LeadHerShip: Toddlers, Teenagers, and a Team

In this powerful episode of the LeadHerShip Podcast, I sit down with Adam Ramsey, author of Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You, for a conversation that will completely shift how you think about presence, limits, and what it means to live a Proverbs 31 lifestyle in today's world.

Adam brings incredible biblical depth and pastoral wisdom to questions ambitious Christian moms are actually asking: How do I balance big vision with being present today? What does it mean to embrace my limits without giving up on my calling? How do I know if I'm striving in my own strength or trusting God's timing?

If you're an ambitious Christian mom trying to show up well in this season, you need to hear this conversation. It's biblical, practical, and so encouraging for the aspiring Proverbs 31 woman who wants to honor God in every area of her life.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The biblical definition of being faithfully present – It's not about perfection or balance; it's about showing up fully where God has placed you right now

• How to know if you're trusting God or just striving – Practical indicators that reveal whether you're working from rest or running on fumes

• How to hold vision without letting it dominate your present – The key to pursuing big goals without losing your peace

• How to be present with your family while building something meaningful – You don't have to choose between impact and family

• The freedom that comes from accepting you can't do it all – And why that's not defeat, it's wisdom

Adam's Book:

• ⁠Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You⁠ – The book we discuss throughout this episode

Adam Ramsey is a pastor, author, and speaker passionate about helping people understand what it means to live faithfully in the place and time God has given them. He's the author of Faithfully Present: Embracing the Limits of Where and When God Has You, a book that's transforming how Christians think about ambition, calling, and contentment.

Adam serves as Lead Pastor at Liberti Church in Gold Coast, Australia, and is part of the Acts 29 church planting network. He's also a regular contributor to The Gospel Coalition and Desiring God. Adam and his wife have been in pastoral ministry for over 15 years and are raising their family while navigating the beautiful tension of vision and presence.

His work has encouraged thousands of believers to embrace their God-given limits while still pursuing kingdom impact—making him the perfect guest for this conversation about living a Proverbs 31 lifestyle in the modern world.

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The LeadHerShip Podcast is your guide to becoming a modern Proverbs 31 woman—someone who's present with her family, purposeful with her time, and yes, very profitable in her endeavors.

Hosted by Brittney Howard, mom of six, aspiring Proverbs 31 woman, and business mentor leading ambitious Christian moms to six-figure success between science projects and soccer practice. This podcast proves you don't have to choose between biblical womanhood and godly ambition—you can honor God in every area of your life.

Whether you're navigating Christian motherhood, building a faith-based business, or simply asking "what does it mean to be a Proverbs 31 woman in today's world?", you'll find biblical wisdom, practical strategies, and real encouragement here.

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Ever feel like you're physically in the room but mentally somewhere else entirely? Like you're going through the motions of your day while your mind races ahead to tomorrow's to-do list or replays yesterday's failures? Same.

In this episode of the LeadHerShip Podcast, I uncover the #1 barrier that keeps ambitious Christian women from being fully present...and it's probably not what you think!

I'm sharing the biblical truth that changed everything for me, plus practical strategies to help you break free from the stress cycle and start showing up fully—mind, body, and spirit—to the people and priorities God has entrusted to you.

This isn't about hustling harder OR slowing down! It's about learning to be faithfully present in a way that honors both your God-given vision and your today. Whether you're building a business, homeschooling your kids, or just trying to keep everyone fed and loved, you need to hear this.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The real definition of faithful presence – It's not just being physically there; it's showing up mentally, emotionally, and spiritually engaged in the moment God has given you
• Why stress is the #1 presence killer – And how most of your stress isn't even about what's happening now, but what you're afraid might happen later
• The dangerous trap of vision without trust – How your God-given vision can become a source of pressure instead of inspiration when you forget who's actually in control
• The identity issue behind your stress – Why tying your worth to your outcomes keeps you in constant striving mode (and what to do about it)
• How God works through means – The biblical theology that will completely shift how you view your daily habits, systems, and routines
• The Proverbs 31 woman's secret to peace – She wasn't panicking her way to productivity; she worked her systems faithfully with her eyes fixed on the Lord
• Practical ways to stay present – Simple, do-able habits
• Reflection questions – Powerful prompts to help you identify where pressure is stealing your presence in your home, business, and spiritual life

Practical Application:

• How to balance having a strong vision for your future while staying faithfully present in your today
• Why your habits and systems aren't unspiritual—they're actually deeply spiritual when rooted in obedience
• How to know when you're truly present (hint: you'll actually feel your emotions instead of numbing them)

Resources Mentioned:

• Time Blocker Template – My proven system for managing your days with intention instead of reaction
• Complete Chore System – The exact framework I use to run a peaceful home with 6 kids (includes age-appropriate chore ideas)
• Age-Appropriate Chore Ideas PDF – Quick reference guide for what kids can handle at different ages

Past Episodes Referenced:

• Episode 60: The 5 Step Process of Time Management in Life and Business – Deep dive into how I manage a multi-six-figure business while being present for 6 kids

• Episode 65: The Deepest Motivator for a True Proverbs 31 Woman (and the Results)

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The LeadHerShip Podcast is your weekly guide to becoming a modern Proverbs 31 woman—someone who's present with her family, purposeful with her time, and yes, very profitable in her endeavors. Hosted by Brittney Howard, mom of six, aspiring Proverbs 31 woman, and business mentor leading ambitious Christian moms to six-figure success between science projects and soccer practice.

