I spent a lot of time in the kitchen with my grandmother, the matriarch and best cook this side of the Mississippi. She’d be overcome with joy to see me with the amazing culinary artist Carla Hall in discussion on redefining gender roles within relationships. Weaving in perspectives from different generations, this episode is a heartfelt journey through the landmines and love notes of partnerships. We hear from Carla, who's stirred up success as the main breadwinner, and Kim, a young podcaster who adds a modern twist to the protector and provider narrative. As their stories unfold, we trace the contours of love, labor, and money within the intimate dance of marriage.
Balancing a checkbook and a relationship is an art, and in this episode, we paint a picture of how couples navigate the financial arteries of their union. Tugging at the strings of financial independence and intertwined bank accounts, we examine how support and shared responsibilities echo louder than the clinking of coins. We delve into the personal anecdotes that reveal how providing for a household isn't just about the salary one brings home, but also the emotional labor and moral encouragement that fortify the foundations of love and partnership.
Closing the loop on this episode, the conversation turns to the broader spectrum of what each partner contributes to the dynamic of a relationship. From the optimism that lights up a home to the practical management of everyday life, we celebrate the often overlooked assets that keep the wheels of partnership in motion. As we dissect these evolving roles and the communication that oils them, we embrace the beauty of growing together in a world where feminism, financial independence, and personal fulfillment are not just buzzwords but the very pillars of modern love and companionship.
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Love and Finances: Challenging Gender Roles in Today’s Relationships feat. Carla Hall & Kim Ndubizu

Tiffany D. Cross leads ACross Generations, a plainspoken and candid conversation with Black women from different stages in life. Each episode convenes a seasoned elder, middle-aged, and younger Black woman to discuss a single topic ranging from changing perspectives on sex to what you wish you knew about money in your 20's to the collective state of our womanhood in these contemporary times. Their unique perspectives through provocative, and introspective dialogue that can only come from the safe space that is created by Black women regardless of age.
By delving into subjects that affect women across generations, this podcast provides a space for commonality, familiarity, and honesty, through insightful and sage discussions. It weens  audiences of all backgrounds on the oracle that is Black womanhood by broadening perspectives and deepening understanding through wisdom, wit, laughter, tears, and joy.

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What’s that one R&B; song that can transport you through time and take you back to a key moment or phase of your life? Amazing how music can have that impact. Join me, your host Tiffany Cross, for a nostalgic journey through the rhythms and grooves of R&B; music and its enduring impact on our lives. As we reminisce about the classics that shaped our personal narratives, we contrast the generations to the backdrop of soulful tunes from the icon Stevie Wonder to the groundbreaking anthems of Destiny's Child to present day artists like H.E.R. Listen in as I share my intimate stories of growing up with these melodies, reflecting on how the different eras' music has accompanied me through life's milestones.
Journey with us as we discuss the twists and turns of the music industry's evolution, from the inspiration of neo-soul to the enigma of streaming revenues. Our conversation will bring to light the tough choices artists face between signing with record labels or staying independent, navigating venues and award shows, and the precarious trappings of celebrity life. Special guests, Brownstone lead singer Nicci Gilbert-Daniels and up and coming singer SiMaya, join us to share their experiences and insights. They give us an honest and intimate behind-the-scenes look at the music industry's dynamics and how we, as listeners, can support the genuine artists who still craft music with soul and substance.
Did you know there’s a list of dangerous people to work with that’s circulating among some artists in the industry? We discuss as it's not all harmonies and high notes.  Tune in as we delve into the darker chords that resonate within the industry addressing serious issues like predatory behavior examining the recent convictions and accusations that have rocked the music world. With personal anecdotes and reflections, we explore how an enabling culture has allowed such behavior to persist and the steps we're taking to change the narrative for future generations. So whether you're a die-hard R&B; fan or simply interested in the interplay of music and society, this episode is a heartfelt symphony of dialogue that's not to be missed.
 
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What’s the State of R&B and Where Is It Going with Nicci Gilbert-Daniels and SiMaya

In this episode of "Across Generations," we delve into the deeply personal and harrowing experiences of two women who have survived domestic violence in different eras. We hear from Millicent St. Claire, who bravely shares her story of enduring abuse at the hands of her husband over 30 years ago. Millicent's journey took a tragic turn when she was convicted of voluntary manslaughter in the aftermath of defending herself. Despite the challenges she faced, Millicent has emerged as a beacon of hope and resilience. Today, she is not only an advocate for violence prevention but also a life coach, inspiring others to overcome adversity and strive for their best selves. 
We also hear from Ariel B., whose story reflects the struggles and triumphs of a more recent generation. Ariel found the courage to escape her abusive relationship and is now in the process of rebuilding her life. Through her journey, we gain insight into the complexities of breaking free from the cycle of abuse and the importance of community support in the healing process. Join us as we explore the intersections of these two remarkable women's experiences, highlighting both the progress made in addressing domestic violence and the ongoing challenges that persist across generations. 
Through their courage and resilience, Millicent and Ariel shed light on the power of hope, healing, and advocacy in the fight against domestic violence.
 
