Mad.In.Love

In this episode of the Mad.In.Love podcast, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Lucas Forstmeyer, a renowned practitioner and course creator specializing in Internal Family Systems (IFS). Together, they explore the complex dynamics of narcissism, emotional abuse, and how specific patterns of behavior impact relationships.

Lucas and Dr. Hawkins dive into the nuances of the term "narcissism," discussing when it's helpful to label behaviors and when it might be more effective to focus on specific patterns instead. They explore the concept of "Protective Parts" within IFS, which are often responsible for seemingly negative behaviors as a means of shielding vulnerabilities or exiled parts of ourselves. Lucas emphasizes the importance of approaching these protective mechanisms with compassion while maintaining healthy boundaries.

The episode further unpacks the distinctions between the "Self," individual parts, and the "Healthy Adult"—a state that combines the Self with developed skills and mature aspects of one's personality. Lucas and Dr. Hawkins share practical examples and strategies on how this understanding can lead to better emotional regulation and healthier relationship dynamics.

Lastly, they address the role of inherent temperament, such as being naturally agreeable or disagreeable, and how these temperamental differences influence our perceptions of behaviors often associated with narcissism. Lucas offers insights on balancing respect for inherent traits while addressing problematic behavior patterns.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how IFS can be used to navigate complex relationship challenges, and learn strategies for fostering compassion towards yourself and others.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this insightful episode of the Mad.In.Love podcast, producer Katie Buckley brings real-life stories and questions from Reddit to the table, all centered around the theme of success in therapy. Joined by Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover, Katie reads a variety of posts from individuals seeking clarity on what to expect from therapy and what success should truly look like.

Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan offer their professional perspectives, drawing from years of experience as clinicians, to react to these stories. They discuss the markers of successful therapy, realistic expectations, and the unique journeys that each client may experience. Whether you're currently in therapy or curious about what the process entails, this episode provides valuable insights and guidance on how to define and recognize success in your own therapeutic journey.

Tune in for a thoughtful discussion on what it means to achieve success in therapy and how to set yourself up for meaningful progress.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this engaging episode of the Mad.In.Love podcast, Katie Buckley is joined by Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover to dive into stories and comments shared by our listeners. Katie reads aloud a selection of heartfelt and thought-provoking stories submitted by our audience, prompting Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan to provide their expert insights and reactions. Whether you're looking for guidance or simply curious to hear different perspectives, this episode offers valuable takeaways for anyone navigating the complexities of love and relationships.

Tune in to hear Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan tackle real-life scenarios with empathy, wisdom, and a touch of humor!

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins explores the pervasive issue of loneliness in the modern world, a concern that has become increasingly prominent in the aftermath of the global pandemic. Joining him is Jack Eason, a seasoned speaker and advocate for the power of genuine human connections, who also serves as the Executive Director of Crossover CUPS Mission, making significant strides in bettering the lives of families and children across various countries.

Jack shares his extensive experience and observations on loneliness, addressing the common misconceptions about who it affects and highlighting its relevance in today's society, where digital interactions often replace face-to-face connections. The conversation delves into the evolution of friendship in the age of technology and the challenges it poses in forming meaningful relationships.

Dr. Hawkins and Jack discuss practical strategies for overcoming the barriers to true connection, particularly for those navigating the path to recovery from emotional abuse or managing NPD tendencies. They emphasize the importance of fostering authentic bonds and the transformative power of community and togetherness in combating the profound sense of isolation that many individuals face.

This episode is a deep dive into understanding loneliness beyond surface-level perceptions, offering hope and actionable advice for anyone seeking to rebuild their social landscape and embrace the warmth of genuine human connection.

If you're interested in reading books written by Jack Eason, please visit: https://www.jackeason.org/books

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins invites Kristen Jenson, the founder of Defend Young Minds and the acclaimed author behind a movement to protect children in the digital age. Kristen's commitment to safeguarding young minds from the dangers of internet pornography is both inspiring and essential in today's tech-savvy world.

Kristen opens up about the compelling reasons that drove her to address such a challenging topic through her literature, aimed at empowering children with knowledge and resilience. She underscores the importance of parents initiating conversations about internet safety early on, providing practical advice on how to approach this delicate subject without inciting unnecessary curiosity.

As digital devices become increasingly ubiquitous in children's lives, Kristen emphasizes the critical role of filters and vigilance in preventing exposure to harmful content. She also confronts the stark reality of pornography addiction among youths, drawing parallels to chemical dependencies and highlighting the broader spectrum of negative impacts, from psychological harm to the potential for increased aggression.

Delving deeper, Kristen explores the disturbing connections between pornography and grave issues like child sexual abuse and trafficking, offering insights into the dark underbelly of easily accessible online content. For parents facing the aftermath of exposure, she advises on constructive steps to mitigate the damage and fortify their children's mental and emotional defenses.

Kristen introduces the Brain Defense: Digital Safety curriculum, a comprehensive educational toolkit designed to arm children with the skills to navigate the online world safely. Beyond her books and curriculum, Kristen reveals additional resources available on DefendYoungMinds.com, aimed at supporting parents and educators in their quest to create a safer digital environment for children.

This episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone invested in the well-being of the next generation, offering valuable strategies, resources, and hope in the face of daunting digital challenges.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this episode of Mad.In.Love, we are honored to host Chuck and Ashley Elliott, a couple whose life work has touched many hearts through their engaging content and impactful collaborations with platforms like YouVersion and RightNow Media. As a pastor and a licensed counselor, respectively, their journey is one of faith, resilience, and profound insights into relational success and navigating grief.

Today, Chuck and Ashley open up about the inspiration behind their poignant book, 'I Used to Be___,' sharing personal stories of vulnerability, including their own experience with miscarriage, and the challenging path towards healing and trust in God amidst profound loss. They delve into the complexities of grief, addressing the deceptive nature of grief-induced lies, and offering solace through the power of God's Word.

The discussion explores the concept of 'switch theory' as a tool for managing grief, alongside practical advice for those struggling to find their way after a loss. Ashley provides professional guidance on supporting grieving loved ones, while Chuck shares pastoral wisdom on moving forward with faith.

Further, the Elliotts discuss the importance of vulnerability in healing, the impact of grief on intimate relationships, and the necessity of developing new skills to navigate loss. They emphasize the often-overlooked lasting effects of grief and provide listeners with strategies to recognize and address these impacts.

If you're seeking a path through grief or looking to support someone in their journey, this episode offers invaluable insights and encouragement. Chuck and Ashley's final words of encouragement and information on how to connect with them and access their book promise to leave listeners with hope and practical steps for moving forward.

Join us on Mad.In.Love for an episode that promises not just to inform but to transform your approach to grief and healing.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

Join us in another episode of Mad.In.Love with your host Dr. David Hawkins, alongside Jonathan Glover, Jill Stenerson, and producer Katie Buckley, as they delve into real-life stories sourced from Reddit. This episode focuses on the intricate dynamics of family boundaries, a topic that resonates with many. Dr. Hawkins, Jill Stenerson, and Jonathan Glover engage in a thoughtful discussion, offering insights into the importance of maintaining personal boundaries within family relationships. They provide practical advice and healthy strategies for responding to situations where these boundaries are overlooked or violated by family members. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that sheds light on navigating boundary challenges with wisdom and empathy.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins, we're thrilled to introduce Kimmy Seltzer, a renowned Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, and Image Expert. Kimmy's groundbreaking "confidence makeover" process has revolutionized the way individuals approach dating and relationships, helping countless people around the globe find true love and connection.

Join us as Kimmy delves into her unique methodology, sharing the development of "The Charisma Quotient" and offering actionable tips to enhance self-confidence and allure in dating and beyond. She explores the profound impact of personal style and wardrobe on one's self-image and appeal, shedding light on the pivotal role of body language and first impressions in social interactions.

Throughout the episode, Kimmy recounts her extensive experience as a speaker, dating coach, and matchmaker, highlighting key factors that forge lasting and meaningful bonds. She reflects on her journey to becoming a recognized authority in her field, from captivating appearances in media and publications to her engaging podcast, "The Charisma Quotient."

Drawing from her involvement in dating shows and radio segments, Kimmy reveals how these platforms have enriched her work and connection with her audience. In closing, she offers invaluable advice for those aspiring to invigorate their dating life and forge enduring relationships, along with recommended resources and strategies.

Don't miss this insightful episode, where Kimmy Seltzer shares her expertise on building confidence, navigating the dating world, and creating authentic connections.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this episode, we were honored to have Dr. Bob Burbee, a seasoned licensed psychologist with over 37 years of experience. Specializing in working with individuals, couples, families, and groups, Dr. Burbee brings a wealth of knowledge and insight into the dynamics of relationships.

As a key therapist at the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute (FMI), he leads both Group and Private Marriage Intensives, in addition to training other therapists in Focus Marital Therapy. His involvement in Intensive programs dates back to 2000, making him a pioneer in this area. Dr. Burbee has also been an educator, teaching both undergraduate and graduate courses in psychology.

Marriage and family issues are Dr. Burbee’s forte, and he frequently shares his expertise through seminars, retreats, and workshops. Alongside his professional endeavors, he and his wife, Mary Jo, are deeply invested in their church's children and family ministries, and they also facilitate adult education sessions. They are proud parents of four grown children and currently reside in Springfield, Missouri.

Join us in this enlightening episode as Dr. Burbee shares his invaluable perspectives on marriage, family, and the power of intensive therapy.

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Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***

In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center, we welcome back Dr. David Clarke, a Christian psychologist with over 35 years of experience. Dr. Clarke joins us to discuss his latest book, 'Adult Children Who Break Your Heart,' a follow-up to his renowned work, 'Enough is Enough!'

Throughout the episode, Dr. Clarke delves into the intricate dynamics of dealing with adult prodigals. He begins by defining what constitutes a prodigal in today's context and explores the reasons behind the increasing number of adult prodigals. Addressing the challenges faced by many parents, Dr. Clarke offers insights into overcoming guilt and managing relationships with unsupportive spouses in the face of familial strife.

Dr. Clarke introduces 'Strategic Truth Statements,' a tool for parents to navigate the emotional and psychological challenges they face. The episode rounds off with an overview of the 10 specific prodigal scenarios covered in his book, providing listeners with practical guidance and hope for reconciliation and healing.

For anyone grappling with the pain and complexity of strained relationships with adult children, this episode offers a blend of empathy, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom.

Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected]

***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***