Whether you're juggling babies, giving wisdom to a teenager, or growing a business, you'll find peace while going all in on pursuing purpose here.

Your feedback means the world and helps more ambitious Christian mamas find this podcast. Thanks for being here. 🤍

After a six-month pause, Brittney is back behind the mic—and this episode is as raw and real as it gets. What started as a break to dive deeper into being present turned into a struggle against fear, imposter syndrome, spiritual perfectionism, and ultimately, landed on grace.

This episode will speak straight to the heart of every ambitious Christian woman who's ever wrestled with self-doubt while chasing God’s calling. If you’ve ever felt unqualified, afraid to fail, or paralyzed by perfectionism—this one is for you. 💛

What You'll Learn in this Episode:

• The truth about spiritual perfectionism and how it shows up in motherhood and business

• How imposter syndrome can sneak in even when you're doing impactful work

• A powerful reflection question that will change how you spend your time

• What it really means to be present—mind, body, and spirit

• The biblical wisdom that finally silenced the inner critic

Scriptures:

“If I had one year left to live, I would do this podcast. And I'm not promised a year. I'm not even promised more than today. So this is me numbering my days.”

This episode is for every ambitious Christian mom trying to juggle faith, family, and business while staying truly present in the moment. We’re continuing our Proverbs 31 series by diving into the third pillar: Presence. What does it really mean to be present—not just physically, but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually? If you’ve ever felt torn between your responsibilities and wondered how to be fully engaged where it matters most, this one’s for you. Grab your coffee and let’s chat!

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What true presence means beyond just physical proximity

• How the Proverbs 31 woman balanced her home life and business
• The difference between presence and passivity
• How prioritization and boundaries help you stay present
• Why “perfect balance” is a myth—and what to focus on instead
• Practical ways to delegate responsibilities without guilt

Resources Mentioned:

• FREE Age-Appropriate Chore Ideas for Kids download
• The Complete Chore System

Key Quote:“To be present means to be intentionally focused on what matters most in each moment. It’s not about where your feet are-it’s about where your focus is.”

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Can you really be a present, hands-on mom while also building a profitable business? YES! And in this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on exactly how + why I did it. From a tight financial season as a one-income family to earning six figures from home, I’m sharing my journey of discovering a business model that aligned with my values, my faith, and my desire to be home with my kids. If you've ever felt the tug to be both productive and profitable but didn’t know where to start—this episode is for you!

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✔️ How the Proverbs 31 woman inspired my journey to becoming both productive and profitable

✔️ The moment I knew I wanted to build a business that fit my family’s lifestyle

✔️ Why network marketing is the smartest business model for busy moms

✔️ The unexpected blessings that came from saying YES to this opportunity

✔️ How YOU can start making money in a way that fits your life and values

Resources Mentioned:📌 FREE GUIDE: The Productive Proverbs 31 Mom’s Guide to Making Money Without a Huge Following – Grab it here! 📌 DM me the word PROFIT on Instagram or Facebook if you’re ready to chat about your next steps!

Key Quote:"You do not have to choose between being a present mom and making real money. You just need the right path."

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What's holding you back from the profitability God designed you for? In part 2 of our series on barriers to biblical profit, we're tackling two massive obstacles that keep Christian women from being as profitable as they have the potential to be: the myth of perfect timing and the lack of consistency. If you've ever caught yourself saying "I'm waiting for the right time" or struggled to stay consistent in building something meaningful, this episode will give you both the biblical perspective and practical steps to move forward in confidence.

🎧 Episode Highlights:

- Deep dive into barriers 3 & 4 that limit profitability (continuing from last week's episode)

- Why "perfect timing" is often just fear in disguise

- The compound effect of consistency in business and life

- Biblical perspectives on taking action vs waiting

- How breaking promises to yourself impacts confidence

🔑 Key Barriers Discussed:

3. Waiting for the Perfect Time

- Why perfect timing is a myth

- How waiting costs you valuable experience

- The relationship between action and confidence

4. Lack of Consistency

- The compound effect of small actions

- Why people get discouraged too soon

- How consistency builds trust with customers

- The J-curve of growth and success

📚 Resources Mentioned:

-⁠⁠Free Guide: Top Books that Shaped My Biblical Perspective About Money⁠⁠

- Previous Episode: Part 1 of Barriers to Biblical Profit (Episode 72)

⚡️ Action Steps:

1. Identify which of the 4 barriers impacts you most:

- Fear of what people think

- Not recognizing your value

- Waiting for perfect timing

- Inconsistency

2. Choose one small step to move past your primary barrier

3. Download the free book guide for biblical money mindset resources

4. Focus on your next step rather than the whole mountain

💫 Remember: "God didn't put those dreams and desires in your heart in vain. The desires of your heart are clues as to what your purpose is and how you should be serving others."

