The Brooke Hemingway Show

Look for Good: Finding Joy Even When Life Breaks Your Heart


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Some conversations stay with you long after they're over, and this is one of them.

In today's episode, I sit down with my friend Kathy Rogers, someone I had the privilege of meeting at a retreat a little over a year ago. We were assigned bunk beds in an Airbnb, became instant friends, and over the course of that weekend I heard pieces of her story that left me completely in awe. Kathy has walked through more heartbreak than most people could imagine, yet she radiates a joy, peace, and faith that is impossible to ignore.

After surviving an aggressive battle with breast cancer, Kathy lost her mother to ovarian cancer and then, just months later, walked through the unimaginable loss of her 29-year-old daughter to metastatic breast cancer. Most people would understand if those experiences left someone bitter, angry, or hopeless. Instead, Kathy has chosen a different lens. She has chosen to look for good.

Throughout our conversation we talk about what it really means to trust God, not just when life is easy, but when everything you thought was certain begins to fall apart. We discuss surrender, grief, perspective, emotional healing, and why it's possible for joy and sorrow to exist at the very same time.

One of the things I loved most about our conversation was Kathy's reminder that healing doesn't happen by pretending everything is okay. It happens by allowing ourselves to feel deeply while refusing to become victims of our circumstances. We also talked about the importance of ordinary routines during difficult seasons, why gratitude is a daily practice instead of simply a feeling, and how our perspective ultimately shapes the life we experience.

This episode is full of wisdom that applies whether you're walking through grief, navigating a major transition, building a business through hard circumstances, or simply trying to find peace in a world that often feels overwhelming. My hope is that you'll walk away feeling encouraged, grounded, and reminded that even when life doesn't make sense, there is still beauty to be found.

In this episode we discuss:
  • Kathy's journey through breast cancer, the loss of her mother, and the loss of her daughter
  • Moving from a checklist faith to deep trust in God
  • Why perspective changes everything
  • How joy and grief can coexist
  • The importance of ordinary routines during difficult seasons
  • Gratitude as a daily practice instead of a personality trait
  • Learning to process emotions instead of avoiding them
  • The freedom that comes from surrendering the illusion of control
  • Finding purpose through pain
  • What it means to truly "look for good"

If this conversation encouraged you, I hope you'll share it with someone who may be walking through a difficult season. Kathy's message is one of hope, resilience, and unwavering faith, and I know it will bless so many people.

You can connect with Kathy and learn more about her work here:

• Read Look for Good: Discovering God in Grief, Celebration, and the Every Days on Amazon.

• Visit her website at TheKathyRogers.com.

• Follow Kathy on Instagram (@thekathyrogers).

As always, if this episode spoke to you, I'd be so grateful if you would share it with a friend, leave a review, and let us know what resonated with you most. Those messages mean more than you know.

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