Love & Lattes

What does it really take to rebuild your life after narcissistic abuse?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria sits down with Jordan Murphy, host of the 5-star podcast Her Voice Matters and founder of Her Voice Matters Academy, to explore the powerful journey of healing after toxic and manipulative relationships.

Jordan shares insights on the subtle signs of narcissistic abuse many women overlook, why these dynamics can be so difficult to leave, and how women can begin reclaiming their voice, confidence, and sense of self.

If you’ve ever questioned your reality in a relationship, struggled to trust yourself again after emotional manipulation, or wondered what healing after narcissistic abuse truly looks like, this conversation offers validation, tools, and hope for the next chapter.

Connect with Jordan, Tune into Her Voice Matters Podcast & MORE! https://stan.store/jmurphy

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In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria reflects on what getting lost in Costa Rica taught her about self-love, growth, trust, and becoming. She shares the truth behind pushing yourself (with love) in what we percieve as "different, scary" situations that are actually apart of your character development..  sometimes the detours we resist are the very things that redirect us toward the life we’ve been asking for.

If you’ve been feeling uncertain, stuck, disconnected, or afraid to take your next step… this episode is your reminder that maybe you’re not lost at all.

Maybe you’re being redirected.

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In this episode, Victoria welcomes Gareth Pickering, a men’s relationship and sex coach, to explore how relationships and sexuality can become tools for personal growth and awakening. 

They discuss practical strategies for men to embrace their desires, communicate openly, and become better lovers, while also exploring how partners can support them on this journey.

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https://garethpickering.com/

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📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria chats with Lisa Beck—author, TEDx speaker, and founder of I AM Lisa Beck—for a deeply nourishing conversation about desire, and the power of self-mastery.

Lisa shares the neuroscience, sexual energetics, and ancient wisdom to help men and women reconnect with their bodies, awaken desire, and live from a place of truth and devotion. 

Together, they explore what it really means to embody love, how our nervous system and sexual energy influence intimacy, and why reclaiming our inner fire is essential for deeper connection—with ourselves and others.

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What happens when the fairytale ends—or never truly begins?

Victoria sits down with life coach and hypnotherapist Mandy to unpack the myths women are sold about love, success, and happiness. 

From untangling “shoulds” and societal expectations to designing a life that actually feels aligned at any age, this episode is a permission slip to stop chasing the fantasy and start choosing yourself. 

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Money is one of the most common reasons couples fight—and one of the biggest reasons relationships break down. But is it really about the money… or what money represents?

In this episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria sits down with financial coach, author, and founder of Hand In Hand Consulting, Foluke Olayele, for an honest conversation about the real reasons money creates so much tension in relationships. Together, they unpack how financial conflict often reveals deeper issues around trust, communication, control, safety, and shared values.

This isn’t just a conversation about budgets or bills—it’s about emotional patterns, relationship dynamics, and how couples can stop letting money become the silent wedge between them. 

If you’ve ever struggled to talk openly about finances in love, or want to build a healthier partnership around money, this episode offers wisdom you don’t want to miss.

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Victoria chats with Yoni Queen Rosie Rees, founder of Yoni Pleasure Palace, as they dive into the transformative power of pleasure, intimacy, and self-awareness in relationships.

Rosie shares insights on how cultivating self-pleasure and sexual confidence can deepen connections, enhance intimacy, and empower both individuals and couples. Discover practical tips for exploring desire without shame, building better communication around sexuality, and creating more fulfilling, connected partnerships.

Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this conversation will inspire you to embrace your sexuality, nurture your connection with yourself, and enhance intimacy in every aspect of your life.

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In this soulful episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria sits down with Navi Bliss for a heart-opening conversation about self-love, presence, and coming home to yourself.

Together, they explore what it truly means to live from alignment rather than expectation, how to soften the inner noise that keeps us disconnected, and why self-love isn’t something we earn—but something we remember. 

This episode weaves together intuition, self-trust, and conscious awareness, offering listeners gentle yet powerful reflections on healing, authenticity, and inner peace.

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In this solo episode of Love & Lattes, Victoria shares what her time in the Caribbean revealed about self-love, femininity, softness, and slowing down. What looked like a beautiful beach trip on the outside became something much deeper.

Victoria shares  how the Caribbean reflected back the woman she’s becoming — one who no longer rushes through beautiful moments, over-functions to feel worthy, or waits for someone else to give permission to take up space

If you’ve been craving more softness, more confidence, more self-connection, and a deeper sense of peace in your everyday life, this episode is for you

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📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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Victoria is joined by Jacquie, a counselor with experience helping people heal from emotional trauma and abuse. 

Jacquie shares her powerful journey from pain to peace and opens up about the inner shift from self-loathing to self-love. 

Together, they explore how unresolved trauma shapes our relationships, self-worth, and inner dialogue.

They discuss what it truly takes to reclaim your voice, rewrite your story, and make measurable, lasting change in your life.

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 #sponsored Make your mental health a priority this year. Go to https://betterhelp.com/loveandlattes and get 10% off your first month of therapy.   

📆 WORK with Victoria -  Explore what’s been holding you back in love, boundaries, or self-trust — and what it would look like to move forward with support. https://theselflovescientist.mailchimpsites.com/

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