In this episode, we sit down with Susan V, Eva's dear friend and facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, to discuss how to stay connected to yourself — in conflict, in love, and when you’re single.

They unpack how shame turns into perfectionism, how to take responsibility without collapsing into guilt, and making peace with being single. Susan shares how she released the idea that love would “save” her, and how that shift made space for her to stay connected to herself when she found herself in a loving relationship.  

This episode is for anyone who’s ever over-apologized, abandoned themselves for love, or struggled to stay true to themselves when things get messy.

We discuss:  

Being whole in relationship — How to be yourself while staying connected to others.

Accountability vs. shame — Taking responsibility for your impact without turning it into self-blame.

Perfectionism trap — How trying to “get it right” keeps you from experiencing fulfillment and safety

Singlehood & self-worth — Letting go of the idea that being single means you're unlovable  

Real love — Why healthy relationships come from wholeness, not from finally being “healed enough.”

About Susan:

Susan Vielguth is a Facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, whose work is rooted in the liberation that comes from questioning our painful beliefs. You can learn more about Susan at theworkwithsusan.com.

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