Our friend Scott Kedersha joins us to discuss the challenges and impact of pornography in relationships. Scott is the Marriage Pastor at Harris Creek Baptist Church. He shares his personal journey and how he became passionate about helping couples build strong marriages. Scott provides insights on how to address pornography addiction, the dangers of watching pornography together, and the importance of finding hope in difficult situations. He emphasizes the need for open conversations about pornography and the role of faith in strengthening marriages. Scott also introduces his books and podcast, which provide practical guidance and encouragement for couples. The conversation explores the importance of pursuing Jesus and practicing humility in marriage.

Scott's Books:

Ready or Knot? 12 Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have before Marriage

The Ready or Knot Prayer Guide: 100 Prayers for Dating and Engaged Couples

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate fear in relationships, particularly when there has been a history of betrayal. They emphasize the importance of trusting in God's goodness and surrendering control. They also discuss the need to question feelings and challenge irrational thoughts. Applying biblical truth and communicating openly in relationships are key to overcoming fear. The episode concludes with a reminder that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.

In this conversation, Chelsea and Layton discuss the impact of dopamine on addictive behavior, particularly in relation to pornography and sexual addiction. They explore how engaging in addictive behavior can lead to temptation and sin, as well as the dangers of dopamine addiction. They also discuss the influence of big tech and the need to be present in order to hear from God. Practical steps for overcoming addiction and healing from unhealthy self-image are also shared. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding the role of dopamine in our culture and taking intentional steps to break free from addictive behaviors.

The State of the Culture, 2024

Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought help through a 12-step program. Nate emphasizes the importance of holistic healing, including emotional, spiritual, and community support. He also discusses the impact of his sobriety on his family relationships and the power of vulnerability and confession in finding healing. The conversation explores the importance of being a safe place for others, the progression and future of pornography,  collaboration in the recovery community, and unity and hope in recovery.

Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood

Pirate Podcast Monk

SamsonSociety.com

SarahSociety.com

In this episode of Liberator, Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of fighting fair in the context of pornography and relationships. They draw from their own experiences and share insights on how to navigate conflict without bringing up past hurts. They emphasize the need for humility, forgiveness, and taking thoughts captive. The episode highlights the power of vulnerability and communication in resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships.

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss how to navigate friendships of the opposite sex in the context of healing and rebuilding trust after experiencing betrayal. They emphasize the importance of being vulnerable with the right people and being cautious of oversharing. The conversation covers topics such as seeking accountability, setting boundaries, including spouses in conversations and interactions, and the role of emotional connections in relationships. They also highlight the significance of building trust through scripture, open communication, and embracing community and friendships.

Phil and Priscilla Fretwell share their journey of healing and restoration in their marriage after years of secrecy and addiction. They emphasize the importance of transparency, vulnerability, and accountability in overcoming struggles and finding healing. Their story has had a ripple effect, impacting their family and friends, and they now minister to others through Savage Marriage Ministries. They encourage couples to take a step into the pain and seek healing through confession and prayer. Their story offers hope and encouragement to those who feel hopeless in their marriages.

Savage Marriage by Phil & Priscilla Fretwell

SavageMarriageMinistries.com

Jamie's New Book: https://www.jamieivey.com/get-it-together

Jamie's Website: https://www.jamieivey.com

The healing process after betrayal is long and fraught with unexpected challenges. Even the smallest misunderstanding can spiral into a full-blown fight when trust is fragile or missing. In this episode we break down a common conflict that we've found ourselves in, as well as how we've learned to navigate it over the years.

Every day seems to bring a new invention or scientific breakthrough. This episode we take a few minutes to parse through the intersection of technology and porn, as well as give our thoughts on where we see some of these trends heading.