Making Milestones

 After a brief hiatus, we're diving into a bit of everything in today's episode. First, I'll share a personal life update, discussing the busy summer months, managing multiple business ventures, and the challenges that come with it.

Next, we delve into the transitional stages of horsemanship, exploring the shift from traditional training methods to more science-based, rewards-focused approaches. We'll talk about the realism and effort required to change long-standing habits, both in ourselves and our horses, and the importance of patience and empathy in this journey.

Additionally, we'll discuss the unrealistic expectations humans often place on horses and how shifting our perspectives can lead to better treatment and understanding of these magnificent animals. From the way we house them to the demands we place on them, it's crucial to view their behavior through a horse-centric lens rather than a human-centric one.

Lastly, I'll touch on the importance of self-care, mental health, and maintaining a positive outlook despite the challenges we face. Whether you're in a transitional stage of your life or simply looking to better understand your horse, this episode aims to provide insights and support.

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Today, we're diving into a multifaceted discussion on some pressing issues in the horse world, recorded live while running errands. The focus? A tragic incident at a dressage competition where a horse died after bolting and running into a stone wall.

We'll explore the underlying causes of such extreme behaviors, from training practices to environmental stressors, and why it's crucial to address them. This episode also touches on the role of the equestrian community, media, and organizations in either perpetuating or alleviating these issues. We'll discuss the importance of recognizing stress behaviors in horses, the impact of punishment-based training, and the need for a shift towards more compassionate and scientifically-informed practices.

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Welcome to a poignant episode of Making Milestones where we delve into the highs and lows of life, tackling issues such as financial struggles, seasonal depression, and the pursuit of dreams. We explore the roller coaster ride of adulting, highlighting how things like unexpected repair bills and new business ventures can test one's resilience. However, amidst the tumult, we spotlight the strength of community spirit and the magic of dreaming big.

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Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where we uncover one of the most debated topics in the equestrian world - positive reinforcement vs negative reinforcement in horse training. We dissect these two methods, clarifying common misconceptions, and shed light on aversive pressure versus neutral pressure.

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Welcome to an enlightening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, where I shift focus from horse training to delve deep into the world of personal growth and spiritual awakening. Listen as I share my journey of self-discovery and transformation, shedding light on critical areas of self-awareness, ego death, and the value of authenticity. I also confront society's inherent flaws within our capitalist system and propose embracing spirituality as a reinvigorating solution. We explore the harsh reality of how wealth accumulation often leads to disconnect with society and environment, revealing an unfillable void that materialistic pursuits cannot satisfy.

I will also discuss how aspects of the horse world, specifically equine behavioral science, have shaped my outlook on life. Come with me as I highlight the challenges I faced in finding my individuality, breaking free from societal expectations and prejudices, and cultivating an environment for self-expression and happiness.

Explore with me the significance of developing authentic connections in relationships and learn from my experiences of handling criticism by maintaining authenticity. Tune in to hear about my journey from toxic relationships to embracing solitude, all in a quest for a happier, more authentic self.

Learn about how psychadelics have influenced my spiritual growth and why I found value in alternative medicinal practices.

The episode concludes with a powerful message on embracing our true selves, moving away from societal judgment or expectations, and embracing the freedom and happiness we all deserve. Join me on this journey of spiritual awakening as we explore it in a raw, unscripted, and authentic manner.

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In this compelling episode of the Making Milestones podcast, Shelby about her transformative journey from a traditional to a modern, compassionate horse trainer. This shift not only revolutionized her approach to horse training but also challenged her identity and provoked a deep internal reassessment.

This episode encompasses upturns and downturns as Shelby faced disillusionment, professional obstacles, and emotional turmoil on her path to transformation. Navigating through turbulent times, she cherishes the period of downfall as it bestowed her with a fresh perspective and a commitment to prioritize horse welfare over commercial success.

Furthermore, she elaborates on the challenges of authenticity in a profession rife with skepticism and traditionalist beliefs. Concluding the discussion on a transformative journey, there is emphasis accepting the trials of life to reconstruct identity and shape a more fulfilling professional path.

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In this eye-opening episode of the Making Milestones podcast, we delve into an often overlooked issue within the equestrian world: misogyny. Despite being a predominantly female industry, gender biases still pervade, creating an oppressive undercurrent that female riders and trainers have to navigate. 

We also delve into gender-related issues beyond women's experiences, acknowledging the struggles of non-binary individuals and members of the LGBTQ+ community.

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Engage in our heartfelt conversation as we critique societal norms, dispel stereotypes around ADHD, and highlight the legitimacy of self-diagnosis. We emphasize the importance of authenticity and explore the intriguing intersections of neurodivergence among humans and animals, pushing Equestrian boundaries.

Immerse yourself in our informative discussion on brain anatomy, stress, trauma, and neurodivergency in horses. We highlight the profound impact of early life trauma on equine behaviour, reinforcing the necessity for compassionate training methods and adequate care.

Discover the moving stories of Mustangs and the traumatic experiences they endure, reinforcing the similarities between horse and human responses to trauma. Our focus extends to human-induced traumas on these majestic creatures and our collective responsibility to change how we perceive and treat them.

We also probe into the fascinating parallels between human wealth hoarding and individual desires. In the process, we highlight the importance of transforming ourselves and how these changes cascade to improve the mental wellbeing of the horses under our charge. This episode underscores our collective responsibility to create safer and empathetic interactions with all lives around us.

This enlightening episode will resonate with listeners who have an affinity for horse care, personal growth, and the neurodivergent community, inviting them on a journey of self-understanding and inspiring change.

How is horse welfare impacted by patriarchy and capitalism? Listen to find out. *note* sorry about the audio on this, I used a new mic and it was not great but didn't want to re-record as I felt it was a good discussion.

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Talking more about lessons I've learned in 2023 and things I want to work on in the new year.

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Year end / new year journal prompts: https://instituteofyou.org/year-in-review-50-powerful-questions-to-reflect/