Are you worn out as a mom or dad?  (I'm thinking you are nodding your head right now... unless you are too tired!)
Bestselling author and pastor Kyle Idleman knows the feeling. We’re talking about his new book When Your Way Isn’t Working. In today's conversation, you'll learn:
2:30 When you’re worn out and not acting like yourself 
4:10 How can you encourage your husband to seek out help from a counselor or otherwise?  
7:30 Examples of controlling metaphors (this is brilliant!) 
10:00 Prioritizing connection overproduction (John 15)
15:10 Doing what is right even when you are too tired 
17:05 The difference between superficial vs connective friends
20:50 These are the four warning lights in parenting
24:00 The wheel of feelings on the fridge 
26:30 Watering a fake plant (don’t spend your life producing something that’s not real)
Kyle Idleman is the senior pastor at Southeast Christian Church, one of the largest churches in America. He's written books like Gods at War and Not a Fan. His new book is When Your Way Isn’t Working: Finding Purpose and Contentment through Deep Connection with Jesus. Kyle and his wife have four children. Learn more at his website: kyleidleman.com
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Kyle Idleman - When Your Parenting Isn't Working

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When a child comes into a home through adoption, there are unique joys and challenges. You are probably familiar with Dr. Gary Chapman's five love languages. Do any adjustments need to be made to speak these love languages to adopted kids? Dr. Laurel Shaler has teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to write a new book Loving Adopted Children Well: A 5 Love Languages Approach. Today we're talking with Dr. Laurel Shaler about: 
2:24 How to love adopted and biological children - is there a difference? 
8:40 Laurel's journey of adoption 
12:42 How adoption takes a step of faith 
15:50 The unique challenges and joys of adoption 
20:35 How to apply the 5 love languages to adopted children 
25:21 We can see adoption in the Bible...
Dr. Laurel Shaler is a nationally certified counselor and licensed marriage and family therapist. She is a professor at Liberty University and she’s teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to write the book, Loving Adopted Children Well: A 5 Love Languages Approach. You can learn more about the book and Dr. Laurel Shaler at drlaurelshaler.com
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Dr. Laurel Shaler - Loving Adopted Kids Well

Imagine what it would be like to move your family of 8 across the ocean only to find out your job had been canceled? That's what happened in the Smallbone family who you probably know as the band For King and Country. Joel Smallbone is here to talk about growing up without a proper bed but with a front-row seat to miracles. He's here to talk about his new film, Unsung Hero. 
Joel Smallbone is one-half of the 4 time Grammy award-winning duo For King and Country with his brother Luke. They have generated over 2 billion streams, 10 GMA Dove awards, and 17 KLOVE fan awards. You know their songs from For God is With Us, God Only Knows, Joy, and Together. The new movie chronicling their family’s journey from Australia to America is called Unsung Hero. It opens in theaters nationwide on April 26.  
To find out more about Unsung Hero, go to unsunghero.movie
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Joel Smallbone - Unsung Hero

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When your schedule gets fuller and fuller, what ends up happening in your life? Do you feel happier or just more exhausted? A full schedule does not equal a fulfilled life. Many times being too busy is the problem. If you are tired of being tired, author Jess Connolly is here with ideas for slowing down, creating healthier rhythms, and resting (even when you have kids!). In today's candid conversation, you'll learn: 
2:28 The harmful narrative that wives often think about their husbands 
4:45 When we start living tired...
8:42 Why we sometimes just push through the warning signs of being fatigued
11:41 Its okay to go on “low power mode” 
18:44 If you are in a “hustle” season, do this  
21:05 How to mentally rebuild yourself through breath prayer 
23:05 Setting healthy rhythms that help us connect with God
27:03 You don’t have to wait until your kids are grown to rest

Jess Connolly is an author, Bible teacher, podcaster and coach. She and her husband Nick planted Bright City Church in Charleston, South Carolina where they live with their 4 kids. Her other books include Wild and Free, and You are the Girl for the Job.
Learn about Jess Connolly and the book we talked about on today's episode, Tired of Being Tired. jessconnolly.com
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Jess Connolly - Tired of Being Tired

Does your child struggle with being lonely? It is heartbreaking when a son or daughter says, "I don't have any friends." Loneliness is something we all experience from time to time.  How can we help our kids know they are not alone because they are loved by us and more importantly, by God? Beloved author Max Lucado is here to shout good news to every soul. His new children's book, Just in Case You Ever Feel Alone, will bring comfort to you and your kids. In today's conversation, you'll learn: 
2:20 Receive this encouragement not just for your kids, but for you
7:44 How has technology affected the way a family communicates 
11:37 How can we as parents become “missionaries” for our children 
17:20 What to say to your child who may feel lonely at school 
20:06 How can you help your child when you feel lonely yourself? 
22:47 How to avoid leaving marriage behind while raising your kids
Max Lucado is a prolific author, pastor, and host of the Encouraging Word podcast on AccessMore. He's written more than 40 books since the 1980s that have been translated into 50 languages, selling more than 145 million copies worldwide. He's been dubbed "America's Pastor" by Christianity Today and "The Best Preacher in America" by Reader's Digest. He serves the people of Oak Hills Church in San Antonio TX. 
Learn about Max Lucado and his new children's book we talked about on today's episode, Just in Case You Ever Feel Alone. maxlucado.com

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Kyle Idleman - When Your Parenting Isn't Working

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