If you were residing in the South life I do, if you can consider Orlando the South, one of your favorite things to say would be, “It IS what it IS”!

It would better if you used your best Southern accent.

Today, I bet there will be a hundred lemons thrown at you. You will be tempted to make lemon aide. However, sometimes, a lemon is just a lemon. Things happen. Life gets in the way. That's just the way society roles.

So, what are you supposed to do?

No matter what comes your way, there will always be an underlying cause - that probably doesn't have anything to do with you.

Allowing yourself to pause, chill, take a beat, do whatever is required to understand the what's driving the action, will go a long way toward having total control over any situation the crosses your path today.

Remember, since you can't read minds, you will know what's truly on somebody else. The only way to keep rockin' your world, is to remember what direction you are heading, evaluate every roadblock, and decide if expending your energy will take you closer to your goals, or further away.