Want to become a super communicator? You can, according to Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author Charles Duhigg. Here, the author of Supercommmunicators shares the neuroscience and key principles everyone can use in their daily life. One example: Ask others how they feel about their life, rather than about the facts of their life.

“Being charismatic or clever or smart is not an ingredient of being a super communicator.”

“People who are good at connecting ask questions … 10 to 20 times as many questions.”