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Breaking the Silence: Domestic Violence Awareness with Ariel B. and Millicent St. Claire

Join me, your host Tiffany D. Cross, for one of the most interesting conversations of my career. Sinnamon Love and Brittany (Miss. B Nasty) take me on an eye-opening journey through the complexities and nuances of sex work. This week on Across Generations, we navigate the historical challenges and societal perceptions of this multifaceted industry, paying special attention to the experiences of Black women who have long faced discrimination even in this genre. We consider the impact of not only decriminalization but destigmatizing sex work as well – not only for the individuals within the sex work community but also for public health and safety at large.
Listen in as Sinnamon, with her extensive background in adult entertainment, shares her experiences from the 90s and reflects on the industry's transformative journey to the digital age. We cover the shift from traditional pornography to user-driven platforms like OnlyFans, dissecting the economics of content creation and the importance of equitable treatment across racial lines. Our conversation also shines a light on the personal challenges and emotional aspects that come with transitioning from various careers, including the military, into adult entertainment.
Our discussions take a deep and personal turn as we address the intersections of sex work with trauma, safety, family dynamics, and even the incorporation of celebrities into platforms like OnlyFans. We highlight the critical need for comprehensive sex education and porn literacy among young adults, as well as the importance of advocating for a safer and more ethical industry. From personal empowerment to the changing tides of content consumption and creation, this week's episode offers a raw and real look at the lives of those within the adult entertainment world. Join us for a candid exploration that challenges the stigmas and celebrates the resilience of sex workers.
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Taboo to Mainstream: The Transformation of Sex Work with Sinnamon Love and Miss B. Nasty

This is one of the most emotional broadcasts I’ve ever done: “mommy issues.” We hear this phrase a lot as it relates to men. And we hear the phrase “daddy issues” when discussing women. But rarely do we explore the challenging relationship dynamics that exist between mothers and daughters. The intricately woven connection that comes from once sharing a body to the challenges and hurdles that come with sharing our lives. Whether you’re a mother or a daughter, or have either in your life, you will want to tune in. I explore the issues that grip us in childhood and can sometimes keep us frozen in that trauma and petrified in pain as we steer the precarious voyage of adulthood. ACross Generations Executive Producer, Carla Wilmaris- who is in her thirties, joins me for this conversation as she journeys through being a mother of a teen daughter while confronting wounds that still bleed both with her own mother and now her offspring. While our seasoned elder Glennis Crosby, 62 revisits a painful past and helps us all navigate the tough passage of understanding, grace, empathy, peace, and forgiveness as she is now a caretaker of her aging mom.  Regardless of the relationship you have with your mother or children, this is an episode that digs deep and unearths the intense sentiments that family relations inevitably arouse across generations.
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Mother Wounds and Boundaries: Embracing Authenticity in Forgiveness and Self-Protection with Glennis Crosby & Carla Wilmaris

Ever wonder how happiness and self-worth are crafted beyond the confines of romantic relationships? Let's tear down those curtains of societal expectations with my incredible guests Tamika Foster Raymond and Medina Monroe, who enrich our conversation with their profound insights. This episode is a treasure trove of truths, where we chuckle over the quirks of daily life, yet also navigate the deep currents of identity, self-love, and the bold journey to rediscover oneself after the transformative experiences of motherhood and divorce.
Strap in for a candid exploration of what fulfillment really looks like, as we traverse topics from the evolution of women's roles to the magnetic allure of reality TV. Be prepared to nod vigorously as Tamika shares her poignant reflections on maintaining her independence amid public scrutiny, and Medina gives her take on the balancing act of personal ambitions and relationships. We'll also untangle the complex web of societal pressures that lead to placing a man on a pedestal as a symbol of achievement.
Finally, your ears will be treated to a heart-to-heart on the significance of companionship and the vitality of nurturing a relationship with yourself first and foremost. This episode doesn't shy away from the serious side of smiles and laughter, addressing the heavy lifting that comes with defining personal joy amidst the expectations and assumptions of the world. So, come for the banter, stay for the enlightenment, and leave with a new perspective on life's rollercoaster—buckle up, we're going on an honest ride through the realms of life and love.
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Love and Finances: Challenging Gender Roles in Today’s Relationships feat. Carla Hall & Kim Ndubizu

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