Eva’s spent years wrestling with one of the most loaded questions in a woman’s life: Do I actually want kids? In this episode, she finally names her answer—not from pressure or panic, but from a deep exhale that arrived when her real life (and real relationship) reflected the truth she’d been circling for years. She and Kyley trace the grief, conditioning, cultural expectations, plant medicine visions, and tiny moments of clarity that led her to choose a childfree path—and the freedom, tenderness, and community that decision opens up.

If you’ve been wrestling with this question yourself—or just feeling the weight of needing to decide—we hope this conversation offers clarity, comfort, and the confidence to trust your own timing.

What we cover in this episode:

✨ The relief that surfaced when Eva stopped forcing clarity and started listening to her body
🧭 The emotional undertow of indecision, timelines, and the fear of “getting it wrong”
🥲 The grief that lives inside every path—motherhood, not-motherhood, and unlived lives
🧨 How cultural and familial expectations shape who women believe they’re supposed to be
🌿 The plant medicine ceremony that revealed the beauty and the cost of motherhood
🏡 Reimagining belonging: chosen family, community, and aging without kids
🧡 Meeting regret with maturity instead of letting it dictate your choices
🔥 The unexpected empowerment inside letting your life be shaped by truth, not pressure

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Abigail Rose Clarke is a somatic teacher and author whose work invites people back into honest relationship with their bodies, and the world around them. 

Abigail speaks about somatics in a way that’s refreshingly un-branded. She reminds us that the body isn’t a self-improvement project but a whole ecosystem that includes our relationships, histories, communities, and the ground beneath our feet. 

🌿 What We Talk About

🌱 Living in the Ecotone
Abigail’s discovery of the term ecotone—the meeting place between ecosystems—and how it mirrors the emotional edge where grief and joy can exist side by side.

💫 What Somatics Actually Means
Tracing the roots of the word “somatic” to its original sense of the whole body, and why reducing it to nervous-system regulation misses the point.

🌍 Gravity, Ease, and the Body’s Relationship to Earth
Abigail reframes gravity as an ongoing relationship rather than a force to resist, describing the relief that comes when we let ourselves be held.

🔥 When Wellness Becomes Another Job
A grounded critique of how capitalism turns embodiment into a product to be bought and sold—and what it might look like to reclaim our practices from that system.

💔 Grief, Pain, and the Ground That Holds Us
How the death of her longtime dog brought Abigail back to the simplest somatic truth: that the earth underneath us offers unconditional support when nothing else can.

🌸 G R O W L: A Simple Somatic Framework
Abigail’s approachable method—Ground (or Gravity), Relate, Observe, Widen, Love—offering a way to meet the body with curiosity rather than correction.

💍 Commitment Without Constriction
Reflections on her recent engagement and the ongoing experiment of how two people can choose each other while still allowing change, space, and evolution.

🌕 The Shape of Long-Term Love and Friendship
A re-imagining of commitment that values honesty and aliveness over longevity, and how the health of any bond depends on letting each person keep becoming.

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• Website: abigailroseclarke.com
• Instagram:.instagram.com/abigail.rose.clarke
• Book: Returning Home to Our Bodies

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This week, Eva and Kyley sit down with Eduardo Rombauer, a Brazilian “soul scientist,” activist, and healer whose work begins and ends with love — not as an idea, but as a living force.

Once a political organizer trying to change the world from the outside, Eduardo now guides others in what he calls “the revolution of the heart.” He believes that love is both our original nature and our most advanced technology — and that remembering it is the real work of our time.

Eduardo’s work is about finding those barriers and learning to stay with them — not to remove them through force, but to soften them through acceptance.

What we cover in this episode 🌹

💗 Love beyond the mind: Why trying to define love keeps us from experiencing it — and how the intellect can never grasp what the heart already knows.

🌎 The soul as scientist: Eduardo’s evolution from politics to consciousness work, and how he now explores love through community, healing, and spiritual inquiry.

🧬 “To love is to unite without mixing.” How this one principle applies to everything from parenting and relationships to nations and the self.

👶 Parenthood as initiation: The way Eduardo’s daughter became his greatest mirror — helping him confront inherited anger, repair generational patterns, and rediscover tenderness.

🌑 Loving the “evil side”: What it means to include every shadow and contradiction within us, and why true self-love requires embracing what we’ve been taught to reject.

🕊️ From savior to servant: The humbling shift that comes from realizing you can’t rescue anyone — only walk beside them as they remember their own power.

🔥 Facing ridicule as a spiritual practice: Eduardo’s recent initiation into being seen, misunderstood, and still choosing love anyway.

💫 Mind in service of soul: A practice for using awareness as a bridge between intellect and intuition, reason and reverence.

Eduardo’s story is a reminder that love is not something we earn or achieve. It’s the material we’re made of.

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https://www.eduardorombauer.com/

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In this week’s listener Q&A, Eva and Kyley unpack a deceptively simple question:

"Do you resonate with the idea of “emotionally immature” people, or the framework of “old souls” vs “younger souls”? Sometimes these labels help me soften toward challenging people in my life (like parents, in-laws, or bosses). Other times, I worry they’re just ways to avoid looking at my own patterns.

So my bigger question is: when you’re in relationships that really test you, do you find frameworks like this useful? Or are they just the mind trying to control things?"

