every child, including kids who are already reading on their own
• simple ways to help families support math learning through everyday moments without adding anything extra to their day

Your goal is not to send home more. It’s to make home support easier. The families who feel equipped and not overwhelmed are the ones who will actually follow through.

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• Homework in kindergarten? What’s best for students?
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Strong family partnerships do not fall apart because of one bad conversation. They fall apart because expectations were never clearly set in the first place, and by the time there is a problem, everyone is already caught off guard. This episode breaks down the most common reasons family communication breaks down and exactly what to do to prevent those situations before they start.

In this episode, I share:

• why most difficult parent situations are preventable, and why setting expectations early is the most important thing you can do
• how to clearly communicate with families about how and when you will respond, so no one feels ignored or blindsided
• why waiting until parent-teacher conferences to bring up a concern is one of the biggest communication mistakes teachers make
• how misaligned expectations about what kindergarten looks like lead to misunderstandings, and how to address them directly
• why telling families their child is struggling is not enough without also telling them how to help
• how to find the right balance between over-communicating and under-communicating for the families in your specific class
• what consistent, low-effort communication systems look like in practice, including weekly newsletters, Seesaw, and template emails that save you time

Families feel less anxious and more supportive when they feel like part of the team. Building simple, consistent communication systems now saves you from much harder conversations later.

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• Using Seesaw for Improving Family Communication ~ Ep. 39
• Creating Meaningful Parent-Teacher Partnerships ~ Ep. 107

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Kindergarten has changed, and if you’ve ever wondered whether the expectations we’re placing on our youngest learners are actually developmentally appropriate, this conversation is for you.

In this episode, I’m joined by Kate, also known as @EvidenceBasedKate on TikTok, who has spent 20 years in education as a classroom teacher and curriculum writer and now helps bridge the gap between educational research and what’s happening in classrooms.

• What research tells us about how kindergarten has become increasingly academic and why developmental expectations for five-year-olds haven’t changed along with it
• How standardized testing, education policy, and academic standards have contributed to pushing higher expectations into the early grades
• Why play, recess, social-emotional development, and other foundational skills create important conditions for learning
• What the research says about kindergarten redshirting and why the answer isn’t as straightforward as it may seem
• How to look more critically at claims that a curriculum or teaching practice is “research-based,” including resources teachers can use to find trustworthy education research
• Practical ways to work within a required curriculum while still honoring child development, foundational skills, joyful reading experiences, and what you know about the students in front of you

One of my biggest takeaways from this conversation is that you don’t have to overhaul everything at once. If something in your classroom doesn’t feel right, start by getting curious, look at the evidence, and choose one manageable change you can make. Small, intentional shifts can help us create kindergarten classrooms that meet academic expectations while still honoring how young children actually learn.

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If a student has come to you with little to no letter or number knowledge and your first instinct is to panic, this episode is here to help you take a breath and make a plan instead. Kids arrive in kindergarten from different places, and not knowing letters or numbers is not a crisis, it is a starting point.

In this episode, I share:

• why a child arriving with no letter or number knowledge is not something to panic about, and what your job is when that happens
• how to figure out what a student does know so you can meet them exactly where they are instead of focusing only on the gaps
• where to start with literacy when a student has no letter knowledge, from name recognition to fine motor to the most foundational phonological skills
• how to back up and build number sense step by step for students who are not yet tracking count, number order, or one-to-one correspondence
• why strong social-emotional skills in a child with no academic knowledge is actually a really good sign, and what that tells you about their ability to learn
• how to talk to families early without panicking them, and why that conversation is one of the most important things you can do
• why celebrating even small growth with the student matters as much as the extra practice itself

Not knowing the letters or numbers when they walk in the door is not the problem. The question is how they progress once you start teaching them, and this episode helps you stay focused on exactly that.

