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Today we dive into the topic of the fear of negative body appearance. Hosts Jessica Flint and Andrea Wells share strategies to overcome internal and external barriers that hinder body acceptance.

This episode explores the journey of embracing one's body and how it evolves over time. Listen to gain insights into changing your critical dialogue around your body and transitioning from self-criticism to self-acceptance. This episode also offers a compilation of expert perspectives on body acceptance and its role in the recovery process.

Key Topics:

• The fluctuating nature of self-acceptance and body image.
• Making peace with yourself and your body.
• Body acceptance as a universal experience for all in the recovery journey.
• Challenging critical dialogue: Andrea details her transition from critical and negative self-talk to a more neutral and positive narrative when body fears arise.
• The power of mindfulness and witness consciousness: the importance of acknowledging thoughts without letting them define yourself or your worth. 

SHOW NOTES - How to go from BODY CRITICISM to body ACCEPTANCE  

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In this episode, we explore three approaches to working with fear: rational, relational, and aspirational. 

Fear can create psychological barriers and limit personal growth, and addressing it can lead to true freedom from an eating disorder.

Key Lessons:

• The rational approach to fear involves evaluating whether the fear is a real and imminent threat to one's life.
• The relational approach to fear focuses on the impact of fear on relationships and external judgments.
• The aspirational approach to fear encourages looking beyond fear to envision the desired outcome and taking steps towards it.
• Embodying all three approaches allows individuals to navigate fear more effectively.
• Recognizing that fear does not define one's future and that strength can be built by facing fears head-on.

SHOW NOTES - Ask yourself these 3 questions to help you take the FIRST STEPS to move past fear

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In today's episode, Jessica and Andrea discuss the 3 paradoxes of shame, its ties to fear, and the role of self-compassion in overcoming shame.

Take a listen to gain a deeper understanding of the relationship between shame, fear, and self-compassion and the role they play in eating disorder recovery.

Key topics in this episode:

• The interconnectedness of shame, fear, and eating disorders – how shame fuels the disorder and perpetuates the fear of not being good enough.
• The power of self-compassion in breaking free from shame and fostering a transformative recovery journey.
• Recognizing the disordered cycle of self-criticism and negative motivation and embracing self-compassion as a new approach.
• Overcoming resistance to self-compassion and taking baby steps towards incorporating it into daily life.
• The shift from striving for perfection to embracing self-acceptance and messy growth, leading to a healthier, happier version of oneself.

SHOW NOTES -  The 3 Paradoxes of Shame in Eating Disorder Recovery

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THREE-PART SERIES ON SELF COMPASSION

Part 1: "Am I the Problem?" When You FEEL ALONE in Your Struggles with Food and Body
Part 2: How do I work with CRITICAL THOUGHTS?
Part 3: How do I move from SELF-CRITICISM to self-compassion?

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In this episode, Jessica and Andrea delve into the connection between worthiness and fear in the context of eating disorder recovery.

They discuss the societal and personal messages that contribute to feelings of unworthiness and shame, and how these beliefs can hinder the recovery journey. 

Both hosts share their own experiences with unworthiness and their paths towards embracing their inherent worth to move into full recovery, and how you can do the same.

Key Topics:

• The impact of societal and personal messages on feelings of unworthiness
• The connection between worthiness and self-perception in eating disorder recovery
• The role of self-compassion and empathy in overcoming feelings of unworthiness
• Embracing neutrality as a step towards recognizing inherent worthiness
• The power of storytelling in rewiring beliefs about worthiness and self-acceptance

SHOW NOTES -  The surprising link between SELF WORTH and FREEDOM from an eating disorder 

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In this episode, Jessica and Andrea dive into the concept of reparenting our inner child in the eating disorder recovery journey. They discuss their personal experiences of feeling judged and the impact it had on their self-esteem.

Together, they explore the importance of validating all stories of recovery and creating a safe space for individuals of different body sizes and backgrounds to share their journey.

