We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event!

Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE

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1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate".

2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out".

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well!

Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA! 

6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_ 

6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative

6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast"

6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects

6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun 

6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride

6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair

6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj

6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela

6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership

6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride

6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer

6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc

6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride

6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride

6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc

6/24/23 - Pride 5K 

6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl

6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal 

6/23/23 - NYC Pride 

NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment

Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge

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It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons..

For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group. 

We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you.

Family Meeting Q&A:

1. "Can you be friends with an EX?"

2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"."

3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust."

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them.

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- "She has slept with over 100 people".

Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements...

And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list.

We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute. 

The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women.

HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon! 

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You don't have to be famous or be known by the world to leave behind a legacy that will live beyond our existence. We all play a part in the impact and influence we have on one another's lives. It’s up to you on what you want to be remembered for.

In this episode we talk about the people we looked up to that have shaped us into who we've become leading up to adulthood. We dive into how in creating this platform, we'll leave that legacy behind us and how we want to be remembered as a couple as well as an individual.

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“I’m straight but I think I’m in love with my BFF”

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Do you know that the cl*t is basically a small penis? LOL

Where did we get this information? On Planet Sex with model Cara Delevingne. On Planet Sex, Cara talks about growing up feeling ashamed of her sexuality and fearful of exploring it. Cara meets people from all over the world who live their lives out loud, and proud, In each episode she explores a different question about sexual orientation and gender identity. In this episode, we focus on certain episodes we loved!

We also dive into other topics, such as 

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When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way.