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In this episode, we explore:

💭 When labels like “emotionally immature” or “narcissist” offer relief—and when they become crutches for self-protection or self-abandonment

🪞 The difference between using frameworks to understand others vs. using them to avoid your own patterns

🌗 Why discernment (not perfection) is the real skill of emotional and spiritual maturity

⚖️ How the “old soul / young soul” hierarchy can quietly feed superiority, ego, or even spiritual elitism

❤️ The power of dropping the story altogether - what happens when we meet people as they are, without a label or framework

💡 How anger, resentment, and cynicism can actually be doorways to deeper acceptance and peace

🌀 What it looks like to balance compassion with boundaries - especially in relationships that are less safe or still painful

🔥 The ongoing practice of holding paradox: seeing what’s true about someone and keeping your heart open

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In this heart-opening conversation, we sit down with Shahem -  Black queer therapist, content creator, and community organizer whose work bridges grief, joy, and resistance. 

Together we explore how to grieve in a culture that doesn’t make space for loss, how joy can be a radical practice of survival, and how resistance can look like choosing authenticity when the world wants you numb. This episode is a reminder that balance is about staying connected to ourselves and each other through it all.

In this episode we explore:
✨ Grief as more than death—why losing a job, identity, or sense of autonomy deserves to be honored as loss
🌀 The three pillars of balance: grief, joy, and resistance—and how each keeps the others alive
❤️ How to actually grieve
💬 Men and emotional disconnection—what patriarchy steals from everyone, and why reclaiming tenderness is liberation
🔥 Resistance  as the everyday practice of showing up authentically”
🌈 Community as the antidote to despair—why healing, grieving, and joy all require other people
💡 “Not enoughness” as a tool of oppression—and how reclaiming your own enoughness becomes an act of defiance
🌻 Finding your role in the revolution—why balance means giving what you can, in the ways that are true to you

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, cynical, or unsure how to stay tender in the face of so much collective pain, let this conversation be a place to land.

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https://links.5hahem.com/

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In this episode, we sit down with Susan V, Eva's dear friend and facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, to discuss how to stay connected to yourself — in conflict, in love, and when you’re single.

They unpack how shame turns into perfectionism, how to take responsibility without collapsing into guilt, and making peace with being single. Susan shares how she released the idea that love would “save” her, and how that shift made space for her to stay connected to herself when she found herself in a loving relationship.  

This episode is for anyone who’s ever over-apologized, abandoned themselves for love, or struggled to stay true to themselves when things get messy.

We discuss:  

Being whole in relationship — How to be yourself while staying connected to others.

Accountability vs. shame — Taking responsibility for your impact without turning it into self-blame.

Perfectionism trap — How trying to “get it right” keeps you from experiencing fulfillment and safety

Singlehood & self-worth — Letting go of the idea that being single means you're unlovable  

Real love — Why healthy relationships come from wholeness, not from finally being “healed enough.”

About Susan:

Susan Vielguth is a Facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie, whose work is rooted in the liberation that comes from questioning our painful beliefs. You can learn more about Susan at theworkwithsusan.com.

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In this week’s episode, we dig into the paradox at the heart of the spiritual path: how to surrender to life’s unfolding while still staying fiercely committed to your dreams.

This conversation was sparked by a listener question that felt so alive for both of us right now:

"Hello universe. I keep circling around the same dilemma. How do I balance surrender with my own will and desires? I have clear dreams for my life and business, and I feel called to pursue them, but how do I know when I'm gripping too tightly in control versus when I'm actually being asked to stay committed and persevered despite the obstacles? Sometimes devotion and discipline feel like the opposite of surrender. How do I weave them together? Signed God, take the wheel, but not my dreams."

We get real about:

• The subtle difference between devotion and self-abandonment
• Why “should” is almost always a red flag that you’re forcing
• Learning to trust life moment by moment (even when things fall apart)
• How attachment to a specific outcome often masks the deeper desire underneath
• Finding the wisdom inside the “gripping” without bypassing or bulldozing over it

Along the way, you’ll hear stories about our own messy edges with business, health, parenting, and money—and how the practice of surrender meets the daily reality of deadlines, big goals, and longing for stability.

✨ If you’ve ever wondered how to trust life without losing sight of your dreams, this episode is for you.

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We’re back for Season 6 of Hello Universe! 🎉

We kick off this season with a listener question so many are asking: 

 ”Every time I open the news, I feel like I'm hit with another wave of heartbreak. Part of me wants to stay awake and engaged, but another part of me just feels so tired. But then I turn away to preserve my sense of self and protect joy, and I feel guilty and maybe irresponsible. How do you hold hope in a moment that feels so dark? How do I find the balance in a moment like this?”

Highlights

• The “not enough monster” that latches onto everything—including activism.
• Joy as resistance, and the radical practice of letting yourself feel good even when the world is on fire.
• “Tend to your part of the garden”—why committing to your thread matters more than chasing all of them.
• The difference between helplessness (grief that opens) and despair (grief that shuts down).
• Why living in possibility is vulnerable work—and how to practice it every day.
• Eva’s blunt question: “Are we evolving or regressing?” and the nuanced answers that follow.
• The paradox of progress: letting go of the myth of linear evolution while still choosing trust.
• Kyley on unworthiness as the invisible wall between us and love—and why believing we deserve better is collective sacred work.
• The radical agency of choosing happiness, and why blame is a seductive detour away from accountability.

This episode is a balm for anyone who has felt the whiplash of living in a world of abundance and devastation at once. If you’ve ever wrestled with guilt for feeling joy, or wondered if your thread really matters, we made this one for you.

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 Welcome back to season six of Hello Universe. We have been working together all summer to improve the show and bring you topics we think you will love to make this truly, I think what is going to be the most epic season ever!

Kyley opens up about a story she never tells.

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