We’ve been on quite a journey together since 2021. Over 190 episodes, we’ve shared stories, strategies, and support to help you navigate past divorce and on to your best life.

So many of you have taken these lessons and put them into action. You’ve rebuilt your life, restructured your families, supported your children, and created a new chapter for yourself. We are so proud of you and of the community we’ve built together.

Today’s episode feels a little different, because it is. After four years of podcasting, we’ve made the decision to take a break. But this isn’t the end. It’s the start of our own next chapter where we are focusing on a better way for couples to navigate through divorce. It’s Yaffa Family Law Group’s SplytUp service.

In this episode, we share:

• Past memories
• Why we’re pressing pause on the podcast
• The journey from Your Amazing Divorce to Life After Divorce Coaching
• How Yaffa Family Law Group has evolved alongside this show and will into the future.
  
  
  

This is not goodbye. It’s a transition. We’re still here, and we’d love for you to stay connected. Revisit past episodes, keep walking with us, and be ready for what’s coming next. We are honored and forever grateful for you, our loyal listeners,3:00  and we wish you all the very best!

Beyond the podcast, here are additional platforms and communities where you can access valuable insights, stay connected, and find ongoing support. These resources align closely with the conversations we’ve shared and are especially helpful for anyone navigating divorce or family law matters:

Yaffa Family Law Group

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yaffafamilylaw 
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YaffaFamilyLawGroup/ 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/yaffafamilylawgroup 
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yaffafamilylawgroup 
  
  
  

Doreen Yaffa’s Accounts

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doreenyaffa/ 
• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doreenyaffa 

In this episode, "Winning the War, Not Every Battle," we challenge the common misconception that divorce is about conquering every single point. Instead, we delve into focusing on the bigger picture and strategically choosing your battles to achieve a more favorable and peaceful outcome.

Join us as we explore the pitfalls of the "win the battle, lose the war" mentality, where getting caught up in minor disputes can lead to prolonged legal battles, increased costs, and unnecessary emotional distress. We'll uncover how the "he wants it, so I won't let him have it" mindset, often fueled by negative emotions, can derail productive negotiations and keep you stuck.

Tune in to learn how to approach your divorce with a strategic mindset, fostering a path toward peace and stability.

In Episode 189, Doreen and Jeff tackle a vital subject: the interaction between the primitive brain and the thinking or prefrontal brain during the challenging experience of divorce. This significant life transition can affect your emotional and physical well-being.

By understanding how these distinct areas of the brain operate, you can empower yourself to better manage the emotional upheaval that often accompanies divorce. Doreen and Jeff will shed light on how instinctual reactions, driven by the primitive brain, can contrast with the insights gained from engaging your thinking brain (the prefrontal cortex). This knowledge can help you build resilience and make choices that foster a healthier life post-divorce.

Rewriting your personal narrative is a transformative process of self-discovery and empowerment, especially during and after a divorce. In this episode, Doreen and Jeff explore the importance of stepping back from the stories you've either created or those imposed upon you by others. They encourage you to reconsider your experiences through a fresh lens.

Your perceptions of past events may often stem from limited or biased viewpoints. Embracing the act of rewriting your story allows you to revisit these moments with the wisdom and perspective that comes with maturity. This episode promises to unveil endless possibilities and new perspectives on your life post-divorce.

In this podcast episode, Doreen and Jeff delve into the complex emotions surrounding divorce, specifically the challenge of distinguishing between the emotional pain (the hurt) and the inherent difficulty (how hard it is).

Perhaps you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, angry, or even numb. You might be questioning why it hurts so deeply and why it feels so incredibly challenging.

Here’s the key insight: the “hurt” and the “hard” are not the same. Hurt encompasses the heartbreak, the grief, and the sting of broken trust or unfulfilled dreams. On the other hand, hard refers to everything else — the paperwork, the learning curve of co-parenting, the challenges of identity shifts, and the daily challenges that come with transition .

It’s completely normal to experience both emotions. You’re not alone; you’re human. This podcast aims to create a space for all of these feelings, offering clarity, perspective, and a path forward.

What if you could step into the version of yourself who’s already healed, empowered, and thriving after divorce—right now? In this episode, Doreen and Jeff explore how to embody your future self today to navigate the emotional storm of separation with clarity, self-respect, and purpose. Whether you're in the middle of legal battles or quietly grieving the end of a chapter, this conversation will help you reconnect with your inner strength, rewrite your identity, and start making choices from a place of who you want to become. Divorce isn't just an ending—it's the beginning of a powerful reinvention.

Considering divorce or coping with a spouse’s decision to end your marriage? This episode explores the complex emotional landscape and practical realities of divorce, unpacking both its potential benefits and challenges. We delve into how divorce can bring freedom, personal growth, and relief from unhealthy relationships, while also addressing common struggles like financial difficulties, emotional stress, and the impact on children.

We discuss the pros of divorce such as gaining independence, escaping toxic relationships, and creating a healthier environment for children, alongside personal growth opportunities. At the same time, we examine the cons including loneliness, financial strain, emotional turmoil, social stigma, and the complexities of the legal process. Understanding these factors can help you prepare for the transition ahead.

Whether you're contemplating divorce or have already begun the process, this episode offers thoughtful insights and compassionate guidance. Remember, seeking professional support—through therapists, divorce coaches, or mediators—can make a significant difference in managing the challenges and rebuilding a fulfilling life after divorce.

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into those overwhelming days when getting out of bed feels impossible—especially during the emotional storm of divorce. Hosts Doreen and Jeff explore the delicate balance between honoring your feelings and taking small steps forward. They share practical strategies like gentle movement, self-compassion, and mindful separation of facts from fears to help navigate the emotional weight that divorce brings.

Jeff offers insights from his personal experience, highlighting the importance of distinguishing between physical and mental struggles and responding with kindness rather than judgment. Together, they emphasize how reaching out for support and breaking down challenges into manageable actions can prevent the spiral of isolation and anxiety. With relatable tips like organizing your space, planning ahead, and adopting flexible self-care routines, they remind listeners that healing is a process—and it’s okay to have “off” days.

Tune in for a supportive conversation filled with empathy and actionable advice designed to help anyone facing difficult transitions. Whether you’re in the thick of divorce or just battling a tough day, this episode encourages you to acknowledge your emotions, practice patience with yourself, and keep moving forward one small step at a time. You’re not alone, and strength grows from the moments you show up for yourself.

In this episode 182, Jeff and Doreen discuss a powerful tool that has been invaluable in everyone’s own life, exercise. It might seem like a simple solution to complex problems, but trust me, the benefits of regular physical activity during challenging times, including divorce, are profound and far-reaching. So, let's dive into why I call divorce and exercise "the perfect marriage".