With 2025 ending, we've compiled some lessons that were learned this year. 🤎 What was your lesson?

Your 20s feel like the decade of “figuring it all out.” Every decision feels high-stakes. The right job, the right relationship, the right path. You carry this tension in your body, taking everything so seriously because you think that’s what adulthood requires.But things shift in your 30s.The moment I stopped trying to control everything, life felt lighter. Choices became more intuitive. Failures felt more like redirections than endings. I realized growth doesn’t always come from urgency, sometimes it comes from surrender.That’s the gift of being in your 30s:You move with intention, not pressure.You choose yourself without guilt.You give yourself grace.You trust your steps even when the path isn’t clear.This episode is your reminder that letting go isn’t giving up, it’s growing up. And when you release control, you finally make space for the life that’s meant for you.

Is it really that da*n phone… or are we just too used to overstimulation?If you can’t focus for more than 10 minutes, take it as a sign — not of failure, but of fatigue.

We live in a world that glorifies being constantly online. Scroll here, reply there, switch apps, switch tabs, switch thoughts. And without noticing, our brains get wired for chaos. No wonder we can’t sit still anymore.

A digital detox isn’t dramatic. It’s necessary.It’s choosing to hear your own thoughts again.It’s giving your mind a break from the noise you didn’t even realize was draining you.

So if your focus is slipping and your attention span feels shorter than ever, maybe it’s time.Put the phone down.Look up.Let your mind catch up with your life.

They say your 30s are where everything starts to make sense. Turning 34 taught me that clarity comes with loss, redirection, and grace. It’s the year I learned to stop forcing things to stay, to trust endings, and to hold gratitude even in uncertainty.

In this episode, I’m looking back at the small but powerful lessons this age brought me: the beauty of stillness, the courage to speak up for myself, and the peace that comes from choosing what aligns, not what impresses.

If you’re in your 30s or entering a new season of self-awareness, I hope this conversation reminds you that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Growth doesn’t always roar; sometimes, it whispers.

We live in a world that glorifies the grind. Where slowing down feels like falling behind. But here’s the truth: when you rest, you actually do more.

Rest isn’t about laziness or losing momentum; it’s about renewal. It’s the quiet space where creativity returns, clarity finds you, and your body and mind realign with purpose.In this episode, let’s talk about why rest is just as important as productivity.

Why your best ideas often come in moments of stillness. Why taking breaks doesn’t derail your progress, it sustains it. And why sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do for your goals is to pause.If you’ve been feeling guilty for slowing down, this one’s your reminder: rest is productive.

In this episode of Life in Progress, we’re calling out the modern-day propagandas of dating — the unrealistic beliefs, half-truths, and romantic myths that keep us stuck in unhealthy cycles. From “love should always be easy” to “you just need to find the right person to be happy,” we’re unpacking what these messages really teach us about self-worth, timing, and emotional maturity.

This is your reminder that not everything trending on social media or preached in rom-coms applies to real-life love. Sometimes, the best kind of love story is the one that starts with you — grounded, self-aware, and not falling for the noise.

For what it’s worth, constantly proving yourself to others will not only drain you — it will cost you a big chunk of your life that you can never get back. In this episode, we talk about the pressure to always “prove” your worth — whether it’s through success, relationships, or the image you show online. We’ll unpack where this need comes from, how it quietly takes away your peace, and what it means to start living for yourself instead of for validation. Because the truth is, your value doesn’t need to be performed — it just needs to be owned.

Friendships in adulthood can be just as beautiful—and complicated—as romantic relationships. In this episode, we’re unpacking the green and red flags that show up in adult friendships. From the subtle signs of genuine support and emotional maturity to the red flags we often overlook in the name of history or comfort, this conversation dives deep into what healthy connection really looks like.We’ll talk about boundaries, communication, growth, and how to recognize when a friendship is worth nurturing—or when it’s time to lovingly let go. Tune in if you’re in your friendship healing or friendship audit era, or simply want to learn how to build more intentional relationships as an adult.Listen to “Life in Progress” on Spotify or Apple Podcasts for your weekly dose of real talk, reflection, and growth.

Looking back at my 20s now that I’m in my 30s, I realize how much those years shaped me. My 20s were messy, fun, full of lessons, and sometimes painful—but they were necessary. In this episode, I’m sharing the truths I’ve learned along the way: why it’s okay not to have everything figured out, how friendships and love evolve, what money and health really mean, and the importance of trusting your own timeline. Whether you’re still navigating your 20s or already moving into your 30s, this episode is a reflection on growth, mistakes, and the wisdom that only time can teach.

Have you heard of the saying "You are the five people you surround yourself with?" The people closest to you shape your mindset, habits, and even the way you see yourself. If you’re surrounded by encouragement, growth, and authenticity—you’ll naturally lean into those qualities. But if your circle drains you or holds you back, it can quietly influence your choices too.We hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as we love to create them for you!