Life After Divorce Coaching

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss different ways to speed up the divorce process. They will give up ways to speed up the process and will not only save you time, but it may also save you money, emotion, and stress. The less confrontational the divorce, generally, the less time it will take.

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We are talking about the big things, little things. We are talking about daily things, talking about hourly things, and lifelong things. Today in episode 165, we are talking about honoring your own wants. We think it’s impossible to live the fullest expression of yourself if you don’t honor your own wants. There are a lot of people either accepting, “I don’t know” and not caring enough about what they want, or denying what they want for what someone else wants for them. Let’s discuss your wants.

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Regret is typically not a very useful emotion. It has us worrying and stressed. It’s usually over something that’s happened or been done. It’s like a missed opportunity or a failed event is kind of how I think about it. And the feeling is this intense disappointment over having made the “wrong” decision.

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss how regret will not serve your wants or your goals.

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In this exciting episode you’ll find out how Doreen Yaffa, a high power Board Certified Family Attorney of almost 30 years and her husband, 4th degree Black Belt, Sensei Jeff Wilson both became Life Coaches and started their business Life After Divorce Coaching in Boca Raton, Florida.

This episode will also appear for the first time on YouTube. So, hear or see them explain their motivation and love for helping others before, during and after divorce.

About half of all American children will experience their parents’ divorce. While divorce is often stressful for families, a great deal of the stress gets thrusted onto the children trying to adjust to their new life. One important factor linked with child outcomes after divorce is the quality of the divorced couple’s co-parenting relationship.

In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss some of the do’s and don’ts of coparenting and how to your children’s best interest first.

In this episode, Doreen and Jeff dive into the impact of relying on hope and luck, and how these attitudes can actually hinder your future results. They explore the common mindset of saying "someday if I’m lucky enough" or "I hope so," and explain why these thoughts can keep you stuck in place rather than moving forward.

Learn how to shift your mindset from wishful thinking to setting powerful, intentional goals. Doreen and Jeff share strategies for making a commitment to your goals and taking massive, purposeful action to achieve them. Tune in to discover how you can transform your approach and start creating the future you truly desire.

In this episode, Jeff and Doreen explore the transformative effects of slowing down your mind. During the divorce process taking the time to calm our mind and body allows us to think more rationally and make better decisions. Deep breathing serves as a powerful tool to achieve this state of calmness, allowing us to think clearly and make choices that align with our wants.

By combining a calm, rational mind with intentional deep breathing, you not only enhance your decision-making abilities but also unlock the potential to create and accomplish anything you truly want.

Tune in to discover how calming your mind can lead to better decisions, greater creativity, and the ability to achieve your goals with clarity and confidence and create the life you want after divorce.

People are often taught to see the world in black and white, categorizing things as either good or bad. There are good guys and bad guys, and the goal is to eliminate the bad so that only the good remains. However, this binary thinking can lead to unrealistic expectations and an intolerance for anything less than perfection from yourself or others, ultimately making you miserable.

In this episode, Jeff and Doreen discuss the pitfalls of perfectionism and how it can negatively impact your relationships and personal well-being. They explore the importance of embracing imperfection and adopting a more compassionate and realistic mindset. By accepting that everyone has flaws and that not everything can be categorized so simply, you can foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships and a more contented life.

In this episode, Jeff and Doreen explore how a cost-benefit analysis, commonly used in business, can be a powerful tool during a divorce. This method involves evaluating the worth of a relationship or action by subtracting the costs (such as time, money, and effort) from the benefits (such as friendship, companionship, and social support). This analysis can help you strategically approach the divorce process.

By conducting a thorough cost-benefit analysis, you can gain clarity on your priorities and make informed decisions that will guide you through the divorce process more effectively. Jeff and Doreen provide further insights on how to apply this analytical approach, helping you navigate the complexities of divorce with confidence and foresight.

Fitness and exercise have many benefits to your life after divorce. Join us as Doreen and Jeff discuss the many ways you can benefit both mentally and physically from exercise.