With a focus on self-compassion and self-acceptance, the episode provides a series of affirmations and practical tips for soothing self-talk to nurture and heal the wounded inner child.

Affirmations begin at 15:20

The episode also discusses:

• The power of validating all stories of recovery, regardless of body size or appearance.
• Recognizing and addressing the fear of judgment and the impact it has on self-esteem.
• Understanding the importance of representation and inclusivity in the recovery community.
• Embracing authenticity and individuality as part of the healing journey.
• Practicing self-compassion and implementing soothing self-talk to reparent your inner child.

SHOW NOTES -  REPARENTING your INNER CHILD with these soothing self-talk statements

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In this episode, hosts Jessica Flint and Andrea Wells explore the topic of finding courage in the face of fear and share two specific mantras that can support you on your recovery journey.

Join them as they also dive deeper into the concept of the shadow and how it relates to the denial and avoidance that often accompany an eating disorder.

SHOW NOTES -  "Anything but THAT!"…Common eating disorder fears explored & mantras to face them

This episode covers:

• The concept of the shadow and its importance in recovery from an eating disorder.
• The need to lean into the areas where one feels denied and unwelcome, in order to experience deeper healing and integration.
• Shining light on the shadow rather than trying to eliminate it, as it is an integral part of one's wholeness.
• Personal experiences from Jessica & Andrea in how shadow work was an integral part of their eating disorder recovery.
• 2 specific mantras you can say to help you build courage in the face of fear.
• The relationship between fear and excitement, and how this knowledge can help you heal.

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In this episode, we explore the power of stepping outside of your comfort zone to live a fuller life in recovery.

Hosts Jessica Flint & Andrea Wells discuss the importance of facing fears and overcoming limitations in order to achieve personal growth and recovery. They share personal stories about stepping out of their comfort zones, and discuss the deeper healing work required to confront fears of vulnerability.

This episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for your own journey of moving past fears in the recovery process.

In this conversation we discuss:

• The importance of facing fears in recovery.
• Overcoming limitations.
• Making decisions that act outside of fear.
• The concept of a "fear door", representing missed opportunities and avoiding vulnerability.

SHOW NOTES -  Stepping outside of your COMFORT ZONE to go further in recovery

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In our lesson today, we look at an immensely powerful framework you can use to work with triggering situations and people.

Andrea explores using self-inquiry for body judgment fear while Jessica shares how it has helped her reframe abandonment trauma.

Then, we get into the lesson where it's your turn to experiment with self-inquiry, to help you rise above situations that hold you back from your highest expression and being your full authentic self.

This episode also gets into:

• Exploring the power of thoughts and beliefs in shaping our emotional state and identity.
• Challenging and questioning beliefs through the inquiry process to gain clarity and self-understanding.
• The importance of self-compassion in the self-inquiry process.
• Addressing judgment based on body size and the impact of challenging societal norms.
• Embracing uncertainty and finding empowerment in not knowing through a beginner's mindset.

SHOW NOTES -  What is SELF-INQUIRY? How you can use it to face body judgement fears

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Jessica & Andrea discuss the life-changing practice of shadow work and how it can help you face recovery fears around food and a changing body. 

Shadow work is based on the work of psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Carl Jung who created analytical psychology (aka depth psychology).

The benefits of shadow work include:

• A healthier relationship with food, body, and self
• Improved interactions with others
• Healing generational trauma
• Learning healthy ways to meet your needs
• Self-empowerment and accepting your strengths
• Feeling whole or integrated as a person

Take a listen to hear more about what shadow work is, and how it can benefit you in the eating disorder recovery journey.

SHOW NOTES - How SHADOW WORK can help you reach deeper levels of healing and self-acceptance

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In our lesson today, we will be talking about a way you can find more confidence and courage to face your fears in recovery.

We'll drop a little hint for you: "If they can do it, I can too".

Take a listen to gain some valuable insight on how to move past fear in recovery.

SHOW NOTES - Try THIS for more CONFIDENCE and COURAGE to face food & body fears

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