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If you have been wondering what small group instruction actually looks like in a real kindergarten classroom, not the idealized version, but the practical, flexible, works-for-actual-five-year-olds version, this episode is for you. I walk through exactly how I approach literacy and math instruction, including when to pull small groups, what happens in them, and how to work smarter instead of reinventing lessons every single week.

In this episode, I share:

• why small groups do not need to look like traditional guided reading, and how staying flexible with the format serves kids better
• when it makes sense to start pulling small groups, and why waiting until kids are truly independent first is the right call
• what a literacy small group looks like, from warm-up to hands-on letter practice to games that keep kids engaged
• why repeating the same activities over and over is not boring - it is actually one of the most effective things you can do for kids who need extra support
• how to target the exact missing skill in math by meeting kids just above where they currently are, using concrete materials and observation to guide the work
• why flexible grouping matters and how to adjust who is in a group based on progress rather than locking kids in for the whole year

You do not need a new lesson every day or a perfectly structured table group to make small group time count. Meet kids where they are, repeat what works, and trust that consistent targeted practice is what moves the needle.

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• Why Students Fall Behind Early ~ Ep. 150
• Mistakes in Teaching Letters and Numbers ~ Ep. 151
• Differentiating Instruction in Kindergarten for Diverse Learners ~ Ep. 75
• Minimizing Disruptions During Kindergarten Small Groups ~ Ep. 117
• How I Launch Math and Literacy Centers ~ Ep. 148

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Sometimes students are not struggling because something is wrong. Sometimes it’s how the material is being taught, or because a curriculum is moving too fast for where they actually are. This episode is an honest look at the most common mistakes teachers make when teaching letters and numbers, and how to fix them before they create bigger gaps down the road.

In this episode, I share:

• why moving to reading words and books before letters and sounds are solid is one of the fastest ways to make kids look like they are falling behind when they are really right on track
• how teaching letters too quickly or expecting mastery after one round of instruction sets kids up to struggle
• why hands-on learning matters more than worksheets, especially for students who are not picking up letters and sounds at the same pace as their peers
• why daily review, even just one to four minutes, is critical for helping all students hold onto what they have learned
• how focusing on math procedures and facts before kids understand what numbers actually mean creates gaps that follow them for years
• why concrete manipulatives need to come before visual or abstract math, and what it looks like to slow down for the kids who need it
• why coverage does not equal mastery, and why it is always okay to stay with a skill longer than the curriculum says to

Strong foundational skills save everyone time in the long run. Slowing down now is not falling behind, it is exactly what kindergartners need to move forward with confidence.

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• Kindergarten Small Groups for Teaching Letter Sounds ~ Ep. 106
• Essential Math Skills Every Kindergartener Needs ~ Ep. 66
• Exploring Counting Math Centers in Kindergarten Classrooms ~ Ep. 8
• Why Students Fall Behind Early ~ Ep. 150

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Kindergarten teachers know that kids arrive with wildly different backgrounds and levels of readiness, and it can be hard to know what to do when a student is already struggling in the fall. This episode is a practical guide to understanding which foundational skills matter at the start of the year, how to spot gaps early, and what to do about them before they grow.

In this episode, I share:

• why kids not having foundational skills when they arrive is not a failure on anyone, and what your job is when that happens
• which literacy skills matter most in kindergarten, including letter names and sounds, phonological awareness, fine motor, and oral language
• which math skills to prioritize early, like counting, one-to-one correspondence, subitizing, and cardinality
• why observing students as they work tells you more than a formal assessment, and what to look for
• how to give extra support and differentiation early without needing formal small groups in place yet
• when lack of progress after good instruction is the real signal to be concerned, not where a child started

Kids do not fall behind overnight, and you do not have to wait for report cards to respond to what you are seeing. Observe early, support consistently, and trust that meeting kids where they are is exactly the right place to start.

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• Essential Math Skills Every Kindergartener Needs ~ Ep. 66
• Kindergarten Case Study: Supporting Kindergarteners With No Letter Knowledge ~ Ep. 105

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