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When we look at the Proverbs 31 woman, we see someone who was intentionally profitable - she perceived that her merchandise was good, made strategic investments, and created value for others. But what keeps modern Christian women from experiencing this same kind of success? In this transformative episode, we're diving deep into the invisible barriers that might be holding you back from the profitability God designed you for.

🎧 Episode Highlights:

Understanding God's Design for Profit (00:00-05:30)

• The biblical foundation for profitable business
• How the Proverbs 31 woman viewed profit as a tool for impact
• Why profit motivation isn't opposed to godly living

Fear of Man: The First Major Barrier (05:31-25:45)

• Seven ways this fear manifests in business
• Biblical perspective on people-pleasing versus God-pleasing
• How to develop courage while acknowledging fear
• Practical steps for moving past approval addiction

Insecurity: The Second Barrier (25:46-45:00)

• Why self-awareness isn't self-absorption
• Understanding the difference between pride and good stewardship
• How undervaluing your gifts limits Kingdom impact
• Tools for discovering your God-given value proposition

Resources Mentioned:

-⁠Free Guide: Top Books that Shaped My Biblical Perspective About Money⁠

Action Steps:

1. Identify which of the two profit barriers discussed resonates most strongly with you

2. Choose one small action step to implement this week to push past your primary barrier

3. Reflect on how each barrier might be affecting your business or income potential

4. Begin studying the biblical passages referenced to develop a stronger theological foundation for profitable business endeavors

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In this episode, we explore the second pillar of the Proverbs 31 lifestyle: being profitable. Discover why the desire for profit is part of God's design and how being motivated by profit biblically differs from greed. Learn how the Proverbs 31 woman's approach to business and profit should guide Christian moms in their work.

🎧 Episode Highlights:

- Why God designed us with a desire for profit (and how it's different from greed!)

- What the Proverbs 31 woman teaches us about biblical business

- How profit enables greater kingdom impact

- The surprising connection between innovation and profit motivation

- Why your desire to build something profitable might actually be from God

Resources Mentioned:

-Free Guide: Top Books that Shaped My Biblical Perspective About Money

-Previous Episode: "Success Didn't Subtract from My Family, it Shaped it"

Action Steps:

1. Download the free biblical money mindset book guide

2. Journal about any money guilt you're carrying

3. Study the Proverbs 31 passage about profitable business

4. Pray for God's perspective on profit and provision

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In this episode, we are talking about three transformational systems that have revolutionized how I manage my home with 6 kids while running a successful business. Whether you're juggling toddlers in diapers or teenagers going in all directions, these systems will help you create more order, build character in your children, and find the peace you're craving.

What You'll Learn:

- A biblical framework for creating systems that bring order to your home

- How to implement a time blocking system that works with unpredictable family life

- A proven chore system that develops work ethic and responsibility in children

- A streamlined meal planning approach that eliminates daily decision fatigue

- Templates and resources to help you start implementing immediately

- Confidence to build and maintain systems that serve your unique family

Resources Mentioned:

- Time Blocker Template

-FREE Age-Appropriate Chore Ideas Download

- MealBoard App

- Episode 60: 5 Step Process of Time Management

Key Quotes:

"Systems are not about having rigid structure that box you in, systems are about creating intentional frameworks that actually give you more freedom and peace."

"You don't rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems." - James Clear

Scripture Reference:

Galatians 6:9 - "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."

Ready to Transform Your Home?

Start with one system, implement it well, and build from there.

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Today I am getting real with y'all about those seasons when productivity just isn't happening the way we want it to. I shared my own experience this past week of needing to reset after traveling + 3 unexpected snow days for the kids and how it affected my routines, energy, and mindset.

What I want you to remember:

- There's a big difference between being a productive person and trying to be productive every single moment

- We need to understand the difference between needed rest and "the bread of idleness"

- When one habit slips (usually sleep or nutrition for me), it can create a domino effect

- It's so important to recognize when we need a reset and not beat ourselves up about it

Here are the strategies I've learned for resetting:

1. Pay attention to early warning signs:

- Physical symptoms (fatigue, digestive issues)

- Mental fog

- Emotional sensitivity

- Increased mom guilt

2. Focus on the foundation first:

- Start with sleep (nothing works well without this!)

- Get back to basics with nutrition

- Include gentle movement like walking

- Make time for prayer and Bible reading

3. Get perspective from people who know you well

4. Trust God's timing and remember - this is His work, not just yours

Something that's really helped me when I need a complete reset, especially with nutrition, is doing a structured 3-day Reset that helps clear the mental fog and restore my energy. See what that's all about here!

If you wanna know more about that, I'd love to share details with you! Just pick a platform and shoot me a message!

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Biblical truth I'm holding onto: "My yoke is easy and my burden is light." When everything feels too heavy, it's usually because I'm striving in my own strength instead of abiding in His. 🤍

Remember mama - productivity isn't about perfection, it's about faithfulness. You're doing better than you feel like you are. ♥️

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