In this episode, I want to share a mindset shift or an awareness that I had this past week.  It is about the things that we resent or resist and looking at the energy that we are wasting sitting in these emotions.  What if these are the things we even despise of ourselves and we are holding onto that resentment.  It is a weight that is holding us down, keeping us stuck in the same cycle of energy and frustration.  We will never create change in this cycle. The circumstances and situations that made us who we are, are exactly the things we are being called to appreciate and be grateful for?  What if these things are the actual things we must learn to love, respect, and appreciate about ourselves. In today’s episode we discuss: 

1) When you ask different questions, you get different answers.  You cannot love yourself and hate all of the stories that made you who you are. It doesn’t work that way. Sometimes the perspective shift is so one simple question that changes everything. 2) What if the things you have grown to resent, resist, and maybe even despise of yourself, are actually the things that you must learn to love, respect, and appreciate about yourself.  This is such a powerful shift in our mindset. 3)  This always takes me back to the Rebecca Campbell quote, “Bless the thing that cracked you open, because now more than ever, the world needs you open.”  This is the work that we do in Owning Your Story, and the result is a new level of healing, freedom, certainty, confidence, and purpose that is impossible to describe. 

4) What is one thing you can look at in yourself, something that you once resented that you might be able to look at differently? Join the Rising Leaders Collectivehttps://www.marshavanw.rlcmBlocks to Owning Your Story Quizhttps://www.marshavanw.com/story-blocks Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker and Life CoachMarsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”.  She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation.

Through her programs, coaching and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life.  She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support and impact others